FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!

Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages

Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I only meet men around my age group, those are the men I find sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening OP,

I can only speak for myself but personally I'm not in to guys younger than me so, yes for me, it's a dealbreaker. Everyone likes different things though and age won't always be a factor to people so don't give up

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Iv given up all together

I'm just here for forums now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Evening OP,

I completely understand what you mean !!

It’s just not a lot of women my age on here so it’s hard to find a woman my age let alone if the are interested in me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only meet men around my age group, those are the men I find sexually attractive."

Yeah that makes sense thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give up you’re super cute and I think your profile reads really well and quite mature , I’m pretty sure there will be some ladies interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age will put some people off, it won't bother others. There is no hard and fast rule

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Sorry way too young for me but then i am old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for all the comments starting to understand more and I won’t give up at all just keeping looking to find the right lady

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My youngest lover is 27 and he seems very young. He's lovely and a good shag, but I don’t connect with him emotionally and we have little in common. Thats partly due to age and partly due to lifestyles. Age IS a factor for me, but there's often a lot more to it than just that.

You look like you could add a few years to your age if you wanted to appeal to more women. That wouldn't bode well for a relationship, but you'd potentially be fine for just sexy times.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I prefer younger guys. Youngest I met was last year. He was 23 I was 40. You find lots do and lots don't. Same with everyone though. A wakner will always be a wanker no matter the age, I just find I have a better time and properly laugh with a younger guy, they much less lightly to suggest " enjoying wine" too which is a bonus

So don't worry. You will definitely float a few boats

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, because many of us will have kids your age or close to!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If I'm really honest I would find it hard to believe a 23 year old genuinely finding me attractive and I don't want to be associated with any of the awful words used to describe older women involved with younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most if the time yes age is a deal breaker for me. Sometimes though if I hit it off with someone I'd break the rules.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"My youngest lover is 27 and he seems very young. He's lovely and a good shag, but I don’t connect with him emotionally and we have little in common. Thats partly due to age and partly due to lifestyles. Age IS a factor for me, but there's often a lot more to it than just that.

You look like you could add a few years to your age if you wanted to appeal to more women. That wouldn't bode well for a relationship, but you'd potentially be fine for just sexy times. "

I really wouldn't encourage anyone to lie on their profile.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Ah the age old age conundrum, personally I don’t have a problem with mature younger men as long as the words milf and cougar don’t enter into the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger men as I find them attractive, more often but if I do find someone attractive then their age is irrelevant... Unless I am actually, actively looking then age restrictions are applied to my message filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer younger men as I find them attractive, more often but if I do find someone attractive then their age is irrelevant... Unless I am actually, actively looking then age restrictions are applied to my message filters"

Ok yeah I know what you mean and get that it depends on the person, their preferences -‘d life style

Thank you x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

25 is my hard lower limit, I'm afraid.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You look like you could add a few years to your age if you wanted to appeal to more women. That wouldn't bode well for a relationship, but you'd potentially be fine for just sexy times. "

I'd go fucking Billy Batshit if someone did that and I found myself fucking someone the same age as my son. I have age filters in place for that reason. It's a hard line of mine. The wrath of Peach would be mammoth if it got crossed coz of a lie to appeal to more women.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!

Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages

Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x"

I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun

I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

DO NOT add years to your age to get meets, I'd fucking rage if I found out someone had lied about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"DO NOT add years to your age to get meets, I'd fucking rage if I found out someone had lied about it. "

Well I never lie as I find it pointless and disgusting so would never do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!

Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages

Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x

I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun

I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him."

Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's been said a few times that women won't meet really young guys as they have kids around the same age.

That said though some do, you just need to find them. Have you tried doing an advanced search? I'm sure it must be someone's birthday soon

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm sure you'll get a few meets in time.

Just remember to take a note from your mum to say you're allowed to be out late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd arrange a meet with you if you were closer....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd arrange a meet with you if you were closer...."

Well thank you babe means a lot

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Age isn't a massive factor for me, it's more how I connect with the person, as someone said further up if the mild and cougar comments come out then it's a bit off putting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd arrange a meet with you if you were closer....

Well thank you babe means a lot "

Come to pleasures one week...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd arrange a meet with you if you were closer....

Well thank you babe means a lot

Come to pleasures one week...

What’s pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...well I’m glad your inbox is empty too. Looking at your profile & pics, if I were a straight young lady then I’d snap you up. I’m NOT. 47 yo bloke & straight!!!!!

I’m no expert but think you just have to be patient, polite & considerate. Focus on targeting profiles that match. Kill time on the forums contributing constructive funny stuff & hope a unicorn crosses your path that fancies you.

....or just go on Tinder & fib a bit!

Good luck dude!!!

PS. I’m 47, not ugly & bar some gay guys, my inbox is empty too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps I’ll fab the pictures of yours that I feel show you in the best way, that’s not to say the others are bad pictures though.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!

Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages

Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x

I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun

I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.

Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs"

Get your arse up to the Midlands when the clubs reopen and I will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it helps I’ll fab the pictures of yours that I feel show you in the best way, that’s not to say the others are bad pictures though. "

That would be great thanks a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!

Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages

Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x

I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun

I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.

Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs

Get your arse up to the Midlands when the clubs reopen and I will

I think that’s a offer I can’t refuse

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hey fabbers hope you’re all well and had a great day!

Just a quick question, is age a massive dealbreaker for you all only because I’m a 23 year old male and wondering if that may be a reason as to why I don’t get many messages

Sadly can’t do much about it, just thought I’d ask x

I met a 21 year old a few years ago, he was good fun

I introduced him to clubs, it was quite an eye opener for him.

Well maybe you can introduce me to clubs

Get your arse up to the Midlands when the clubs reopen and I will

I think that’s a offer I can’t refuse "

You better not, I won't offer again

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

This isn't really an answer to your question, but you do seem to have one of the better single men's profiles on here. You stand a better chance of finding somebody you click with than most men. Hopefully you will find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This isn't really an answer to your question, but you do seem to have one of the better single men's profiles on here. You stand a better chance of finding somebody you click with than most men. Hopefully you will find what you are looking for.

Why thank you for that it means a lot

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