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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I got the prompt on a facebook story, whilst I already knew the answer, it got me thinking for a while, it is because I like my own company and that I can do what I want when I want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s cause every time I cook something I explain what I’m doing to an invisible camera crew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s cause every time I cook something I explain what I’m doing to an invisible camera crew.

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That'll do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Because life is sooooo much easier and a lot less complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice.

I’m not interested in the forever thing or the 24/7 thing either.

Love is not on my radar, I value my heart too much to have it shattered again.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I like to pick my nose and fart without being punched on the arm...

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton


"It’s cause every time I cook something I explain what I’m doing to an invisible camera crew.

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I'm not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice mainly… suits my current lifestyle I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because i had enough self-respect to walk away. Px

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

My cock is too big,I'm afraid I might injure someone.....

I think I have commitment issues,things start getting serious and I start thinking this isnt me...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Because life is sooooo much easier and a lot less complicated "

This

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

I haven't found someone who is into my kinks/ swinging in the vanilla world or from the kink/ swinging world who makes me laugh and enjoy live outside the bedroom

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like being single although financially I struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the only person who I fully opened up to broke my heart and I can never trust or love again

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because it’s always my fault...

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I like being single although financially I struggle."

I hear you on that sister!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Its not really single when you’re a swinger though it is.....I find traditional relationships limit who you are and what you can become , for a lot of people they are the safe option.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Because being single gives me the freedom to live my life on my own terms.

I don't have to comform to another's expectations.

Wasted too much on my life on women who don't value me for who and what I am over how much money they can squeeze out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single for so many reasons

I'm unagreeable

I don't want anyone else's family in my life.

I don't want to live with anyone

And I'm mad

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Because for the last 34 years, mutual attraction hasn't happened.

I'd love to have a partner, I'm not single by choice unless you count choosing not settling for a sub par relationship.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Because I choose to be.

And I choose to be because it's safer. Don't think I've got another liar/cheater or head fuck in me before shit goes nuclear so aint taking any chances.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m not single. We do both have singles profiles though as we’re happy to meet separately

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because apparently I'm only good enough to fuck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's very a very simple life that's rewarding to me. Relationships are not off-limits but I don't actively seek 1 out. A large bed to myself in hot summer weather is also better than sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choice.

I’m not interested in the forever thing or the 24/7 thing either.

Love is not on my radar, I value my heart too much to have it shattered again.

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This

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Because apparently I'm only good enough to fuck."

You too?

I've often contemplated the vibe I give out and I concluded years ago that I'm so fucking sexy, they cant see past my hotness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not and I couldn't be happier. Was single long enough to realise what I was missing

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I enjoy my single life now. So why ruin it with having to deal with someone else’s emotional needs and demands. I buy what I like, go wherever I want to go and live however I choose.

Would I give it up for the right person...in a heartbeat but until she comes along, I’m happy as I am

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I live with two daughters and couldn't cope with a proper relationship. For me fwbs are perfect all the fun without the stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the chances of finding someone who fits a very specific criteria are slim to none. They would have to....

- be happy to never live with me

- not take my need for solitude as an insult or emotional rejection

- accept that me having children on the spectrum means they'll never come first

- be open and honest about who they are

- be amazingly attractive to me (I don't mean good-looking necessarily)

- be sensitive to my needs as a woman on the spectrum

- be just as comfortable letting me support them as they are supporting me in times of need

- have a similar outlook and values

- be kind and caring and loyal

- adore my kids

I had all that with my last partner, except for the honesty. Never malicious lies, but enough fibs to kill the trust and without that the rest just crumbles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s cause every time I cook something I explain what I’m doing to an invisible camera crew.

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What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz I'm a cunt!

Is that enough info for ya?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried the alternative - preferring this for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the cuntbag of an ex, decided to fuck her ex and move in with him. 6 years down the pan but fuck it, We was so incompatible especially sexually, I wanted it most days, she wanted it a lot less.

Now I’ve never been happier, I am very sexual, and get to explore that side a lot more, lots of meets from tinder, and a few of here each week keeps me healthy and happy, not looking for another relationship in a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner died. Now I'm only wanted for a fuck.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Cos no fucker wants me longer than a shag

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london

Because my wife died and nobody wants someone old like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I like to pick my nose and fart without being punched on the arm... "
and you can’t pull a decent bird for them exact reasons ! Go play with your camera

This is what happens wen you hurt someone’s feelings !

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By *ck BasswardsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Because my wife died and nobody wants someone old like me. "

Thats not true, if you choose to be alone thats one thing, but dont convince yourself that no one wants you, and especially not just cos you are older, some ladies like an older gent, (ladies back me up here plz) sorry to hear about your wife…. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because my wife died and nobody wants someone old like me.

Thats not true, if you choose to be alone thats one thing, but dont convince yourself that no one wants you, and especially not just cos you are older, some ladies like an older gent, (ladies back me up here plz) sorry to hear about your wife…. X"

Nice

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T

Was engaged bought house etc but

Had my heart not just broken but stomped on just before my 24th birthday!

(She cheated & got preggers by him then took me to cleaners!)

Had commitment and self confidence issues ever since, even more so coz I put on a lot of weight which has yo-yo’ed up n down over the years.

Longest I seen someone for since lasted only 4 months, shortest was 5 days!

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By *ck BasswardsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone? "

*Slams head first into cake, and eats it whilst face down in it* mumbles “anyone else want any of this cake?” ????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone? "

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

*Slams head first into cake, and eats it whilst face down in it* mumbles “anyone else want any of this cake?” ????????????????"

Silly, I’ve brought more than one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

*Slams head first into cake, and eats it whilst face down in it* mumbles “anyone else want any of this cake?” ????????????????"
I think I’ve made myself clear on the cake situation

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit "

I bought five, thought they might be needed.

I’ve also hidden the gin, tea anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I bought five, thought they might be needed.

I’ve also hidden the gin, tea anyone? "

You don’t disappoint!

I always say it about you ! Never comes empty handed

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I bought five, thought they might be needed.

I’ve also hidden the gin, tea anyone?

You don’t disappoint!

I always say it about you ! Never comes empty handed "

I even help with the washing up after!

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By *ck BasswardsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit "

Did someone say cake again? Caaaaaaake hahahaha here stop saying cake, my cake-dar is bing bonging like countryside shire church on a wedding day haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I bought five, thought they might be needed.

I’ve also hidden the gin, tea anyone?

You don’t disappoint!

I always say it about you ! Never comes empty handed

I even help with the washing up after! "

I know your a gent !

But seriously where you got the cake stashed ? last time I swear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

Did someone say cake again? Caaaaaaake hahahaha here stop saying cake, my cake-dar is bing bonging like countryside shire church on a wedding day haha"

Just paid attention to this message !

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I bought five, thought they might be needed.

I’ve also hidden the gin, tea anyone?

You don’t disappoint!

I always say it about you ! Never comes empty handed

I even help with the washing up after!

I know your a gent !

But seriously where you got the cake stashed ? last time I swear "

It’s in the pantry, top shelf, behind the cornflakes

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again "

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted!

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

Out of choice I'm single, I still get a fair bit of attention.

I don't think I coukd ever go vanilla again. But if the right one comes along who knows eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one waaaaannnntttts meeeeeee!!! :’) :’)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one waaaaannnntttts meeeeeee!!! :’) :’)"

Well....that failed miserably. What is the crying icon?????

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted! "

You just have to learn to switch them feelings off as ruthless as it sounds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't have enough in me for another full on relationship... And I like just being me and doing wtf I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been taken for granted, let down and betrayed so I’m staying single as that was hard.

Plus I think Kitty is to far away from me and wouldn’t marry me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted! "
mate calm down I’ll pay you for the cake ! Nobody is taking you for granted

Where’s the pantry again ?

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted!

You just have to learn to switch them feelings off as ruthless as it sounds x"

I can’t be ruthless, I’m too much of a softy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted!

You just have to learn to switch them feelings off as ruthless as it sounds x"
nope sounds spot on !

You can’t let people walk all over you ! Next you be bringing them cake kidding

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Cos nobody wants me.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted! mate calm down I’ll pay you for the cake ! Nobody is taking you for granted

Where’s the pantry again ? "

That made me piss my pants!

It’s in the kitchen, third door on the left!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No one waaaaannnntttts meeeeeee!!! :’) :’)

Well....that failed miserably. What is the crying icon????? "

You have to put a ( to be sad, not a)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather be single than unhappy in a relationship. Will never be taken for granted again

I’m sure I said that the last time before this one took me for granted! mate calm down I’ll pay you for the cake ! Nobody is taking you for granted

Where’s the pantry again ?

That made me piss my pants!

It’s in the kitchen, third door on the left! "

Mate your gaff is like the crystal fucking maze ! Oh and wtf is a life size cardboard cut out of graham nortan doing in your kitchen !

Anyway got the cake !

Where you at ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos nobody wants me."

Have you cake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got the prompt on a facebook story, whilst I already knew the answer, it got me thinking for a while, it is because I like my own company and that I can do what I want when I want it "

Why can’t you do what you want when you want when you’re in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one waaaaannnntttts meeeeeee!!! :’) :’)

Well....that failed miserably. What is the crying icon????? "
never a fail mate just a practice run for when you succeed !

Im talking nonsense!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

A can of worms I’d rather not open

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Because I'm not all that appealing I guess and I'm bad at choosing a suitable partner so I stopped looking for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't help chopping them up into little bits n bake pies fwa ha ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because she left me for a guy at her works

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london


"Because my wife died and nobody wants someone old like me.

Thats not true, if you choose to be alone thats one thing, but dont convince yourself that no one wants you, and especially not just cos you are older, some ladies like an older gent, (ladies back me up here plz) sorry to hear about your wife…. X"

Thank you for your kindness. Still hoping to meet someone who likes an older man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my previous marriage didnt work out so ive been single now for 7 years and its worked out pretty well for me, less stress and get to enjoy my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to know this because as a human being I’m very kind and have empathy for people. I’m extremely loyal, like when I’m interested in someone and have feelings for them nothing would turn my head. I’m funny as fuck, I can make roast potatoes on a cooked dinner that would blow your fucking head off cos they’re so tasty. I can bake savoury stuff, sweet stuff. I swallow, I rim plus I’m attractive and have a lush fanny.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I’d like to know this because as a human being I’m very kind and have empathy for people. I’m extremely loyal, like when I’m interested in someone and have feelings for them nothing would turn my head. I’m funny as fuck, I can make roast potatoes on a cooked dinner that would blow your fucking head off cos they’re so tasty. I can bake savoury stuff, sweet stuff. I swallow, I rim plus I’m attractive and have a lush fanny. "

Definitely a keeper I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After two long term relationships I just can't be doing with another one.

And I'm far too kinky for another one maybe.

Like my own company too much now and just want to have fun and not be restricted. And I don't mean that in just a sexual sense.

And I want to go out for a night I don't want to begging the guy for three and a half months like I did before.... Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too good to be true, or at least that's what I tell myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to know this because as a human being I’m very kind and have empathy for people. I’m extremely loyal, like when I’m interested in someone and have feelings for them nothing would turn my head. I’m funny as fuck, I can make roast potatoes on a cooked dinner that would blow your fucking head off cos they’re so tasty. I can bake savoury stuff, sweet stuff. I swallow, I rim plus I’m attractive and have a lush fanny. "

as soon as you mention roast potatoes #CarbHeaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have been single for too long , I wouldn’t know where to start, hide behind work and kids as a excuse , but lockdown made me realise I need to get out there again. I’d love to find someone, but lack of confidence isn’t the most attractive trait lol especially on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right....try this again with the right icon....

No one waaaaaaaannnts meeeeeeeeeee :’(:’(

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I don't want to be single... Just unfortunate situations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right....try this again with the right icon....

No one waaaaaaaannnts meeeeeeeeeee :’(:’( "

NOOOOOOOOO. What’s wrong with my crying icon?????? :’(

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I like being single although financially I struggle."

I like being single and financially im better off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two long term relationships I just can't be doing with another one.

And I'm far too kinky for another one maybe.

Like my own company too much now and just want to have fun and not be restricted. And I don't mean that in just a sexual sense.

And I want to go out for a night I don't want to begging the guy for three and a half months like I did before.... Fuck that. "

on a serious note though, you sound like a keeper..im surprised no one has taken you...i would if i didnt live far away from you

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton


"Coz I'm a cunt!

Is that enough info for ya?! "

Definitely this apparently

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Choice.

I’m not interested in the forever thing or the 24/7 thing either.

Love is not on my radar, I value my heart too much to have it shattered again.

"
That is good and same here, it is by choice too

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By *ojobinksMan
over a year ago

swindon

Not single here but I’m happy with my life choices

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I got the prompt on a facebook story, whilst I already knew the answer, it got me thinking for a while, it is because I like my own company and that I can do what I want when I want it

Why can’t you do what you want when you want when you’re in a relationship? "
Yes, you can do that too, but I guess that you couldnt do it to 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I have been single for too long , I wouldn’t know where to start, hide behind work and kids as a excuse , but lockdown made me realise I need to get out there again. I’d love to find someone, but lack of confidence isn’t the most attractive trait lol especially on here "

I wouldn’t say it was by choice although I have in the past avoided relationships , probably too battle scarred from past experiences. But I’m older, a little wiser and definitely feeling the loneliness a bit more than I used too!

But there are other factors too!

I am fugly old , bald , and out of shape , but thinking about ! it just ugly will do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I choose to be happy

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Cos nobody wants me.

Have you cake ? "

I'm always ready to pop one in the oven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I choose to be happy "

So true!

I think so many relationships are just wrong in many ways

People that fear being alone mainly for financial reasons, kids etc ..

I would rather be broke and alone some weekends than be with the wrong person because I'm afraid to leave.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Right....try this again with the right icon....

No one waaaaaaaannnts meeeeeeeeeee :’(:’(

NOOOOOOOOO. What’s wrong with my crying icon?????? :’("

I think you've got dodgy apostrophes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to be single, I like my own company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because maybe I look better in her dress than she would...

No one in their right mind would date a cross dresser

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Because I choose to be happy

So true!

I think so many relationships are just wrong in many ways

People that fear being alone mainly for financial reasons, kids etc ..

I would rather be broke and alone some weekends than be with the wrong person because I'm afraid to leave.

"

I have more money being single because I don't have anyone to treat and I'm probably happier also because there's no drama.

My last relationship really hurt and I don't want to be in that situation again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cause no one likes me

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Because I choose to be. Don't have the energy for a permanent someone else in my life. A few part timers are just fine!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit "

I'll start baking... I think we all need cake

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I'll start baking... I think we all need cake"

All I see was cake, I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I'll start baking... I think we all need cake

All I see was cake, I'm in "

I'm probably single because I prefer to eat cake than to look good naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants me

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Because I'm unable to form connections with people on even the most basic level.

I thought that was perfectly normal until I reached my late twenties and everyone started settling down except me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 36yrs i felt id done my time, so wanted to enjoy myself again before it got too late, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 26 years married I loved being single and being me again. Not gonna lie would like to meet someone now, but it seems near impossible these days to find a decent honest guy. So until then I'm here.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"So, we’re all a cheery bunch, cake anyone?

don’t rock on offering cake unless you really got cake ! Point is I’d love a bit of cake ! Did I make that clear enough about the cake ! absolutely loving life here as you can see !

Anyway this cake you have ??? Giza bit

I'll start baking... I think we all need cake

All I see was cake, I'm in

I'm probably single because I prefer to eat cake than to look good naked "

Everyone loves cake, well most people anyway. When you have good cake nothing else in life matters

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Because I like only having myself (& my kids) to think about. Because I run a mile at emotion. Because I'm 'not seeing' an emotionally damaged man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm weird and strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the only person who I fully opened up to broke my heart and I can never trust or love again "
same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want to compromise & don’t want to share my space/home.

Relationships quickly turn mundane & dull in my experience. I’d rather be single & seek fun & excitement when it suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found someone who was into my kinks too but ruined it wen i got hooked and wanted more

Remember theyre single for a reason too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like my own space and other than the things my kids need i am happy being single at present

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because life doesn't work out how you plan

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By *ck BasswardsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I’d like to know this because as a human being I’m very kind and have empathy for people. I’m extremely loyal, like when I’m interested in someone and have feelings for them nothing would turn my head. I’m funny as fuck, I can make roast potatoes on a cooked dinner that would blow your fucking head off cos they’re so tasty. I can bake savoury stuff, sweet stuff. I swallow, I rim plus I’m attractive and have a lush fanny. "

& you are inked.... Goals, Is it to soon to ask about marriage, moving to newcastle, and moving in? hahaha

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By *ck BasswardsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Because my wife died and nobody wants someone old like me.

Thats not true, if you choose to be alone thats one thing, but dont convince yourself that no one wants you, and especially not just cos you are older, some ladies like an older gent, (ladies back me up here plz) sorry to hear about your wife…. X

Thank you for your kindness. Still hoping to meet someone who likes an older man. "

Not a problem at all fella, keep your chin up, sending good vibes, best of luck

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Principally because the last 18 months has been the equivalent of living in an enclosed religious order; isolation, silence,no callers, and plenty of time to contemplate the future direction of one's life.

Without being specific, an e-mail this morning indicated that life, as I formerly knew it, will be resuming next week. Great news!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I dont want to hurt anyone when they find out what/who I am. I would rather be upfront. So was trying here but not much luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy being single and haven’t found the right person to be with. No point being in a relationship for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I suffer with anxiety and after years of being berated for it I chose to walk away and I don't want that ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard finding women that actually want a real relationship with a trans woman. Had a few gf over last 10 years but all 3 let me down ultimately or were just nuts after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a millionaire and do not wish to share my money with a women who will only be interested in me for that.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"im a millionaire and do not wish to share my money with a women who will only be interested in me for that.

"

Damn!! Better rethink my plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm fuckable not datable

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’ve been off the market for so long I’m not sure I want to get back in

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"im a millionaire and do not wish to share my money with a women who will only be interested in me for that.

"

Then you don't show them you have money until they have known you for a bit first. You drive a banger and rent a pokey little place and make out you're struggling like most until you're sure she's no gold digger.

Probably not best to let anyone know by posting you're either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife died on 2016, as much as I loved her and our time together, I have realised I dont want the commitment anymore. Just happy doing my own thing.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Right now I choose to be, I'm content with how things are in my life x

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Because its better for me that way and I can choose to share my time with who I choose if I want to.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Probably because I've been single for about 13 years now. I've been on my own so long it's become my normal. Being in a relationship isn't even something I ever think about. Maybe I just gave up about 8 years ago can't see myself ever being in another relationship.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Because I am forgetful, I don’t mean to be, I am not intentionally unkind, but I often forget other people exist as I potter about and I’m easily distracted, I lack focus, I find people funny in a “what ARE you” kind of way, I giggle too much during sex (I find it silly) and I get grumpy when I lose a sock.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Because it’s easier.

I have far too much going on in my life to realistically give someone else the attention they deserve on a romantic level, as much as I would love to.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Because I get to have full control of the remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many reasons.

I'm too fussy, I want a love that probably isn't possible.

I'm not good enough.

I've fallen for the wrong people and been so hurt as a result.

I could go on

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Pathological fear of commitment and love my independence

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

Cant think of any reason for being with someone else

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

My looks and my personality.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I choose to be single I have never had a serious relationship I am a selfish bastard I like to do what I want to do at that given time no compromise , I live on my own don’t have to go out watch television when I want eat what I want get up when I want also I would rather have sex with hundreds of women than sex with the same women all the time that is boring

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"It’s cause every time I cook something I explain what I’m doing to an invisible camera crew.

"

I thought I was the only one who did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I'm very picky and lack of consistency has made me choose to stay single. I have got very comfortable being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very picky and lack of consistency has made me choose to stay single. I have got very comfortable being single "

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

After many years of marriage and a year of being single just not ready to ‘be faithful’ again at present lol... prefer to be honest.. enjoying single life at the moment x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Jantheman30 you have confused me sorry....why can I see what I said but you have posted it??

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

After ditching a lousy husband, i put my career and kids first. It feels like I've left it too late to change priorities now.

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands


"After ditching a lousy husband, i put my career and kids first. It feels like I've left it too late to change priorities now. "
Maybe it will find you?

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By *979Man
over a year ago

Doddington

It’s a choice ......I just want loads of sex

Someone please fuck me

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Because after 8 years shit happened and someone couldn't deal with the fact that a family member dealing with cancer was my priority at the time, although as I am polyamorous I do still have one partner that I don't live with that means the world to me

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Because I was always putting in the effort and they just took advantage of this so I walked and they kept trying their hardest to win me back but I'm valuable and worthy some would say a rare find if unable to realise and take advantage of people like this it's always to late as I never run backwards did it once and I learned a valuable lesson by it and she still does because she as much as the rest realised guys like me can be very difficult to find and that is the truth, I'm happy even if it's not happier

The end

Ps women who are similar would understand it's easier hassle free and enjoyable.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Because I choose to be, I am looking though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships seem to screw me over, I invest too much into it and come off worse at the end, things are easier single

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I'd say because at the moment I'm too selfish.

I'm living a lifestyle non conducive to having a long term partner and I've not found a person that I'm moved enough to compromise for.

I do actively date, I think its good to meet new people and the goal is to find someone but I put no pressure on it.

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands

For me i haven't got a problem with it,i guess its the norm,its other folk who seem to have a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice, I didn’t want to live a lie with my ex partner. Although we was married, had 3 beautiful children and a beautiful home, things weren’t the same anymore. And we grew apart, she’s still my best friend & we get on better now than we ever did when together. She’s met someone else too, an he’s a great bloke. But I’m not ready/wanting a relationship, spent 16 years in one.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always like to quote Lemmy: "I've never met one woman who could make me stop looking at all the others."

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Single over 5 years been unlucky in love ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single by choice, although if I met the right person I'd happily be in a relationship

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm not, met my partner here and have a couple profile too.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I'm single by choice, although if I met the right person I'd happily be in a relationship "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the chances of finding someone who fits a very specific criteria are slim to none. They would have to....

- be happy to never live with me

- not take my need for solitude as an insult or emotional rejection

- accept that me having children on the spectrum means they'll never come first

- be open and honest about who they are

- be amazingly attractive to me (I don't mean good-looking necessarily)

- be sensitive to my needs as a woman on the spectrum

- be just as comfortable letting me support them as they are supporting me in times of need

- have a similar outlook and values

- be kind and caring and loyal

- adore my kids

I had all that with my last partner, except for the honesty. Never malicious lies, but enough fibs to kill the trust and without that the rest just crumbles.

"

I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lucky I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lucky I guess "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

……because unrequited affection torments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made that, decision a long time ago..I only considered the alternative once in recent years, and I'm very very very thankful nothing came of it.

Can't imagine sharing my life with another, permanently. The idea's too alien to me.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because I hate to share my popcorn in the cinema

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the only person who I fully opened up to broke my heart and I can never trust or love again "

I know the feeling. Sometimes it’s hard to repair those broken pieces because I’m afraid it will be broken again.

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