FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for first timers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, i’m looking at arranging a first meet and or going to my first venue, is there any advice you can give me? Fab hasn’t really shown much in that the age ranges I’m attracted to are into me so just wondering what events are like! Thanks

By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Events vary from one another as the hosts will have it set up differently to others but the few I have been to were lovely and warming

My advice is don't go expecting to get a play out of it and then you can enjoy it for what it will be for you.

Go with the intentions of making friends and you will have a good time.

People play at parties for lots of different reasons eg someone that knows their playmate they enjoy will be and have played with them before but due to their distances between them they only get to play at events mainly.

I been to events and its so obvious when guys have gone thinking they will be guaranteed a blow job or sex because when it doesn't happen their face and whole aura just becomes sour and unfriendly.

Keep an open mind and enjoy the social side of it

anything on top is just a bonus xx wishing you a great time OP

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I found events were absolutely amazing. Chatting to like minded people who generally highly sexed is such a buzz.

I would recommend events as a great place to actually interact with swingers.