FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine men dont get credit

By *damBFD OP Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I think genuine men are under rated as theres a larger ratio to the fakes .

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

What do you class as “fake”?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Actually, for that matter - what do you call “genuine”?

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I don't believe so. There's just a general surplus of men. Not sure there are that many fake males here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hmm.

I think most men are genuine.

I don't think it's anything to give credit about. It's a minimum requirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldnt need credit for something that should come as standard.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

An alternative way of thinking is that genuine men actually get loads more credit because of the “fakes”.

I know many women on here are very quick to thank guys who come across as genuine.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

All men are genuine.

Some are just genuine doorhandles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine has different meanings to different people. Anyone can be who they want to be behind a screen, it's only the in person connection that can be truely classed as genuine on here.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think the genuine men don’t need to tell people they are genuine - it’ll come through in how the interact, message and their general behaviour.

I can count on one hand how many fake profiles I think I’ve come across, so I don’t think they are as high as what people make out and peoples interpretations of a fake profile is vastly different.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think you are wrong but I defend to 'your' death your right to be wrong and to wrongly state what you think is right.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Technically, a fake man must be a woman. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure that there's plenty of genuine men on site who are as much of a cunt as fakers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think genuine men are under rated as theres a larger ratio to the fakes ."

I'd say that they're rated pretty highly. The fakes only serve to make the good ones look better.

I know what you're saying though. Men get a very poor time of it in the forums, they're frequently criticised for their messages, their photos, their profiles their approach etc. I'm not really surprised that the "genuine" men feel a bit miffed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine is attractive as long as it’s not accompanied with whiny. Whiny is unattractive no matter how genuine you are.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"All men are genuine.

Some are just genuine doorhandles. "

Seconded.

I think the main definition of 'genuine' is that their intentions match yours!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We 'rate' single men on an individual basis - we've never been fans of the whole blanket rating approach!

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By *orneytwoCouple
over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

Is a fake man not a girl.if he is not a man he must be a woman.well most of the time.what has this place become

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"All men are genuine.

Some are just genuine doorhandles.

Seconded.

I think the main definition of 'genuine' is that their intentions match yours!"

I guess my requirement for 'Fab genuine' would be to tell the truth about what you want from Fab and to the people you are chatting to. And as these things change, update the people you're involved with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To me genuine just means, is the sex they say they are. It's the least of the least qualifications.

It's like saying you're qualified to be a doctor because you breathe.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Technically, a fake man must be a woman. Thanks"
could be that well known Australian educational institution

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I get credit...

... from the local shop.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

My penis is fake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My penis is fake"

Mine is pink and gets plugged in

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I think the genuine men don’t need to tell people they are genuine - it’ll come through in how the interact, message and their general behaviour.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I think genuine men are under rated as theres a larger ratio to the fakes ."

Maybe genuine men don’t need credit… they are just already going about doing their own thing…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think genuine men are under rated as theres a larger ratio to the fakes .

Maybe genuine men don’t need credit… they are just already going about doing their own thing…"

Good point that man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuine and I get credit, my mummy tells me I'm lovely chap every day

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Technically, a fake man must be a woman. Thanks"

And therefore a fake woman is a man.....thanks for the clarification

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

If I see 'genuine' in a bio it makes me think they're trying too hard to persuade the reader that they're not a fake, and thus are probably fake.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I'm sure that there's plenty of genuine men on site who are as much of a cunt as fakers

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Why would anyone need validation for being real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think genuine men are under rated as theres a larger ratio to the fakes ."

Yeah the revenge porn fakes are awful. Using women's pics to get laid.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Actually, for that matter - what do you call “genuine”?"

Pinocchio wasn’t a real boy ....

He was made from wood

I am genuinely made from skin flesh and bone %100 a real man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a genuine man but im still an arsehole lol

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By *damBFD OP Man
over a year ago

Shipley

What I mean is The women seem to get bombarded by the fakes (time wasters . Using fake pics etc) so men go to the extreme to pretend to be single women lol . I met a fake woman earlier on this week and she had a googled pic .

I think if Couples men or women are not meet or photo verified within a week on being here . They should be removed from the site (this will remove all fakes and time wasters)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What I mean is The women seem to get bombarded by the fakes (time wasters . Using fake pics etc) so men go to the extreme to pretend to be single women lol . I met a fake woman earlier on this week and she had a googled pic .

I think if Couples men or women are not meet or photo verified within a week on being here . They should be removed from the site (this will remove all fakes and time wasters)"

It'd also remove most genuine men or those cautious about meeting, and Fab have said they won't make photo verification compulsory.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If I was a fake, I'd have better looking face pics , pic of an 11 inch cock and a 6 pack.

I'm me, in the words of gloria gaynor, I am what I am, I cant fake that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

What do you mean don’t get credit? What do people want from here?!! Yay well done you’re not a dick!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I think genuine men are under rated as theres a larger ratio to the fakes .

Yeah the revenge porn fakes are awful. Using women's pics to get laid. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed you were a female until I got to your last pic

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Keep it on the thread OP.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I thought the only way anyone could get credit was if they proved themselves genuine and could pay their credit back anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What credit should they get, a blue plaque or perhaps a little trophy with ‘This guy is genuine, not like them other ones on here’ written on it ?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"What credit should they get, a blue plaque or perhaps a little trophy with ‘This guy is genuine, not like them other ones on here’ written on it ? "

I’d give you my last rolo

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

You’re right OP.

Obviously with this post you’ve proved that you’re definitely a cut above those others and will no doubt reap your reward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the genuine men don’t need to tell people they are genuine - it’ll come through in how the interact, message and their general behaviour.

Agree with this

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Credit for what?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Fakes aren't the problem, I've only come across 2 so far, it's the chancers, time wasters and complete idiots that are the issue

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"What credit should they get, a blue plaque or perhaps a little trophy with ‘This guy is genuine, not like them other ones on here’ written on it ? "

A stamp on the left butt cheek,a bit like those stamps on eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assumed you were a female until I got to your last pic

I see what you mean lol

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By *damBFD OP Man
over a year ago

Shipley

No none of that bull . What I mean is there are less of us who are genuine . Most are using fake pics etc. It needs to be said but fakes need to be banned by admin once they upload a fake picture

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over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No none of that bull . What I mean is there are less of us who are genuine . Most are using fake pics etc. It needs to be said but fakes need to be banned by admin once they upload a fake picture"

I haven’t once chatted to a fake and I’ve been here 4 years! Luck or good judgement? Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when single guys first come on here it can be a bit like a desert dust bowl but when you’re patient, understanding of what it’s like on here for others and the fact that it’s hard for couples and single women to sort the good from the bad, if all starts to make sense. My advice (not that I’m an expert) is chill out and be your genuine self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No none of that bull . What I mean is there are less of us who are genuine . Most are using fake pics etc. It needs to be said but fakes need to be banned by admin once they upload a fake picture"

Just a question how does what other men do on here affect you?

I wouldn’t worry what others do.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No none of that bull . What I mean is there are less of us who are genuine . Most are using fake pics etc. It needs to be said but fakes need to be banned by admin once they upload a fake picture"

As opposed to those who have 80% of women?

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"An alternative way of thinking is that genuine men actually get loads more credit because of the “fakes”.

I know many women on here are very quick to thank guys who come across as genuine."

Agree.

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