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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone. I'm looking for a bit of help on my profile. I seem to be putting a lot of effort in for almost nobody to reply. I always send face pictures with a message and i'm a down to earth bloke. Don't think i'm the worst looking guy out there but maybe that is where i'm going wrong?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Pictures are fine but you could have more.

The words bit is just so bland. Look at the profiles of some of the men who are regulars on the forum for possible ideas to make it more interesting. Good luck to you.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi OP.

I would suggest at least one photo that shows your body type.

Your age will go against you, unfortunately. There's nothing you can do about that.

Since you are seeking women old enough to be your mother, you need to say what you can offer them. Most women on here are looking for experience, and don't want to be teacher. Youth has its benefits though..

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your pics look a bit effeminate…certainly the one of your pants pulled round your ankles, and exposing your bum. That’s the vibe I get when looking at them.

You have a cock pic on display…a lot won’t like that you do.

You are young and saying you just want an older woman, likes she’s ticking off your fantasy.

No talk of what you offer and what you can do.

Your age range is 18 - 99…really?

It does not stand out from the sea of other guys profiles.

Your phone will have a self timer…use that to take pics and your range of pics will increase…write a better bio, something that will intrigue. Be respectful in messages…get them 3 things right, you’ll have a better response on here.

Good luck

K

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Cute fella, few more photos?

Expand the writeup a little

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Don't listen, nothing wrong with 18-99 age range, why reduce your audience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone. I'm looking for a bit of help on my profile. I seem to be putting a lot of effort in for almost nobody to reply. I always send face pictures with a message and i'm a down to earth bloke. Don't think i'm the worst looking guy out there but maybe that is where i'm going wrong?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance! "

Glad someone else is having the same problem I also don’t get much attention and always ask how to improve my profile but never had feedback, I must say I’m not the best at profiles and stuff and writing about myself!!

Don’t mean to steal you’re thread but any advice on my profile would be appreciated greatly

Just want to stand out and not have to be the one who always messages first

Thanks for making the forum I didn’t have the balls

Hope everyone has had a great day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally seems okay to me maybe it’s the message rather than the profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures are fine but you could have more.

The words bit is just so bland. Look at the profiles of some of the men who are regulars on the forum for possible ideas to make it more interesting. Good luck to you. "

Thanks Cat. Changed the words to make sure i sound a bit different x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally seems okay to me maybe it’s the message rather than the profile?"

Message ?? That’s where I stifle as don’t know what to say and not the type to big myself up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP.

I would suggest at least one photo that shows your body type.

Your age will go against you, unfortunately. There's nothing you can do about that.

Since you are seeking women old enough to be your mother, you need to say what you can offer them. Most women on here are looking for experience, and don't want to be teacher. Youth has its benefits though.. "

Thanks Guenevere. I guess i'll grow into it... its a bit frustrating as i feel i'm mentally older than my physical age if that makes sense? I have altered my profile so ill see how it goes. Thanks again x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pics look a bit effeminate…certainly the one of your pants pulled round your ankles, and exposing your bum. That’s the vibe I get when looking at them.

You have a cock pic on display…a lot won’t like that you do.

You are young and saying you just want an older woman, likes she’s ticking off your fantasy.

No talk of what you offer and what you can do.

Your age range is 18 - 99…really?

It does not stand out from the sea of other guys profiles.

Your phone will have a self timer…use that to take pics and your range of pics will increase…write a better bio, something that will intrigue. Be respectful in messages…get them 3 things right, you’ll have a better response on here.

Good luck

K"

All noted. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cute fella, few more photos?

Expand the writeup a little "

Thanks you Chelscouple. I have done. Thanks for the complimwnt. Looking great too! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't listen, nothing wrong with 18-99 age range, why reduce your audience"

100 year old is a bit old for me i think

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Ur profile needs more pics m8 .profile well written. Get on forums join in thats how u get noticed. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally seems okay to me maybe it’s the message rather than the profile?"

Baffles me. I have changed it so fingers crossed!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hi OP.

I would suggest at least one photo that shows your body type.

Your age will go against you, unfortunately. There's nothing you can do about that.

Since you are seeking women old enough to be your mother, you need to say what you can offer them. Most women on here are looking for experience, and don't want to be teacher. Youth has its benefits though..

Thanks Guenevere. I guess i'll grow into it... its a bit frustrating as i feel i'm mentally older than my physical age if that makes sense? I have altered my profile so ill see how it goes. Thanks again x"

That's what you need to get across. I would also recommend organised socials and clubs when they re-open. You would probably enjoy a cougars and cubs night.

Age is much less of an issue when you're meeting people in person.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I think it's a good profile - you could maybe add a few more photos as and when, but for now I reckon it'll do just fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a good profile - you could maybe add a few more photos as and when, but for now I reckon it'll do just fine. "

Thanks very much Diane. I plan to add a few more for sure. Feel free to drop me a message if you are in the area. Looking great yourself! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP.

I would suggest at least one photo that shows your body type.

Your age will go against you, unfortunately. There's nothing you can do about that.

Since you are seeking women old enough to be your mother, you need to say what you can offer them. Most women on here are looking for experience, and don't want to be teacher. Youth has its benefits though..

Thanks Guenevere. I guess i'll grow into it... its a bit frustrating as i feel i'm mentally older than my physical age if that makes sense? I have altered my profile so ill see how it goes. Thanks again x

That's what you need to get across. I would also recommend organised socials and clubs when they re-open. You would probably enjoy a cougars and cubs night.

Age is much less of an issue when you're meeting people in person. "

Hadn't even thought of that. Thank you!x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hi OP.

I would suggest at least one photo that shows your body type.

Your age will go against you, unfortunately. There's nothing you can do about that.

Since you are seeking women old enough to be your mother, you need to say what you can offer them. Most women on here are looking for experience, and don't want to be teacher. Youth has its benefits though..

Thanks Guenevere. I guess i'll grow into it... its a bit frustrating as i feel i'm mentally older than my physical age if that makes sense? I have altered my profile so ill see how it goes. Thanks again x

That's what you need to get across. I would also recommend organised socials and clubs when they re-open. You would probably enjoy a cougars and cubs night.

Age is much less of an issue when you're meeting people in person.

Hadn't even thought of that. Thank you!x"

You're welcome, and the update has improved your profile no end.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The comics made me laugh. Looks fine to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have lovely hair Op, what conditioner do you use ?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Lose the bit about older women and repeat heavy cummer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Head&Shoulders. Two for a fiver. Bargin!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The comics made me laugh. Looks fine to me. "

I'm glad you like! I used to live in thr North East as well!x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lose the bit about older women and repeat heavy cummer.

"

Repeat heavy cummer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lose the bit about older women and repeat heavy cummer.

Repeat heavy cummer?"

If you are a really heavy cummer keep it because it will attract people who like that and put off people who don't.

I'd rather know because it's not my thing. Some love it.

I don't know what the term means to be fair. Is it like 2 tablespoons or a bucket full.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lose the bit about older women and repeat heavy cummer.

Repeat heavy cummer?

If you are a really heavy cummer keep it because it will attract people who like that and put off people who don't.

I'd rather know because it's not my thing. Some love it.

I don't know what the term means to be fair. Is it like 2 tablespoons or a bucket full. "

Thats noted and i have taken it off . Just more than the average haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP.

I would suggest at least one photo that shows your body type.

Your age will go against you, unfortunately. There's nothing you can do about that.

Since you are seeking women old enough to be your mother, you need to say what you can offer them. Most women on here are looking for experience, and don't want to be teacher. Youth has its benefits though..

Thanks Guenevere. I guess i'll grow into it... its a bit frustrating as i feel i'm mentally older than my physical age if that makes sense? I have altered my profile so ill see how it goes. Thanks again x

That's what you need to get across. I would also recommend organised socials and clubs when they re-open. You would probably enjoy a cougars and cubs night.

Age is much less of an issue when you're meeting people in person.

Hadn't even thought of that. Thank you!x

You're welcome, and the update has improved your profile no end.

Best of luck. "

Thank you very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of it seems familiar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you OP, as best you can, and then you'll attract the right body rather than anybody

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you OP, as best you can, and then you'll attract the right body rather than anybody "

Great advice. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you OP, as best you can, and then you'll attract the right body rather than anybody

Great advice. Thanks!"

If you borrow any lines from my profile, be sure to use them wisely and don't forget about big Dave plus the fee

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Cute fella, few more photos?

Expand the writeup a little

Thanks you Chelscouple. I have done. Thanks for the complimwnt. Looking great too! x"

Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cute fella, few more photos?

Expand the writeup a little

Thanks you Chelscouple. I have done. Thanks for the complimwnt. Looking great too! x

Cheers!"

Be sure to drop me a line if you are ever in the area x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hello everyone. I'm looking for a bit of help on my profile. I seem to be putting a lot of effort in for almost nobody to reply. I always send face pictures with a message and i'm a down to earth bloke. Don't think i'm the worst looking guy out there but maybe that is where i'm going wrong?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance! "

(I do love a good conversation and if we get to that point, I always like to have a social before I go any further. It's a funny thing but I've found that sex is so much better with a connection, perhaps I'm old fashioned )

To me with what you have written then asking for help I find difficult to understand how you could be lacking with one and not the other this isn't a pop at you pal but shows some kind of weakness which may effect because as you say a connection is important but intelligent

Just be you use your imagination be creative is only the best advice because those giving advice could be what they are looking for but your not it everyone is different be you and you'll find someone who has similar interests.

Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello everyone. I'm looking for a bit of help on my profile. I seem to be putting a lot of effort in for almost nobody to reply. I always send face pictures with a message and i'm a down to earth bloke. Don't think i'm the worst looking guy out there but maybe that is where i'm going wrong?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

(I do love a good conversation and if we get to that point, I always like to have a social before I go any further. It's a funny thing but I've found that sex is so much better with a connection, perhaps I'm old fashioned )

To me with what you have written then asking for help I find difficult to understand how you could be lacking with one and not the other this isn't a pop at you pal but shows some kind of weakness which may effect because as you say a connection is important but intelligent

Just be you use your imagination be creative is only the best advice because those giving advice could be what they are looking for but your not it everyone is different be you and you'll find someone who has similar interests.

Good luck pal "

Noted. Thanks pal!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hello everyone. I'm looking for a bit of help on my profile. I seem to be putting a lot of effort in for almost nobody to reply. I always send face pictures with a message and i'm a down to earth bloke. Don't think i'm the worst looking guy out there but maybe that is where i'm going wrong?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

(I do love a good conversation and if we get to that point, I always like to have a social before I go any further. It's a funny thing but I've found that sex is so much better with a connection, perhaps I'm old fashioned )

To me with what you have written then asking for help I find difficult to understand how you could be lacking with one and not the other this isn't a pop at you pal but shows some kind of weakness which may effect because as you say a connection is important but intelligent

Just be you use your imagination be creative is only the best advice because those giving advice could be what they are looking for but your not it everyone is different be you and you'll find someone who has similar interests.

Good luck pal

Noted. Thanks pal!"

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello everyone. I'm looking for a bit of help on my profile. I seem to be putting a lot of effort in for almost nobody to reply. I always send face pictures with a message and i'm a down to earth bloke. Don't think i'm the worst looking guy out there but maybe that is where i'm going wrong?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

(I do love a good conversation and if we get to that point, I always like to have a social before I go any further. It's a funny thing but I've found that sex is so much better with a connection, perhaps I'm old fashioned )

To me with what you have written then asking for help I find difficult to understand how you could be lacking with one and not the other this isn't a pop at you pal but shows some kind of weakness which may effect because as you say a connection is important but intelligent

Just be you use your imagination be creative is only the best advice because those giving advice could be what they are looking for but your not it everyone is different be you and you'll find someone who has similar interests.

Good luck pal

Noted. Thanks pal!

Welcome "

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