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" some women will just post pics of their lady parts with no other context whatsoever. " Surely the 'context' is that the lady parts belong to said lady and they are free to post whatever they want on their profile...? I also imagine that the ladies who hate cock pics aren't posting pictures of their lady parts? | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though I don't need to see a dick pic before a meet. In fact ... sending me a picture of your dick will ensure I won't meet you. | |||
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" I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though I have done | |||
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" I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though Me too. It’s not something I insist on and if anyone insisted I send them a pic like that we wouldn’t be carrying on the conversation. | |||
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"I would describe a picture with no context as an image that literally just contains a vagina. For me personally, the rest of a woman’s body is equally if not more important than what she has between her legs. I know everybody has the right to post what ever they want. I am just positing my option on here." Fair enough. I didn't understand. I do now. Although - to be (even more) pedantic.. it's a lot easier for a man to take a picture of his body and dick than it is for a woman to take a picture of her vulva and body (it's impossible for a woman to take a picture of her vagina because the vagina is the bit you can't see) | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though I've never asked to see a cock pic before I have met anyone. The size or look of a guys cock has zero relevance to whether I meet them or not. | |||
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"I quite like a cock pic or cum shot. Just depends on how it's taken" I must resist ... | |||
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"What about when a woman has a spunky open vagina profile picture and then text saying profiles with your cock as a profile pic will be ignored? - True story! Of course I get that anyone can do as they please with their profile and excerise their freedom of choice, but at the same time anyone can also have double standards too, right, and anyone can talk about their views on that, even if in turn they're displaying their own double standards? It's their human right, right The idea is Do what ever the fuck makes you happy Life's way too short for anything else | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though I said many women not all women.. obviously some people will meet without seeing one but if your on here for a certain reason like me you won't | |||
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"Post what you like on your profile. I'm capable of not looking if I don't like it. I don't want anyone's genitals in my inbox though thanks That is not what I have been told! | |||
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"You’re misunderstanding the context. People don’t want unsolicited cock pics sent via messages. If there are one or two cock pics on your profile, that’s cool. Similarly, them having their bits out isn’t hypocritical, as it’s not the same context" I was going to write this - thanks for saving me the time | |||
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" I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though I won’t meet if you send me a dic pic .. it gets you blocked.. so you’re wrong there! | |||
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"While browsing through profiles (as I regularly do), I see plenty of female requests for no cock pics. Which is absolutely fair enough. But what I have noticed is some women will just post pics of their lady parts with no other context whatsoever. I actually find this does very little for me. I was wondering if anyone else would be willing to share thoughts and opinions on this." I think it's always good to leave something behind for the imagination that is only shared with those who they intend on meeting. Might only be me who thinks like this but as they say when you have seen one you know what they look like but each one is different. | |||
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"I don't show mine on my profile, nor do I send it in messages. Yet I get asked for it quite often. So lads, a little tip... Sometimes less is more. " And do the women who ask to see it then follow up with a meet or is your dick too small for that? | |||
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"I don't mind cock pics but I think you'll find for most woken it's the unsolicited ones that get sent in messages that they really object to. I literally had a message once that just said 'cock' then had 3 pictures of said cock attached. | |||
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"I don't show mine on my profile, nor do I send it in messages. Yet I get asked for it quite often. So lads, a little tip... Sometimes less is more. And do the women who ask to see it then follow up with a meet or is your dick too small for that? Ouch | |||
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" I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though Me? That’s what I said. | |||
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"I don't show mine on my profile, nor do I send it in messages. Yet I get asked for it quite often. So lads, a little tip... Sometimes less is more. And do the women who ask to see it then follow up with a meet or is your dick too small for that? Funnily enough, I never hear back from them...they're probably having Internet connection issues? | |||
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"I don't mind cock pics but I think you'll find for most woken it's the unsolicited ones that get sent in messages that they really object to. I literally had a message once that just said 'cock' then had 3 pictures of said cock attached. And there was me just about to send you one but as you haven’t asked for it I won’t | |||
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"I don't show mine on my profile, nor do I send it in messages. Yet I get asked for it quite often. So lads, a little tip... Sometimes less is more. And do the women who ask to see it then follow up with a meet or is your dick too small for that? Well.. you did tell the lads that it was a 'little tip' | |||
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"I only have a few myself but they aren't close up beside a remote or lynx can and I have a pretty penis Oooh I wouldn’t mind a nibble | |||
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"While browsing through profiles (as I regularly do), I see plenty of female requests for no cock pics. Which is absolutely fair enough. But what I have noticed is some women will just post pics of their lady parts with no other context whatsoever. I actually find this does very little for me. I was wondering if anyone else would be willing to share thoughts and opinions on this." I very much dislike close-up fanny photos. That alone would stop me being interested in most who have them. Luke | |||
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" I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though Sorry no was ment to remove your quote | |||
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"I don't mind cock pics but I think you'll find for most woken it's the unsolicited ones that get sent in messages that they really object to. I literally had a message once that just said 'cock' then had 3 pictures of said cock attached. Errr...... I said most women.... I am not like most women | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though Yep, me too. Before the internet, cocks were not generally viewed before sex and personally, I have no desire to seek out any pictures of them. | |||
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"I only have a few myself but they aren't close up beside a remote or lynx can and I have a pretty penis Is that a please send dick pics? | |||
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"I don’t mind cock pictures being sent to me as long as they send a picture of their face as well because it’s the face that determines whether I respond or not. I only reply to attractive people. " | |||
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"I dont hate them, just hate unsolicited ones or a profile full of the same pic of the cock being str#ngled Poor little sausages been ch#ked | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though Same here hun, I wouldn't meet a guy before seeing if his dick could satisfy me and give him a good time. I'm sure we're not alone on that | |||
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"I have a big cock so I cater for women and couples who love big cock " But can you stir your tea with it though? You know, just in case Mrs Doyle forgot to | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though I guess if you're a size queen or have a particular preference in style say then it may be important to see a sample photo but I've never experienced anyone asking for a cock pic, never mind insisting on one. I'm just trying to imagine the reaction if a guy was to demand a fanny pic as a prerequisite to meeting | |||
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"I have a big cock so I cater for women and couples who love big cock But can you stir your tea with it though? You know, just in case Mrs Doyle forgot to" | |||
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"I have a big cock so I cater for women and couples who love big cock But can you stir your tea with it though? You know, just in case Mrs Doyle forgot to I can indeed even if she put the tea in a pint glass x | |||
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"If it's how you introduce yourself e.g. a pic of your cock and hi .. i've NO interest whatsoever... Cocks don't scare or disgust me .... but it's not usual is it to just show your cock and nothing else. Worst of the worst are the goddam ugly ones that are used as profile main pics.. I saw one this morning that looked EXACTLY like a small elephant trunk sticking out of the top of some crumpled pants and all the time the 'owner' is laying down some moral kind of judgement on someone in the lounge.... So funny for an odd looking cock to be dishing out strong opinions. " | |||
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"I quite like a cock pic or cum shot. Just depends on how it's taken" hi annabelle feel free to check my profile out I have some excellent cumshots very vocal | |||
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"I like a mix on a profile... I don't want to see 15 identical cock pics... You're a man I would assume you already possess a cock and maybe one or 2 pics but not a whole profile full... Quality not quantity | |||
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"Fill your profile with cock pics then op and block all the women sending clunge pics to you. " I love clunge, they can send them to me instead | |||
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"I like a mix on a profile... I don't want to see 15 identical cock pics... You're a man I would assume you already possess a cock and maybe one or 2 pics but not a whole profile full... Quality not quantity isuspect you are right for someone like me I have no idea at the moment which ones to delete or which are my best two pics | |||
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"I've just changed mine....for a change. Good profile!! | |||
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"If it's how you introduce yourself e.g. a pic of your cock and hi .. i've NO interest whatsoever... Cocks don't scare or disgust me .... but it's not usual is it to just show your cock and nothing else. Worst of the worst are the goddam ugly ones that are used as profile main pics.. I saw one this morning that looked EXACTLY like a small elephant trunk sticking out of the top of some crumpled pants and all the time the 'owner' is laying down some moral kind of judgement on someone in the lounge.... So funny for an odd looking cock to be dishing out strong opinions. Isn't a vagine a clay pot for lamb and apricot ? | |||
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"Unsolicited pics of some guys half prolapsed bum hole are my least favourite kind of DM" Just any photo of a prolapsed arsehole is gross and I like arseholes | |||
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"Fill your profile with cock pics then op and block all the women sending clunge pics to you. " I think the point is dissolving a little here. For me it’s all about context. There must be more than just the minge | |||
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"I've just changed mine....for a change. Thank you | |||
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"If it's how you introduce yourself e.g. a pic of your cock and hi .. i've NO interest whatsoever... Cocks don't scare or disgust me .... but it's not usual is it to just show your cock and nothing else. Worst of the worst are the goddam ugly ones that are used as profile main pics.. I saw one this morning that looked EXACTLY like a small elephant trunk sticking out of the top of some crumpled pants and all the time the 'owner' is laying down some moral kind of judgement on someone in the lounge.... So funny for an odd looking cock to be dishing out strong opinions. | |||
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"If it's how you introduce yourself e.g. a pic of your cock and hi .. i've NO interest whatsoever... Cocks don't scare or disgust me .... but it's not usual is it to just show your cock and nothing else. Worst of the worst are the goddam ugly ones that are used as profile main pics.. I saw one this morning that looked EXACTLY like a small elephant trunk sticking out of the top of some crumpled pants and all the time the 'owner' is laying down some moral kind of judgement on someone in the lounge.... So funny for an odd looking cock to be dishing out strong opinions. I haven't had a fruity one before | |||
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"I like cock pics... Of men I fancy... I don't need to see everyones Correction... Of men I fancy and am going to become intimate with | |||
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"Fill your profile with cock pics then op and block all the women sending clunge pics to you. I think the point is dissolving a little here. For me it’s all about context. There must be more than just the minge" Like what? Do you mean the rest of the body in the pic or something rammed up it? | |||
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"Fill your profile with cock pics then op and block all the women sending clunge pics to you. I think the point is dissolving a little here. For me it’s all about context. There must be more than just the minge Like what? Do you mean the rest of the body in the pic or something rammed up it? " I think he meant more of the body included myself, like mine only without the dick | |||
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"Fill your profile with cock pics then op and block all the women sending clunge pics to you. I think the point is dissolving a little here. For me it’s all about context. There must be more than just the minge Like what? Do you mean the rest of the body in the pic or something rammed up it? " Well maybe other parts of the body. Nice leg shots or torso pics are very good. I just tend to hope and think people are more than just their sex. And seeing an extreme close up of anything like that is just not really to my taste. | |||
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"Fill your profile with cock pics then op and block all the women sending clunge pics to you. I think the point is dissolving a little here. For me it’s all about context. There must be more than just the minge Like what? Do you mean the rest of the body in the pic or something rammed up it? Well maybe other parts of the body. Nice leg shots or torso pics are very good. I just tend to hope and think people are more than just their sex. And seeing an extreme close up of anything like that is just not really to my taste." You want wide screen not old school box viewing | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though Made that mistake before never again! Let's be fair some cocks are very fine looking specimens (not just about size) whilst others.....not so appealing. 1 or 2 good quality cock pictures showing your cock hard is fine. 27 pictures of your cock from every angle possible not so great. Floppy cock pictures where its just been pulled out not so good, even worse if the picture was taken over a toilet. Unsolicited cock shots send via message not cool. Unless it's requested on the person / couples profile. Many people like us have been burned in the past so will need to see a cock picture before considering a meet. Just another view point x KJ | |||
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"What about when a woman has a spunky open vagina profile picture and then text saying profiles with your cock as a profile pic will be ignored? - True story! Of course I get that anyone can do as they please with their profile and excerise their freedom of choice, but at the same time anyone can also have double standards too, right, and anyone can talk about their views on that, even if in turn they're displaying their own double standards? It's their human right, right I would say that you can't look for balance in this context because it's about what turns a person on and what does not. Equal treatment or fairness doesn't really come into it. | |||
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" How many men here have ever decided to meet a woman based on her pussy? She's not attractive to you in any way but her pussy is magnificent... would you meet her? Not a chance. " Maybe not but there are some pussy pictures that could put me off sex for life. same with some boobs. Now just this very morning i was perusing the profile of a poster on another thread and she had a close up of her eyes. They were fabulous. Instant connection but I'm not within her age range! | |||
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"That is not entirely true arrows every woman I have seen in a purely sexual relationship ie fuckbuddys have told me it is just about my cock and nothing else which is fair enough " If you read the forums over the past ten years like I have, you'll know that's incredibly rare. | |||
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"I have found most women on here love cock. They just want it at a time when they want it. The problem is that most men love their cock and assume that its a great way to attract a woman's attention but that's not how most people are built. In the real world women don't choose a sexual partner based on his cock. It's the rest of a person that attracts them. The cock is just dessert. How many men here have ever decided to meet a woman based on her pussy? She's not attractive to you in any way but her pussy is magnificent... would you meet her? Not a chance. " Agreed buddy and I'm not the any hole is a goal type so I definitely wouldn't, I'm not desperate to have sex. There has to be an attraction visually for me to want to and that's only half way because then they have to actually be a nice person for me to want to meet them. You wouldn't hug a cute tiger knowing it has an attitude problem | |||
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"That is not entirely true arrows every woman I have seen in a purely sexual relationship ie fuckbuddys have told me it is just about my cock and nothing else which is fair enough " I don't for one second believe they didn't stick around for tea Ted | |||
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"That is not entirely true arrows every woman I have seen in a purely sexual relationship ie fuckbuddys have told me it is just about my cock and nothing else which is fair enough If you read the forums over the past ten years like I have, you'll know that's incredibly rare." don’t understand are you saying it was just not my cock | |||
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"That is not entirely true arrows every woman I have seen in a purely sexual relationship ie fuckbuddys have told me it is just about my cock and nothing else which is fair enough " There are exceptions to every rule and I'm happy for you that it's worked out. I was speaking in general terms and didn't mean to come across as an absolutist. There are quite a few popular forumites who let it be known on their profiles that they want to see cocks and that they enjoy them. But in general most women want to see the rest first because a cock is just a cock. | |||
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"That is not entirely true arrows every woman I have seen in a purely sexual relationship ie fuckbuddys have told me it is just about my cock and nothing else which is fair enough If you read the forums over the past ten years like I have, you'll know that's incredibly rare.don’t understand are you saying it was just not my cock " I think she's saying that your experience doesn't represent what most men have had on here. | |||
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"Each to their own, some people like it some people don't. I find it hard to believe many women would meet without seeing a cock picture though | |||
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"Once upon a time, in a land not so far away, there lived a group of people that cared more for the right of an individual to express themselves in any way deemed legal without feeling the need to offer their opinion on how those individuals presented themselves. But then, as always in such pleasant lands, a mischief maker appeared and formed a cadre of likeminded (although ultimately deceived) “friends”. The little group would share a big pot of judgement soup, cooked up by the mischief maker. Emboldened by the powerful concoction, which made the cadre, loud and unbearable, the group set about the land with tales of what was right and what was wrong. The free spirited inhabitants of that land, found that many tribes in their once happy land began to form, and whereas before they had been silent and let others express themselves in the manner of their choosing, they too began to eat heartedly of the judgement soup, legend tells that the leader was chosen when a raw uncooked bean was found inside one of their bowls. The land that had once been full of giggles and laughter, fell silent, save for the sound of the sharply drawn breath of outrage. People, who had once been free, withdrew to the shadows, as the hounds of indignation rampage through the streets, any who poked out were savaged and left to crawl back into the dark places. Legend says that the land that was once known can only be returned if a group of short men set out on a long and convoluted journey to destroy someone’s ring. Until then, we hide from the all-seeing reproachful eye and show only pictures deemed suitable by the cadre. " | |||
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