FabSwingers.com forum: Honest truth, dos and don'ts of eating pussy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So ladies I'd love to hear it what separates the clueless from the extraordinary?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you. "

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

Most men I have to ask not to go so hard. Some listen and do but a lot only do for a bit but then start going harder and harder when I start enjoying myself and ruining it and it's so frustrating. If I'm enjoying myself don't change anything!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you have to tell them to slow down then the mood is already gone id imagine haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want me to cum, find something I like then do that consistently and don't change a goddamm thing until I'm done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Straight to the point no messing about I like it haha what gets your toes curling and begging for more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and very gentle for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Goes without saying of course

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Goes without saying of course

I suggest you use the "Reply and Quote" button so we can see which posts you are responding to.

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By *antaswingsMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Slow and very gentle for me

Slow and steady wins the race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv licked quite a fair bit of fanny in my time op, as mentioned not to hard not to fast, experiment the entire area, insides of the legs, nibble on the big tendon both sides.

Move your hands all around her legs, bum, waist, belly and noobs if your arms are able to reach that far, rhythm

Dont just use 1 part of your tongue but use it all, involve your lips as well top and bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv licked quite a fair bit of fanny in my time op, as mentioned not to hard not to fast, experiment the entire area, insides of the legs, nibble on the big tendon both sides.

Move your hands all around her legs, bum, waist, belly and noobs if your arms are able to reach that far, rhythm

Dont just use 1 part of your tongue but use it all, involve your lips as well top and bottom

Boobs*

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Don't lick me like I'm a '99'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Goes without saying of course

I suggest you use the "Reply and Quote" button so we can see which posts you are responding to. "

Thanks for the tip

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv licked quite a fair bit of fanny in my time op, as mentioned not to hard not to fast, experiment the entire area, insides of the legs, nibble on the big tendon both sides.

Move your hands all around her legs, bum, waist, belly and noobs if your arms are able to reach that far, rhythm

Dont just use 1 part of your tongue but use it all, involve your lips as well top and bottom

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"If you want me to cum, find something I like then do that consistently and don't change a goddamm thing until I'm done

Ha ha! That's exactly what Hannah says. She's had lovers in the past who get it just right and then just go and change what they are doing, losing the momentum.

I think part of the skill is knowing what's what in that region. Then you have to start with something that could work and adjust according to the response. It's really helpful if the lady gives verbal guidance and the man responds accordingly. Then when you hit that magic combination, as you say, keep going until it all happens or she doesn't want you to continue.

Hannah says I'm very good at it.

Luke

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"If you want me to cum, find something I like then do that consistently and don't change a goddamm thing until I'm done

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this.... to be fair though I wouldn't allow a meet to go down on me as to many that haven't got a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find out what the woman likes.

For me it’s not too hard - tease around the area, kisses, licks, soft and slow to begin with.

Fast flick with the tip of the tongue is a winner. Lt the air get at it, makes it even more sensitive.

Oh and stay down there long enough for me to actually cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to do it, I like it just as much as the lady receiving it, showing you want to do it and enjoy is a massive thing too

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By *irdlover69Man
over a year ago

SE London

What a great thread OP.

At first I wasn't sure how I felt about 'trade secrets' being revealed, haha...

Here's my 5 step 'guide'

1. Develop a variety of different ways to push the right buttons.

2. Try and push as many different buttons as you can find.

3. Figure out which ones work and then narrow it down.

4. Now it's time to fine tune the frequency by finding the right timing (make sure you're comfortable doing that for as long as necessary - don't be tiring out at the wrong times!)

5. Go crazy and repeatedly push those God damn buttons till everything starts to tremble, and see it through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some enjoy having there bum kicked as well up

Experiment she'll withdraw get your tongue away from my ease or she won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Auto predict can duck right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alphabet with your tounge works 100%............some of the time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some enjoy having there bum kicked as well up

Experiment she'll withdraw get your tongue away from my ease or she won't

Licked not kicked up

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"So ladies I'd love to hear it what separates the clueless from the extraordinary?"

Do you not know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time, pay attention, learn what the person your with enjoys. Try things out, communicate. But mostly pay attention. You can tell from her noises, what she’s saying, her breathing, how wet she is, goosebumps, whether she’s writhing at all, if she’s tensing up etc etc. Find out what works with her and then tease, play, enjoy but don’t just go ham. But mainly PAY ATTENTION TO HER! You don’t have the beat tongue in the world, but if you pay attention it’ll be pretty damn good.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you. "

Yep beginers mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I’ve never really enjoyed it but that’s on me not able to relax, however must say it’s something I have thought that I would like to try again now as I’m super sensitive at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys think it's best to use their tongue like a washing machine and strum my clit like a DJ..

It's not a porno, slow and soft does the trick. Take your time fellas

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

I tried the alphabet technique, gently spelling out the alphabet with your tongue. If your good you normally get to p or q but sometimes it takes a little longer but when you get to x,y,z your tongue has had a proper workout

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By *inBleuMan
over a year ago

Sunny Yorkshire

Pay individual attention, read the pussy, be worshipful, listen but don’t necessarily stop, memorise for next time.

Squirt is your ultimate compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pay individual attention, read the pussy, be worshipful, listen but don’t necessarily stop, memorise for next time.

Squirt is your ultimate compliment

I totally disagree with the squirting being your ultimate compliment

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

Jesus yes! It's quite rare I'm comfortable allowing another person to touch my clitoris with their hands. So many are so rough! I totally know what you mean about trying to start a fire. It's like they're trying to rub it off. Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

Porn I don't think is the cause

Inexperience is

Agree with everything else you say though

Variety helps to learn and become better

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

Possibly they were scouts in their youth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

A lot of women need to listen to there own wisdom when it comes to cock

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

A lot of women need to listen to there own wisdom when it comes to cock

I can honestly say I've never attacked a cock in the way some men come for my clitoris

. If anything I tend to air on the side of caution and increase pressure/speed at their request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

A lot of women need to listen to there own wisdom when it comes to cock

I can honestly say I've never attacked a cock in the way some men come for my clitoris

. If anything I tend to air on the side of caution and increase pressure/speed at their request. "

Majority of women think it's detachable

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By *orYourPleasure xxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely slow and gentle please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

Couldn’t put this better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

A lot of women need to listen to there own wisdom when it comes to cock

I can honestly say I've never attacked a cock in the way some men come for my clitoris

. If anything I tend to air on the side of caution and increase pressure/speed at their request. "

Also very unable to determine how wide there jaw is opened.

Teeth inflict serious pain, it's bloody awful, embarrassing telling them to just stop

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

A lot of women need to listen to there own wisdom when it comes to cock

I can honestly say I've never attacked a cock in the way some men come for my clitoris

. If anything I tend to air on the side of caution and increase pressure/speed at their request.

Also very unable to determine how wide there jaw is opened.

Teeth inflict serious pain, it's bloody awful, embarrassing telling them to just stop "

I get it but there's no point continuing if you're not enjoying yourself. I think most people would rather know/stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

A lot of women need to listen to there own wisdom when it comes to cock

I can honestly say I've never attacked a cock in the way some men come for my clitoris

. If anything I tend to air on the side of caution and increase pressure/speed at their request.

Also very unable to determine how wide there jaw is opened.

Teeth inflict serious pain, it's bloody awful, embarrassing telling them to just stop

I get it but there's no point continuing if you're not enjoying yourself. I think most people would rather know/stop. "

Totally

Practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading body language helps. Explore their erogenous areas, relax take it slow and gentle a little bit of teasing... everyone is different

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Eating pussy is so last year. We have all been through so much, adapted, allowed our emotions to come through, dealt with so much social upheaval. Nows the time to open your mind to new and exciting things.

Make her cum from pussy spanking.

Treat that clit like its a protestor in the way of a presidential church photo op!

Get your floggers and whips out and purposefully wrap the falls or tail so it grazes that special place.

Bust out the electrics and shock that stubborn froof into submission!

Get some crotch rope going and teach that vageen who’s boss.

Think outside the box on how to treat her box and you will be generously rewarded...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely slow and gentle please "

Sorted Annie xxx

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Definitely rely on feedback from the licked.

Can be verbal or non verbal.

Positive and negative.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Treating every woman the same rather than reading and responding to what her body is telling you.

This! I don't care if previous women have loved it, if I don't I don't.

That's about it.

I like a slow gentle approach, I tell guys this but most just revert back to some form of manic, crazed licking style. Then I can't wait for it to stop.

It's the same when touching me. I ask for very gentle, sensual touching which somehow equates to mad rubbing like a boy scout with a stick trying to light a fire.

Think its watching too much porn.

But every know and then a guy actually listens..

Porn I don't think is the cause

Inexperience is

Agree with everything else you say though

Variety helps to learn and become better "

Bit of both maybe.

Inexperienced in the real world, over experienced ogling porn.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me the phrase "eating pussy" is a complete turn off.

If you are eating it... or trying to, you need to stop and reflect

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

The reason men rush is because to them it’s transactional. They do it so they can get a blow job

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Eating pussy is so last year. We have all been through so much, adapted, allowed our emotions to come through, dealt with so much social upheaval. Nows the time to open your mind to new and exciting things.

Make her cum from pussy spanking.

Treat that clit like its a protestor in the way of a presidential church photo op!

Get your floggers and whips out and purposefully wrap the falls or tail so it grazes that special place.

Bust out the electrics and shock that stubborn froof into submission!

Get some crotch rope going and teach that vageen who’s boss.

Think outside the box on how to treat her box and you will be generously rewarded..."

Man this brought a tear to my eye. Such poetic beauty

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"The reason men rush is because to them it’s transactional. They do it so they can get a blow job"

I'm going to start calling you the Resurrection Man (Reserrection Man?) due to the amount of dead threads you have been reviving

Why? and how are you even finding them?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Treat that clit like its a protestor in the way of a presidential church photo op!

You were brilliant even a year ago Fet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The reason men rush is because to them it’s transactional. They do it so they can get a blow job"

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