FabSwingers.com forum: I feel like proper shit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know the sun has been shining and the world is slowly getting back to normal, but today has been bollocks and I am emotionally all over the place....

Tell me about your good days please

or your good plans for tomorrow

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Really sorry to hear that OP

Have a hug

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I got cake

I made lego

I broke down lego

We went for a walk in the park

I chatting with friends

We spent the evening listening to some Pearl Jam and STP

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Tomorrow is the start of 4 days off which I haven't for a long long time. I'm physically exhausted. I'm looking forward to proper time with Sam. I've really missed that and going for a drink with my mates

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got cake

I made lego

I broke down lego

We went for a walk in the park

I chatting with friends

We spent the evening listening to some Pearl Jam and STP"

Cake, lego, walks, friends and music sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really sorry to hear that OP

Have a hug

I will be ok by tomorrow but thanks

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"I know the sun has been shining and the world is slowly getting back to normal, but today has been bollocks and I am emotionally all over the place....

Tell me about your good days please

or your good plans for tomorrow "

Well I am sending you a big virtual hug OP and hope that you feel better soon. I can't say any thing exciting about my bank holiday weekend as it's just a quiet one...a nice quiet one. Just cos the world is getting back to normal and the sun is shining doesn't mean it's all the same and good for every one

So chin up my fellow fabber and feel my hug..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My sister came over to see my mum ..we got her trundling outside with her walker where she had a sit down and enjoyed the sunshine for a little while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww sorry to hear that... I've had a rubbish week, but went to the gym today and did a class

Hope you feel better soon xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tomorrow is the start of 4 days off which I haven't for a long long time. I'm physically exhausted. I'm looking forward to proper time with Sam. I've really missed that and going for a drink with my mates

Enjoy your days

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ps big hugs op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been watching a movie about an artist. Sometimes I like watching a documentary so can focus on others lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know the sun has been shining and the world is slowly getting back to normal, but today has been bollocks and I am emotionally all over the place....

Tell me about your good days please

or your good plans for tomorrow "

Tomorrow is a new day. Sometimes we get wonky days, you know like being d*unk where things seem all over the place. Then the next day you may or may not have a hangover, or feel a little not yourself. But then you go back to being you. And you might have a shit day or a wonky day again in the future but that's perfectly OK and normal. Be kind to yourself and do things that make you happy.

Tomorrow I have no plans other than do something fun with my household. Its a new day. Or I'll just wing it like I quite often do.

Sorry you had a shit day. Its over now though. Sleep and wake up to a different day, a brand spanking new one.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Really sorry to hear that OP

Have a hug

I will be ok by tomorrow but thanks

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well cant have the cream in my coffee being sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Child free weekend

I can do anything I want - or sod all

Hope your weekend improves OP

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hopefully you feel loads better soon op they say ice cream does wonders without any hangovers

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I got cake

I made lego

I broke down lego

We went for a walk in the park

I chatting with friends

We spent the evening listening to some Pearl Jam and STP

Cake, lego, walks, friends and music sounds perfect

Lego makes any day great, unless you stand on it, then it can fuck right off!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Sorry to hear that yesterday wasn't so great for you OP, ihope today is so much better.

Yesterday I had a mist-mas,a belated Christmas with loved ones that,due to COVID, I couldn't spend last Christmas with. We all had an amazing time; it was great to turn something negative into something so positive. So no matter how bad things may seem OP, there is always hope and happiness in the future so hang on in there.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Big hugs x

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

Sending you a big hug and a bucket of positivity WQ.

Great day here, real shopping, in real shops in a big city. Its been amazing.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Family get together tomorrow for a meal...

Be gentle with yourself OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, wasn't expecting so much love

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr southend

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr southend

"I know the sun has been shining and the world is slowly getting back to normal, but today has been bollocks and I am emotionally all over the place....

Tell me about your good days please

or your good plans for tomorrow "

I'm sorry to hear you have had a rough day of it and as someone that has some really rough days am happy to send virtual hugs your way, I hope things get better for you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm sorry to see your feeling like this x

I had a really lovely day yesterday, spent catching up with an old friend.

We went for a day out and spent the night together.

I hadn't seen him for way over a year. It was special.

I really hope that whatever is troubling you, eases off and soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am normally wary of opening up too much on here but here goes

I have been on anti depressants for 3 years after a traumatic event and have recently come off them mainly because the pharmacy fucked up but anyway...I have been doing great but today has whacked me one...accompanied by a couple of arseholes = emotionally inept, mardy quim

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I am normally wary of opening up too much on here but here goes

That sounds like a really rough ride. I'm not surprised you're feeling like you are.

It's not easy coming off meds!

And that coupled with life..well, it can be an up hill struggle but not impossible..one day at a time.

Fuck the arse holes and not in a good way.

Don't let them bring you down xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It's good to talk...it helps others who maybe struggling too xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I am normally wary of opening up too much on here but here goes

These things happen. I'm sorry. Particularly if you're weaning off the meds.

Be kind to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's good to talk...it helps others who maybe struggling too xx"

Couldn’t agree more.. forums are a great place to share x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Quim dear quim

Please dont feel so sad

The warmth that's com6to you

Should make you feel so glad

A lovely soul you do possess

So let it all shine through

There's lots of people out there

Sending love to you

Something quick to hopefully put a smile on your face

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

sending virtual hugs to you. Please text me if you’d like to talk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you are feeling like this. You know where I am xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent yesterday morning just sobbing couldn’t shake it for ages. Hormones, men issues and health issues pushed me over the edge, I forced myself to go out and felt better for it. I’ve also refocused myself and know I’m not going to allow extra stress on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent yesterday morning just sobbing couldn’t shake it for ages. Hormones, men issues and health issues pushed me over the edge, I forced myself to go out and felt better for it. I’ve also refocused myself and know I’m not going to allow extra stress on me. "

So sorry you felt like that. It is awful when emotion hits in that way. Glad you got through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sorry to read you're feeling like this OP

you aren't alone though, if there's any comfort in that.

my life has recently burst into flames again (not just from the sun

) so im filling every waking moment with distraction, so i don't have the time to think or feel anything. that's how i cope with BS

my next distraction.. driving to Liverpool to see my best friend

i hope you're feeling better soon

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope everyone who has opened up about struggles on this thread starts to feel better.

Today is going to be better, I demand it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I hope everyone who has opened up about struggles on this thread starts to feel better.

Today is going to be better, I demand it

Enjoy the sunshine and the fresh air

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