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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so ladies what is the best thing to say when a male messages you for the first time

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder too mate lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wonder too mate lol "

Well I hope this can help

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must include sky remote with cock photo in 1st message.. its sure to work.. always a winner and part of fabs policy/rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello my name is insert name was browsing though your profile and love reading it love such and such a part insert something form they profile also your pics really caught my eye your very beautiful was just wondering if you would like a little chat to see maybe we’re on the same wave length of you don’t want to just it’s ok I understand but thank you for your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my type, go eff yourself. Had those two. The second one was sent by someone who was admittedly off her nut on drugs. I could have been a dancing bear wearing a tuxedo and sporting a cane in her head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must include sky remote with cock photo in 1st message.. its sure to work.. always a winner and part of fabs policy/rules"

I think first message with cock and remote pic is too much

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I've checked out your profile op & you could say anything you liked & it'd be fine with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello my name is insert name was browsing though your profile and love reading it love such and such a part insert something form they profile also your pics really caught my eye your very beautiful was just wondering if you would like a little chat to see maybe we’re on the same wave length of you don’t want to just it’s ok I understand but thank you for your time "

Yeah I normally go with something like that to be fair

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wanna fuck?

You wet?

Do you like my cock?

Where you from?

That's just some things NOT to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello my name is insert name was browsing though your profile and love reading it love such and such a part insert something form they profile also your pics really caught my eye your very beautiful was just wondering if you would like a little chat to see maybe we’re on the same wave length of you don’t want to just it’s ok I understand but thank you for your time "

That's I normally do but don't work too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wanna fuck?

You wet?

Do you like my cock?

Where you from?

That's just some things NOT to say. "

Yeah I don’t get guys that put that

It’s ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello my name is insert name was browsing though your profile and love reading it love such and such a part insert something form they profile also your pics really caught my eye your very beautiful was just wondering if you would like a little chat to see maybe we’re on the same wave length of you don’t want to just it’s ok I understand but thank you for your time

That's I normally do but don't work too lol "

Works for me but must be the dress lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just write the message naturally. Read the profile make sure you tick the boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like cold calling PPI claims when you see some of the first messages. In all honesty your suitability is assessed in a nano second... and that's not always right but I hold my hand up to it.

I rarely find messages send cold get any kind of positive response. I much rather interact with people from the forums because I have people watched them, I have noticed their humour, flirtation, and it's so much easier to click even with platonic friendships.

There are threads which I use to let guys know that I am interested in them.

NBVN x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Hello my name is insert name was browsing though your profile and love reading it love such and such a part insert something form they profile also your pics really caught my eye your very beautiful was just wondering if you would like a little chat to see maybe we’re on the same wave length of you don’t want to just it’s ok I understand but thank you for your time "

I mean....yeah. this one.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Wanna fuck?

You wet?

Do you like my cock?

Where you from?

That's just some things NOT to say. "

Along with "nice tits" and "I'd make her scream".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've checked out your profile op & you could say anything you liked & it'd be fine with me "

Haha was just thinking the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really much you can say that’s guaranteed to generate a response. All you can do is attach face pictures and hope the person you’re messaging finds you attractive. That’s all there is to it. Obviously be polite when you message but the text doesn’t really matter. It’s the pictures that determine a response.

If I was a guy I’d send one of the following messages.

If the profile didn’t show a face only a body picture I’d say body looks immense do you have a pretty face to match? This is me (attach face pics)

If they have face pics I’d say you look amazing this is me (attach face pics).

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Personally I’d like a response which reflected our profile or status without jumping straight to the point or even better something totally random and wacky to catch us off guard.

Like are you a dog or cat person? Which also links me back to your profile coz then it brings the focus back to you while still engaging with us

The best thing is to be you that way you find the connections

Bx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ok so ladies what is the best thing to say when a male messages you for the first time

Asking for a friend "

What would you ask someone in a bar if you liked them besides offering a drink be creative!!!

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