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What is with guys who say I'm bi but list themselves as straight

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By *naughtybicoupleX OP   Couple
over a year ago

birkenhead

What is with guys who say I'm bi but list themselves as straight I get the whole I don't want anyone to know but I only ever see this as a ploy to get close to the mrs we've had a few meets and it always goes that way just don't know who to trust

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Because of the stigma on here with bi guys I'm guessing

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Welcome to Fab straight

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one on fab, ever.

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By *naughtybicoupleX OP   Couple
over a year ago

birkenhead

As a bi cpl we get inundated with messages saying I'm bi but hide it I just think anyone who you know who sees your profile is on here to so why hide it

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

A lot of people wont meet bi guys (which is their right). Anyone can meet anyone they want for whatever reason as far as I'm concerned.

But some people want to cast wider nets or not be honest about themselves or what they are into.

Ergo some guys put straight on their profiles.

It would be a much better site if those guys just accepted who they really are and that not everyone will meet them but sime people just dont like any form of rejection so what are you gonna do?

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Mostly due to the amount of women and couples who wont have anything to do with no guys.

So a lot with say straight to have a chance at them

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Mostly due to the amount of women and couples who wont have anything to do with no guys.

So a lot with say straight to have a chance at them"

Bi guys not no

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm totally straight will never be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally straight will never be bi"

That's nice. Doesn't answer the question

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I'm totally straight will never be bi"

Congratulations you must be so proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grate mystery that’s fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet a couple one time who had some interesting rules to suss out the fake bi just trying to get to the miss

She didn’t play at the beginning she watched me play with hubby and let hubby fuck me and only after that did she join in

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here? "

274 and that's just today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here?

274 and that's just today. "

Do statistics prove this?

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"What is with guys who say I'm bi but list themselves as straight I get the whole I don't want anyone to know but I only ever see this as a ploy to get close to the mrs we've had a few meets and it always goes that way just don't know who to trust"

1. Some are frauds. Not all, but some are. I presume it's to "increase" their chances of some action.

2. Some are unsure. Probably want to try but only with the right fella. And they are not sure how far they want to go either.

3. Some are genuinely bi, like myself.

However, that doesn't automatically mean I'll find every man to be my cup of tea. There needs to be a "spark".

In truth, both the missus and I are pansexual, or "gender blind".

But the OP is right, it's a bit of a minefield.

There's also a lot of "insecure" men out there who are trying to find their sexual identity in fear of societal and other repercussions and I do feel sorry for them.

But as a member of the patriarchy, all I can say is : "We built this."

It's time to tear that down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if guys say they are bi and the profile says straight, then its a no from us, early one in our swinging life we met a guy who said this, he had no interest in the male , just the fem, its a way for them to get at the fem in our opinion, be honest on your profile, so many liers on here its untrue.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here? "

Maybe the OP has never come across such a thread ..not everyone has been there and seen it all

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here?

274 and that's just today.

Do statistics prove this?"

Yes. 78% of statistics are also made up on the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is with guys who say I'm bi but list themselves as straight I get the whole I don't want anyone to know but I only ever see this as a ploy to get close to the mrs we've had a few meets and it always goes that way just don't know who to trust"

Best not to trust anyone's profile. People will do so much to just get into someone's knickers, it's unbelievable how much they are willing to hide.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"What is with guys who say I'm bi but list themselves as straight I get the whole I don't want anyone to know but I only ever see this as a ploy to get close to the mrs we've had a few meets and it always goes that way just don't know who to trust"

Only meet the guys that state they are bi on their profile, and decline the others (they've already proven that they are either confused or lying), so now you know who to trust and who not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is with guys who say I'm bi but list themselves as straight I get the whole I don't want anyone to know but I only ever see this as a ploy to get close to the mrs we've had a few meets and it always goes that way just don't know who to trust

Only meet the guys that state they are bi on their profile, and decline the others (they've already proven that they are either confused or lying), so now you know who to trust and who not to."

This

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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There’s still a lot of stigma against bi men. There are some people who will try and say they’re just ‘gay but in denial’.

There’s also a lot of women and couples who would refuse to meet openly bi men, presumably because they’re homophobic (whether they realise it or not).

Also fear of someone from their personal lives recognising them and they haven’t came out?

There’s lots of potential reasons

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By *haveadreamMan
over a year ago

Fens


"Trust no one on fab, ever. "

Be cautious until they prove otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this a lot and agree its normally a ploy. We are both openly bi. If people refuse to meet us because of it, no hassle, it's their choice. Any straight guy messages we get like this get a polite thanks but no thanks then a delete

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yep.

I've lost count of the amount of single guys who tell me they are bi when I tell them I only want a bi guy for us both to play with.

Bi guy profiles go top of the pile x

Mrs N

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"We get this a lot and agree its normally a ploy. We are both openly bi. If people refuse to meet us because of it, no hassle, it's their choice. Any straight guy messages we get like this get a polite thanks but no thanks then a delete "

This always makes me smile when people who hide their sexuality to get more meets miss out on hot bi sexual couples because of it. Just be true to yourself and others, if people don't like it then they aren't for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here?

274 and that's just today.

Do statistics prove this?

Yes. 78% of statistics are also made up on the spot "

32% of people wouldn't believe that

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Nothing against OP but how many fucking times is this going to be discussed on here?

274 and that's just today.

Do statistics prove this?

Yes. 78% of statistics are also made up on the spot

32% of people wouldn't believe that"

56% of people would believe that

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By *ieselJuiceMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Very true

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By *ill37Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Id i put im straight i get couples say sorry not interested in straight guys and the same if i say im so who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile states that we are only looking for bi people. Still get lots of “straight “ people messaging.

We used to reply but got fed up of the usual “I’m Bi really but don’t want that on my profile”

Sad that even on a site like this they can’t be open about their sexuality.

V

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