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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do vulgar details about what someone wants to do with you turn you on, I mean someone you actually fancy and would want to meet. I find it a turn off

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you fancy them, then they’re not likely to be perceived as vulgar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you fancy them, then they’re not likely to be perceived as vulgar. "

I’d have to disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I fancy them then yes it's a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you fancy them, then they’re not likely to be perceived as vulgar.

I’d have to disagree "

Ok, great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We want them to tell us Every Dirty Detail!

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Good band name.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

"
she said shit, not vomit. I'm sure she might like vomit too if you ask her though.

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By *uicybbwWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Yes

I never reply to a man who tells me what’s going to happen. He either sends that to everyone or he doesn’t care to find out what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer vulgar latin to other forms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest."

Soooooo where is Hotwife Shitty, I mean City? I'm asking for a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

she said shit, not vomit. I'm sure she might like vomit too if you ask her though."

Only in my mouth.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Yes

I never reply to a man who tells me what’s going to happen. He either sends that to everyone or he doesn’t care to find out what you want "

^^^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

Soooooo where is Hotwife Shitty, I mean City? I'm asking for a friend?

"

Up the arse and to the left

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Apparently the one's who say they're going to do this ..then they'll do that....just do the vanillaest deed .. double quick . and fuck off quicksmart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes

I never reply to a man who tells me what’s going to happen. He either sends that to everyone or he doesn’t care to find out what you want

^^^This "

Love this I can’t stand it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently the one's who say they're going to do this ..then they'll do that....just do the vanillaest deed .. double quick . and fuck off quicksmart "

I don’t do that and it sounds like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest."

You haven’t told me yet.

Oh... waidaminute....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Oh the things I’d do to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

Soooooo where is Hotwife Shitty, I mean City? I'm asking for a friend?

Up the arse and to the left "

I'll take that as an invitation. You bring the lube and I'll bring the jaffa cakes for after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

I never reply to a man who tells me what’s going to happen. He either sends that to everyone or he doesn’t care to find out what you want "

The irony of someone calling out vulgarity, whilst showing a picture of their spreadeagled minge in a Public photo. Power to your freedom of speech!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

Soooooo where is Hotwife Shitty, I mean City? I'm asking for a friend?

Up the arse and to the left "

Got to love impractical jokers

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If it's part of a conversation we are having then it is generally a turn on but when it is sent as a first or introductory message it's a big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

Soooooo where is Hotwife Shitty, I mean City? I'm asking for a friend?

Up the arse and to the left

Got to love impractical jokers "

Da da dada

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

Soooooo where is Hotwife Shitty, I mean City? I'm asking for a friend?

Up the arse and to the left

Got to love impractical jokers

Da da dada "

I love Joe, brilliant programme

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Do vulgar details about what someone wants to do with you turn you on, I mean someone you actually fancy and would want to meet. I find it a turn off "

Same its a bug turn off for me, I like the mystery element of a meet not knowing how it would unfold.

To be honest if a person goes to the extreme of saying they'll do this and that I would run a mile.

You don't know how a meet will go so to pre meditate how it will go just seems like a facade to me. Would make me question am I just on their bucket list xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does 'I want to wear your skin like pyjamas' count as vulgar?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest."

I'm glad my chest is removable

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

I'm glad my chest is removable "

I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

I'm glad my chest is removable "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the woman and the context of your conversations up to that point.

I know this is boring... but as with most things to do with sex.... it depends. It also depends how go a writer you are!

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Does 'I want to wear your skin like pyjamas' count as vulgar?"

Pah ha ha ha!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest."

You’ve never told me this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

You’ve never told me this ! "

But we have an understanding, my shit goes elsewhere on you

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

I'm glad my chest is removable

I love you "

Was it you who already said this on another thread today

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

You’ve never told me this !

But we have an understanding, my shit goes elsewhere on you "

Blocked!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest."

Just for clarity, from what height?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

Just for clarity, from what height? "

Depends how big the shit is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I tell everyone I want to meet about my desire to shit on their chest.

You’ve never told me this !

But we have an understanding, my shit goes elsewhere on you

Blocked! "

Don't start that again.. we knows who will win

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Does nothing for me at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do vulgar details about what someone wants to do with you turn you on, I mean someone you actually fancy and would want to meet. I find it a turn off

Same its a bug turn off for me, I like the mystery element of a meet not knowing how it would unfold.

To be honest if a person goes to the extreme of saying they'll do this and that I would run a mile.

You don't know how a meet will go so to pre meditate how it will go just seems like a facade to me. Would make me question am I just on their bucket list xx"

Yeah same defo think that’s why it turns me off x

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think I would enjoy it, but I shall report back when it happens.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

‘ Sexting’ is an acquired taste...... it very much depends on how much I fancy the guy in question and his approach to it. I don’t court crude or vulgar; it’s not necessary to be either if you have the ability to use the correct vocabulary to hit hit the spot!

Some are really shit hot in their ability to communicate theirs/your desire .... most kill it in the first phrase!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do vulgar details about what someone wants to do with you turn you on, I mean someone you actually fancy and would want to meet. I find it a turn off "

Everyone is different. What some people can’t as vulgar details others love.

However, if I fancied someone then I can’t see myself being turned off unless it was extreme stuff and then I’d just say I don’t want to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the verbalisation of sex. I find it can be highly provocative, can enhance sexual interplay and a huge turn on.

But - it very much depends on

- when it’s being said (timing - both in terms of how early in a relationship and also just general timing in a conversation)

- appropriateness and context

- what is being said

- who is saying it.

- whether it’s a two-way dialogue.

I find that vulgar conversation usually builds over time as you learn each other’s trigger words and build trust/understanding of each your own dynamic.

And it’s different from relationship to relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh - and having “vulgar sex talk” definitely ISN’T a prerequisite for me

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Not really into vulgar factions. I think it might have something to do with the Shiites or the Sunnis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of men I’ve wanted to have sex with usually tell me they want to have their way with my ass before even buying me a drink

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"A lot of men I’ve wanted to have sex with usually tell me they want to have their way with my ass before even buying me a drink "

That's terrible.

I've never owned a donkey.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"A lot of men I’ve wanted to have sex with usually tell me they want to have their way with my ass before even buying me a drink

That's terrible.

I've never owned a donkey."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men I’ve wanted to have sex with usually tell me they want to have their way with my ass before even buying me a drink

That's terrible.

I've never owned a donkey."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does 'I want to wear your skin like pyjamas' count as vulgar?"

Not vulgar but has a hint of Hannibal Lecter in there. What was that character’s name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is and if we're already talking. If I've gotten to know him a bit, it can be really hot. If it's the first message from a new person, then unless I'm mid wank when I open it it's likely to cause my nose to crinkle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite funny

Majority of women are all talk then when it comes to it they simply do not have it in them,

Suck me dry

Eat me alive

Fuck me all night long

99% of the time it's me doing the fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does 'I want to wear your skin like pyjamas' count as vulgar?

Not vulgar but has a hint of Hannibal Lecter in there. What was that character’s name? "

Buffalo Bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, when said in the right manner, at the right moment, by the right person.

It’s extremely sensual and erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does 'I want to wear your skin like pyjamas' count as vulgar?

Not vulgar but has a hint of Hannibal Lecter in there. What was that character’s name?

Buffalo Bill "

You would know that!!

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"‘ Sexting’ is an acquired taste...... it very much depends on how much I fancy the guy in question and his approach to it. I don’t court crude or vulgar; it’s not necessary to be either if you have the ability to use the correct vocabulary to hit hit the spot!

Some are really shit hot in their ability to communicate theirs/your desire .... most kill it in the first phrase! "

The is how it is for me. I'd go so far as to say I'm not usually a fan at all, but right person, in the right moment with the right language...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘ Sexting’ is an acquired taste...... it very much depends on how much I fancy the guy in question and his approach to it. I don’t court crude or vulgar; it’s not necessary to be either if you have the ability to use the correct vocabulary to hit hit the spot!

Some are really shit hot in their ability to communicate theirs/your desire .... most kill it in the first phrase!

The is how it is for me. I'd go so far as to say I'm not usually a fan at all, but right person, in the right moment with the right language... "

Were you reading my mind?? (See a few posts above)

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There’s a time for that normally a fb you know already and the day or so before meeting can be quite hot. I’m fairly dominant so receiving that doesn’t really do much for me but it can be fun to see how you affect someone

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[vulgarity Removed by poster at 30/05/21 10:20:54]"

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"‘ Sexting’ is an acquired taste...... it very much depends on how much I fancy the guy in question and his approach to it. I don’t court crude or vulgar; it’s not necessary to be either if you have the ability to use the correct vocabulary to hit hit the spot!

Some are really shit hot in their ability to communicate theirs/your desire .... most kill it in the first phrase!

The is how it is for me. I'd go so far as to say I'm not usually a fan at all, but right person, in the right moment with the right language...

Were you reading my mind?? (See a few posts above) "

What I said was...

Apparently. 'Tis a skill.

Except it's totally not a cool response now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[vulgarity Removed by poster at 30/05/21 10:20:54]"

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"[vulgarity Removed by poster at 30/05/21 10:20:54]"

Oops, slip of the finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘ Sexting’ is an acquired taste...... it very much depends on how much I fancy the guy in question and his approach to it. I don’t court crude or vulgar; it’s not necessary to be either if you have the ability to use the correct vocabulary to hit hit the spot!

Some are really shit hot in their ability to communicate theirs/your desire .... most kill it in the first phrase!

The is how it is for me. I'd go so far as to say I'm not usually a fan at all, but right person, in the right moment with the right language...

Were you reading my mind?? (See a few posts above)

What I said was...

Apparently. 'Tis a skill.

Except it's totally not a cool response now "

Tease.

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"‘ Sexting’ is an acquired taste...... it very much depends on how much I fancy the guy in question and his approach to it. I don’t court crude or vulgar; it’s not necessary to be either if you have the ability to use the correct vocabulary to hit hit the spot!

Some are really shit hot in their ability to communicate theirs/your desire .... most kill it in the first phrase!

The is how it is for me. I'd go so far as to say I'm not usually a fan at all, but right person, in the right moment with the right language...

Were you reading my mind?? (See a few posts above)

What I said was...

Apparently. 'Tis a skill.

Except it's totally not a cool response now

Tease. "

Weeeeell...

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