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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve seen a lot of posts that some guys can’t understand why they aren’t receiving responses to their messages and feel let down by the whole fab experience. I’ve been thinking about this for a few days and wondering if guys are doing something wrong and not realising it. Went down to Leeds today, saw lots of happy people, both men and women. Then I realised what everyone is getting wrong on fab.. this should be a fun experience messaging on fab. There should be no expectations messaging someone. Firstly building rapport , having a positive mental attitude of wanting to be with that person you’re messaging, not some cynical, hi, let’s bang. Treating everyone you message as a human being , not free sex. No one wants to feel they’re been used and not valued. I’m not a performing deal, likewise I don’t pander to anyone, I’m just here to meet someone nice, have fun. Also the social stuff, when I do get round to the empire, club scene,that doesn’t give anyone a free pass to be anyone’s plaything. Just there to chill out, have fun,. I’m very nice, if you ever see me and recognise me from my profile and want verifying I’ll be happy to. Thanks for reading, I won’t be responding to comments, as I feel there’s nothing I could add to this post. Be good to one another and have lots of fun. |
Anyhoo.... The main complaints on fab is not getting responses to first messages. How do people build rapport with others of they can't even get a hello back?
Of course there are those who just want to bang away (of all genders) and of that works , it works.
There is no one size fits all solution to being left unread ornot getting replies. Life isn't like that. 
