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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha "

19 you man whore

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha 19 you man whore "

I'm keeping quiet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha 19 you man whore "

I've moved around alot, and I didn't start till I was 21

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha 19 you man whore

I'm keeping quiet "

Ohh come on, don't be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 1 less than 1000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger, I got to the stage that I wanted the number of girls I had slept with to be either the same or higher than my age....I should be good for another few years!??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More than 1 less than 1000 "

Hahaha well it's safe to assume triple digits ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Round about 20. Mostly women but three men in there as well.

Most memorable was first and only MMF (bi play involved) but not just for the obvious reasons.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"When I was younger, I got to the stage that I wanted the number of girls I had slept with to be either the same or higher than my age....I should be good for another few years!??"

Again, I'm keeping quiet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Round about 20. Mostly women but three men in there as well.

Most memorable was first and only MMF (bi play involved) but not just for the obvious reasons."

Thank you for fully sharing

What was special about it for you? I've only ever had one mmf but I'd only just met them and they rushed so I felt awquard as fuck and anxiety kicked in..

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Less then a thousand that all I can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than 1 less than 1000

Hahaha well it's safe to assume triple digits ? "

Why woukd you assume that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was younger, I got to the stage that I wanted the number of girls I had slept with to be either the same or higher than my age....I should be good for another few years!??

Again, I'm keeping quiet "

Wheres the fun in that tho hahaha

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"More than 1 less than 1000 "

Same here!

The occasions I enjoyed most were those with the last person I met. She kinda blew my mind tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was younger, I got to the stage that I wanted the number of girls I had slept with to be either the same or higher than my age....I should be good for another few years!??

Again, I'm keeping quiet "

thats a shame always mail me and let's chat about this xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More than 1 less than 1000

Hahaha well it's safe to assume triple digits ?

Why woukd you assume that?

"

Because between 1 and 1000 there are alot more triple digits than double or single x no other reason x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

about 5000 men and about 50 women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Less then a thousand that all I can say "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha "

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening. "

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp."

Ouch, bold statement my guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp."

As opposed to a real stud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between 70 /90,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

402

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"402

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Only 18 more to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp."

Bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Round about 20. Mostly women but three men in there as well.

Most memorable was first and only MMF (bi play involved) but not just for the obvious reasons.

Thank you for fully sharing

What was special about it for you? I've only ever had one mmf but I'd only just met them and they rushed so I felt awquard as fuck and anxiety kicked in.. "

Similarish. I was going through a manic high episode so at the time my brain was starting to implode in about three different ways (mix of anxiety, absolutely sky high and dipping a crash).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as "

I tore my frenulum and my bum was a bit sore the next day too but it was fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as

I tore my frenulum and my bum was a bit sore the next day too but it was fun. "

All healed now tho hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Round about 20. Mostly women but three men in there as well.

Most memorable was first and only MMF (bi play involved) but not just for the obvious reasons.

Thank you for fully sharing

What was special about it for you? I've only ever had one mmf but I'd only just met them and they rushed so I felt awquard as fuck and anxiety kicked in..

Similarish. I was going through a manic high episode so at the time my brain was starting to implode in about three different ways (mix of anxiety, absolutely sky high and dipping a crash)."

At least it's ticked off the bucket list hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Bit much "

Could be roid rage

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Errrrrrrmmmmmmmm.

I dont know. Never kept count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy"

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as

I tore my frenulum and my bum was a bit sore the next day too but it was fun.

All healed now tho hahaha "

It was in my early swinging days. Kid in a sweetshop days. I’m more a quality over quantity kinda girl now.

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Only eight, if were only counting penetrative sex. Most memorable was the very first time, a month before my 18th birthday, as it happened with an audience of other couples and singles.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not that many. In fact more women than men now! Does that make me a lesbian?!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth. "

i couldnt give a flying fuck what other people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that many. In fact more women than men now! Does that make me a lesbian?!"

You have to cut your hair and wear Dr Martins now

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not that many. In fact more women than men now! Does that make me a lesbian?!

You have to cut your hair and wear Dr Martins now "

. I’m a lipstick lesbian!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

13 I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that many. In fact more women than men now! Does that make me a lesbian?!

You have to cut your hair and wear Dr Martins now

. I’m a lipstick lesbian!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many.

Apparently my snoring stops others from sleeping.

I don't understand this. I have never, ever woken up and thought to myself "crikey, stop snoring, I've just woken myself up"

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it matters on how many. Or how frequent or even wether it’s a man or woman telling you. What matters is if you get offended by the answer. And if you do you maybe shouldn’t have asked?

And no I don’t know. Honest answer, I’ve another list of people I don’t know the answer on, I don’t care about that one either

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Around the 20 mark for both of us…C’s ladies count is more than guys this year

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as

I tore my frenulum and my bum was a bit sore the next day too but it was fun.

All healed now tho hahaha

It was in my early swinging days. Kid in a sweetshop days. I’m more a quality over quantity kinda girl now. "

See that's another thing.

Quality over quantity.

By the time a women is in her 40s she been at the wicket more than Ian Botham had runs.

She could be meeting at clubs, alone with partner so the numbers rack up into hundreds.

I don't know why people are shocked by this.

Man are the same they go to gangbangs, dogging clubs etc so they need a calculator to punch them numbers too lol.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as

I tore my frenulum and my bum was a bit sore the next day too but it was fun.

All healed now tho hahaha

It was in my early swinging days. Kid in a sweetshop days. I’m more a quality over quantity kinda girl now. "

Exactly the same as me Rachael! Kid in a sweetie shop

I was a very later developer - at age 30 I left the 1st guy I had ever had sex with.

But by god, my late 40's/early 50's I've had a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About this many ........

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By *enland doggersCouple
over a year ago

PE12 / PE13

I don’t think I’m at 100 yet but I think I’m close.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Only 7 for me (Rob)

About 20 for Mrs, we’ve been together for nearly 26 years and only get to “do this” every so often, Mrs was my 4th and I was just her 2nd ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha

I slept with around the same.... one evening.

Ohh damn I bet that was hot as

I tore my frenulum and my bum was a bit sore the next day too but it was fun.

All healed now tho hahaha

It was in my early swinging days. Kid in a sweetshop days. I’m more a quality over quantity kinda girl now.

Exactly the same as me Rachael! Kid in a sweetie shop

I was a very later developer - at age 30 I left the 1st guy I had ever had sex with.

But by god, my late 40's/early 50's I've had a lot of fun "

I think I’d only slept with about 20 people up to age 42......

Then all hell broke loose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 for me.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think it's around 20 for me. Luke

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth. "

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig"

Oh I dunno! Three Mars bars is a bit piggish!

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By *uby Tuesday 55Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin

If they're sleeping, then I'm doing something wrong

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

Oh I dunno! Three Mars bars is a bit piggish!"

I'd give you some

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By *inyppMan
over a year ago

watertown

Just one!! I married the first girl I asked out!! Together 41 years now.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

Oh I dunno! Three Mars bars is a bit piggish!

I'd give you some "

I could probably eat 3 Mars ice creams

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

Oh I dunno! Three Mars bars is a bit piggish!

I'd give you some

I could probably eat 3 Mars ice creams "

I could, without a doubt

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If a guy i was interested in asked how many people id slept with i would block him as its none of his business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very handsome in the 90s and I liked to do alot of things....so maybe.....30ish? ....in 1990

Then in 1991 it was......lol

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Three women one guy - Mr.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I only count 4...... the others were faked o’s so don’t count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big fat 7 for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im pleading the fifth Px

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"im pleading the fifth Px "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I go away for 10 minuets come back and the threads full haha thank you all for sharing and joining in

Let's add, how many orgasms have you faked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go away for 10 minuets come back and the threads full haha thank you all for sharing and joining in

Let's add, how many orgasms have you faked?"

I have faked 2, once when it felt horrendous and I had to leave and the other was because I couldn't go any more hahaha

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I was doing pretty well and then fab happened. What’s important to me is I’ve known and liked them all as people, no randoms, no mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha 19 you man whore

I'm keeping quiet

Ohh come on, don't be shy"

Shy??? BAHAHAHA.

Certainly more than me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I go away for 10 minuets come back and the threads full haha thank you all for sharing and joining in

Let's add, how many orgasms have you faked?

I have faked 2, once when it felt horrendous and I had to leave and the other was because I couldn't go any more hahaha"

Did you have one of those cumblock sessions where it just won't come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with? Not many

Had sex with ... more!

I’ve got zero interest in spending an entire night with someone that I’m not in a relationship with.

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By *ewday1234Man
over a year ago

greater Manchester

64 give or take. Most have come in last few yrs in my 30 s . As iv got older become more sexual confident . In my 20 s was still learning and finding my way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 30. More than 20.

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Honestly, Just 2 or 3 (each) …we were up all night with all the others

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

This is a question I never ask because you are unlikely to get an honest answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with? 2

Had sexy time with? More than 2

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Honestly, I haven’t a clue!

It was less than 10 before fab, I lost count at around 35 over 3 years ago.

If I were to guess, I’d say around the 50 mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 10

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Less than 10 "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've honestly got no idea of the exact number. It's not in three figures though, so I'll just leave it at that. I had a slutty few years when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've honestly got no idea of the exact number. It's not in three figures though, so I'll just leave it at that. I had a slutty few years when I was younger "

What with you being so 'old' now and all

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

2

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

But….but….I’m a pure and untouched virgin….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough

Most memorable after work with a exotic enthusiastic student volunteer in the work building whilst boxers were next door in gym or once in the woods at night cant decide

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I stopped counting ages ago.

More than 25, but I've never been in a long term relationship.

In the last 6 years, I've only slept with 2 men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it's embarrassing. If you've slept with say 5 people, each 100 times. What's the difference with having sex with 500 different people. It's all sex isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha "

I don’t tend to sleep with men - I have other uses for them

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Just realised I didn't say but it's around 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why it's embarrassing. If you've slept with say 5 people, each 100 times. What's the difference with having sex with 500 different people. It's all sex isn't it? "

I'd agree with that. If the question was how many times have you had sex then the answer would be 'I have no idea'.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I don't see why it's embarrassing. If you've slept with say 5 people, each 100 times. What's the difference with having sex with 500 different people. It's all sex isn't it?

I'd agree with that. If the question was how many times have you had sex then the answer would be 'I have no idea'."

In the thousands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why it's embarrassing. If you've slept with say 5 people, each 100 times. What's the difference with having sex with 500 different people. It's all sex isn't it? "

And conversely if you've had sex once each with 100 people then you've only had sex 100 times.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20"

I don’t keep notes but yes I remember every single person.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20"

Sadly yes, some really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do "

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

A few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly couldn’t tell you how many, but in the tens not the hundreds. There’s been a few really memorable ones too, hard to specify one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why it's embarrassing. If you've slept with say 5 people, each 100 times. What's the difference with having sex with 500 different people. It's all sex isn't it?

I'd agree with that. If the question was how many times have you had sex then the answer would be 'I have no idea'."

Exactly that!! You said it better than me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing? "

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp."

Wrong on all levels

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant?

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

[Removed by poster at 03/06/21 16:51:02]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now "

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I've lost count. I'd have to sit down with a pen and paper and go through the years to work it out. I'll settle on just saying plenty!

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Some women in here have had more men in the one night than I've had all my life pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one) "

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20"

I can remember all the names, bar one whom i never 'met' /saw

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why does the number matter at all?

OP you're only 30 so I suppose bragging and the fact you've not been doing it that long has some sort of merit to you but the sooner we all stop placing value on the number of sexual encounters, the better.

Especially for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women in here have had more men in the one night than I've had all my life pmsl"

That's because you're straight?

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've only slept with two, hubby and a GF. All the rest I went home after

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant? "
Just a number and irrelavant. I only mention my number on threads like this never any other time

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some women in here have had more men in the one night than I've had all my life pmsl"

And? Is that in anyway important to you or 'women'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special "

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go away for 10 minuets come back and the threads full haha thank you all for sharing and joining in

Let's add, how many orgasms have you faked?

I have faked 2, once when it felt horrendous and I had to leave and the other was because I couldn't go any more hahaha

Did you have one of those cumblock sessions where it just won't come?

"

That's the one haha

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special "

You could get them to write feedback on it and have a scorecard for different things

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I go away for 10 minuets come back and the threads full haha thank you all for sharing and joining in

Let's add, how many orgasms have you faked?

I have faked 2, once when it felt horrendous and I had to leave and the other was because I couldn't go any more hahaha

Did you have one of those cumblock sessions where it just won't come?

That's the one haha"

Really frustrating

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Do people actually keep a tally of people they slept with? I told a guy once when asked and he was all pissy it was more than him so dumped me lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score "

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

You could get them to write feedback on it and have a scorecard for different things

"

That would be silly.

That's what the other three people in the room are there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42."

And how about yesterday?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Less than Mick, more than Cliff!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant? "

For me it's irrelevant. My sex life has been adventurous and I love sex and intimacy so I've managed to pack in a fair few encounters over the years. More to come too hopefully!

Ive also had long periods of being single or in monogamous relationships.

But I do know one or two people who have used their sexuality to make up for low self esteem which has led to unhealthy or imbalanced situations. Perhaps they might feel differently. They certainly don't deserve a 'tramp' label though... No one does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had great times with a few men and women.... all good fun and hopefully plenty more years of the best kinda fun you can have with your clothes off!!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

You could get them to write feedback on it and have a scorecard for different things

That would be silly.

That's what the other three people in the room are there for "

I did think about the sex judges, my bad

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"Some women in here have had more men in the one night than I've had all my life pmsl

And? Is that in anyway important to you or 'women'?"

No just stating a fact...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on "

It's not about what I could improve on - it's their performance. If they want to grade me they need their own spreadsheet.

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By *usty manc milfWoman
over a year ago

Salford

Been playing for about 5 years, guessing avg a couple a week (some with none some with well more) plus youth, maybe around 400-450.

But never kept count, I don’t see it as a bad thing or a good thing. Just a thing

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So how many people have you slept with?

"

Out of curiosity, is there an accepted definition/criteria?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig"

He didn't say that's what he thinks. He said because they don't want to look a trap. Which is true. If a woman said she said she slept with 100 fellas she can be perceived that way where's the same for a fella he a stud. He didn't say he would think they are a tamp.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

I can remember all the names, bar one whom i never 'met' /saw "

Names to impressive

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some women in here have had more men in the one night than I've had all my life pmsl

And? Is that in anyway important to you or 'women'? No just stating a fact..."

So there's nothing wrong with women (all women, not just the ones on Fab) fucking more men in one night than you've had in a life time then?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on "

No you do the scoring and feedback when drinking tea and eating biscuits between rounds so when you start again they can tell you if you have taken it all in

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

He didn't say that's what he thinks. He said because they don't want to look a trap. Which is true. If a woman said she said she slept with 100 fellas she can be perceived that way where's the same for a fella he a stud. He didn't say he would think they are a tamp."

Which is why the numbers game has to stop.

It is meaningless to anyone other than some men who want do be derogatory to woman.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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No ones business but mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how many people have you slept with?

Out of curiosity, is there an accepted definition/criteria?

"

Nope just curious really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on

No you do the scoring and feedback when drinking tea and eating biscuits between rounds so when you start again they can tell you if you have taken it all in "

I love that you give a tea and biscuits break

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No ones business but mine "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant? "

Can work the other way around too. I've only had sex with 2 men, though been sexual with 2 more. It can make you feel a tad naive in this place.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

He didn't say that's what he thinks. He said because they don't want to look a trap. Which is true. If a woman said she said she slept with 100 fellas she can be perceived that way where's the same for a fella he a stud. He didn't say he would think they are a tamp."

I don't think what others think about how many people you have slept with really matters and nobody should feel bad about it or feel the need to hide it.

No I was asking him if he was, that why I put a question mark as wasn't sure.

At the end of the day sex is about having fun and there's nothing wrong with that at all

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on

No you do the scoring and feedback when drinking tea and eating biscuits between rounds so when you start again they can tell you if you have taken it all in

I love that you give a tea and biscuits break "

Other treats also

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant?

Can work the other way around too. I've only had sex with 2 men, though been sexual with 2 more. It can make you feel a tad naive in this place. "

Fascinating, isn't it.

Who defines what a large number is and by what age?

3 0r 3000 sexual encounters has no bearing on experience, pleasure, skill, knowledge or in fact...anything at all.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special "

I just need to check my filing cabinet where I store all the compulsory after-sex questionnaires.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

I just need to check my filing cabinet where I store all the compulsory after-sex questionnaires. "

You can grab them during the tea break

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"A women will never ever tell you truthfully how many men she has slept with.

Because she doesn't want to look like a tramp.

Ouch, bold statement my guy

I don't think it's such a bold statement. Soon as a women racks up numbers of men she has been through she gets labelled alsorts doesn't she?

Look at some profiles which state 'if you have tons of verifications your not for us' etc.

So for her to look and sound good she won't ever tell you the truth.

So you're one of the people that thinks because a woman sleeps with a lot of people it makes her look bad?

Some people just like lots of sex and with different people because it's fun.

If you eat 3 Mars bars but someone else only wants 1, it doesn't make you a pig

He didn't say that's what he thinks. He said because they don't want to look a trap. Which is true. If a woman said she said she slept with 100 fellas she can be perceived that way where's the same for a fella he a stud. He didn't say he would think they are a tamp.

Which is why the numbers game has to stop.

It is meaningless to anyone other than some men who want do be derogatory to woman."

It's the double standards. Anyway easier thing to do is, don't ask and dont tell.

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

A lady never tells.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ"

Now you’d have to define “loads” which is a personal opinion. And there a so many variables that can effect a number not least age, relationship status, location .... list goes on.

It’s all bollocks anyway.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant?

Can work the other way around too. I've only had sex with 2 men, though been sexual with 2 more. It can make you feel a tad naive in this place.

Fascinating, isn't it.

Who defines what a large number is and by what age?

3 0r 3000 sexual encounters has no bearing on experience, pleasure, skill, knowledge or in fact...anything at all."

It is there must be a golden spot of how many you have slept with. But I'm unaware of the number lol. And yes agree numbers are irrelevant, it comes down to is the sex you are having at that moment in time is good or not doesn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 men, 1 woman. I can't possibly say which occasion I enjoyed the most,so I'll say all of them!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant?

Can work the other way around too. I've only had sex with 2 men, though been sexual with 2 more. It can make you feel a tad naive in this place.

Fascinating, isn't it.

Who defines what a large number is and by what age?

3 0r 3000 sexual encounters has no bearing on experience, pleasure, skill, knowledge or in fact...anything at all.

It is there must be a golden spot of how many you have slept with. But I'm unaware of the number lol. And yes agree numbers are irrelevant, it comes down to is the sex you are having at that moment in time is good or not doesn't it. "

Abso-bloody-lutely!

Take it from a 60 year old that has been single since the age of 26; what's mind blowing with one person, is dull with the next and bloody awful with another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ"

Much of society does still frown upon a sexually liberated Woman, this is sadly true.

Some other parts of society like to find offence in words, also sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count at 60 but most of that was upto my mid 20's. Nowadays i really struggle to meet anyone so sex is very scarce.

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham


"I go away for 10 minuets come back and the threads full haha thank you all for sharing and joining in

Let's add, how many orgasms have you faked?"

I married my second bf so wheb I left the marriage at 35 I'd only slept with 2 guys. Then I found the world of swinging and freedom and lost count! I would guess around 70 now. And 1 woman so far....

I probably faked some when I was married lol but none since. I'm blessed with being multiorgasmic so it takes very little to make me cum, love it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Quite a few but I am an old fart who enjoys group sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and Mrs A have had pretty much the same account of sexual partners.

Genuinely, my favourite time was our first time together, it was pure electric, like neither of us have experienced previously, a real connection and it blew both our minds.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ

Much of society does still frown upon a sexually liberated Woman, this is sadly true.

Some other parts of society like to find offence in words, also sadly. "

High five to those that don't care what people think and just enjoy themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ

Much of society does still frown upon a sexually liberated Woman, this is sadly true.

Some other parts of society like to find offence in words, also sadly.

High five to those that don't care what people think and just enjoy themselves "

I couldn't care what people think of my number, if it's too high then that's their problem. It's a swingers site innit! I tell ya I wish my number was higher!!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Depends on what you mean by slept with.

Actually slept all night in the same bed as... probably 6.

Had sex with, not sure but more than 30.

Had sexual fun with in some way, I have no idea... lots

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ

Much of society does still frown upon a sexually liberated Woman, this is sadly true.

Some other parts of society like to find offence in words, also sadly.

High five to those that don't care what people think and just enjoy themselves

I couldn't care what people think of my number, if it's too high then that's their problem. It's a swingers site innit! I tell ya I wish my number was higher!! "

Just enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe around 30?

I never kept tabs

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Depends on what you mean by slept with.

Actually slept all night in the same bed as... probably 6.

Had sex with, not sure but more than 30.

Had sexual fun with in some way, I have no idea... lots"

I couldn't say which I enjoyed most. Each time is different and many are great but for different reasons.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"FFS ok ok

What I meant was if a women tells you honestly she has slept with loads of guys usually people would call her slut etc.

That's why they never tell you. Jesus Christ

Much of society does still frown upon a sexually liberated Woman, this is sadly true.

Some other parts of society like to find offence in words, also sadly.

High five to those that don't care what people think and just enjoy themselves

I couldn't care what people think of my number, if it's too high then that's their problem. It's a swingers site innit! I tell ya I wish my number was higher!! "

Exactly and I will definitely be adding to mine. I reckon I have at least another 30 years ahead of me unless something goes wrong

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha "

In a single event or over the course of sexuality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on

No you do the scoring and feedback when drinking tea and eating biscuits between rounds so when you start again they can tell you if you have taken it all in "

Tea and biscuit break? Maybe that's where've I've been going wrong

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"So how many people have you slept with?

Also, which occasion did you enjoy the most?

I'll start,

I have slept with 19 people and the most memorable for me was on Blackpool prom on the steps, I looked up and saw a guy getting off to us hahaha "

Slept with about 9... had sex or sexual contact.. must be well into 4 figures.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Do people actually keep note and remember every single person that they slept with. I can't remember as a guess would say between 10 and 20

Sadly yes, some really do

I thought everyone had spreadsheets for this type of thing?

I guess people have converted to documents or notes on phone now

First thing I do afterwards is fire up Google Docs and add a new entry (or amend an existing one)

I'm sincerely hoping that you do this whilst they're still laying in your bed?! Got to make them feel special

Yes and makes them feel extra special when I'm mumbling about performance etc. and adding it all up to get the final score

Oh my this and Piscean dream's comment made me laugh

Just picturing you panting seconds after finishing, furiously typing your review and asking her what you could've improved on

No you do the scoring and feedback when drinking tea and eating biscuits between rounds so when you start again they can tell you if you have taken it all in

Tea and biscuit break? Maybe that's where've I've been going wrong "

Always remember to be after though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to count

Too many to remember

Too many to care

Just too many

I've got a bit more control and self respect these days

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Can i ask a question on the back of this? Do any of you feel differently for having had a large number of partners. Or is it just a number and irrelevant?

Can work the other way around too. I've only had sex with 2 men, though been sexual with 2 more. It can make you feel a tad naive in this place.

Fascinating, isn't it.

Who defines what a large number is and by what age?

3 0r 3000 sexual encounters has no bearing on experience, pleasure, skill, knowledge or in fact...anything at all.

It is there must be a golden spot of how many you have slept with. But I'm unaware of the number lol. And yes agree numbers are irrelevant, it comes down to is the sex you are having at that moment in time is good or not doesn't it.

Abso-bloody-lutely!

Take it from a 60 year old that has been single since the age of 26; what's mind blowing with one person, is dull with the next and bloody awful with another.

"

Thank you, sometimes it nice to hear it from the other side

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