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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you recieve a friend request do you add them, or ignore?

Do you have in profile you will not add unless have spoken to person before hand?

Or do you send random friend requests if you like the sound of person or like look of thier pictures?

Myself have in profile wont add unless spoken to, dont add or send random requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have please do not send friends request....might aswell.say no parking,dont sit there wet paint etc etc...as no bugger takes note....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they're hot or not

(Serious answer: usually I won't add random people without having exchanged messages. I like an idea who I am sharing my private photos with)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wots a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother mentioning much of anything on my profile. The idiots won't read it anyway.

The type of people I want to meet wouldn't be sending friend requests without even speaking. I think it's rude and unbelievably stupid/ ignorant to send a friend request without even speaking to someone!

I just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wots a friend?

"

Pffft

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree there is some that dont read profiles at all, and send in hope.

I just wondered if anyone accepted then before talking to the person (just being nosey )

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it's someone who's never even mailed me....and if they have friends gallery pics, I normally leave it til they're offline, accept, have a quick perv of their pvt pics, then delete.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have been known to wait till I can't sleep then go through the friends requests and accept and perv before deleting

Well if they will send me an unsolicited request...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wots a friend?

Pffft "

Well thats me told innit...

I wont accept random requests... If someone is only after a face pic, they only need to ask... (Sometimes I will send one back, if I know them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them all. If they've sent one they've clearly not read my profile so I wouldn't be meeting them anyway. Like to keep my private pics private- purely for people I'm considering meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wots a friend?

Pffft

Well thats me told innit...

I wont accept random requests... If someone is only after a face pic, they only need to ask... (Sometimes I will send one back, if I know them)

"

Oh i want a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples - check out private pics and if we like the look of them , and the verifications are good we may accept and keep .

Single woman - same as above

Single guys - delete immediately if we have never talked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wots a friend?

Pffft

Well thats me told innit...

I wont accept random requests... If someone is only after a face pic, they only need to ask... (Sometimes I will send one back, if I know them)

Oh i want a pic

"

And me and me( jumps up and down with a sulky face)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I wont accept random requests... If someone is only after a face pic, they only need to ask... (Sometimes I will send one back, if I know them)

Oh i want a pic

And me and me( jumps up and down with a sulky face) "

Ya got me filtered sulky socks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u have pics u don't want just any1 to see, I put them as private. Then you accept any1 from your local area who fits ur criteria, without worrying people you haven't spoken to have seen your pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random ones, I treat as an invitation to have a look at them whilst they're not looking.

One with pics in their friends gallery, I just wait til they go off line and then accept and look at their pics

Then delete

Ones with no pics in the friends gallery, I just delete straight away.

It's only fair - rude works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it better to mail and say "Let's be friends" first ?

A random request from someone you've never met, without any further mail or chat, just goes to show a lack of effort ....

which may well be reflected in anything they, do including the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it better to mail and say "Let's be friends" first ?

A random request from someone you've never met, without any further mail or chat, just goes to show a lack of effort ....

which may well be reflected in anything they, do including the bedroom "

By sending a message 'sayin let's be friends'. Is the same as sending friend request.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

When I receive a random friends request I wait until they go offline and then I click accept.

I then look at their private pics and if they are mingers I quickly delete them before they login.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"When I receive a random friends request I wait until they go offline and then I click accept.

I then look at their private pics and if they are mingers I quickly delete them before they login.

"

You must have a lot of time on your hands...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to wait till I can't sleep then go through the friends requests and accept and perv before deleting

Well if they will send me an unsolicited request... "

I've done this a couple of times

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"When I receive a random friends request I wait until they go offline and then I click accept.

I then look at their private pics and if they are mingers I quickly delete them before they login.

You must have a lot of time on your hands... "

Let's just say it would fair to say that I could be accused of over delegating at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree there is some that dont read profiles at all, and send in hope.

I just wondered if anyone accepted then before talking to the person (just being nosey )

"

If I get cheeky requests with no prior message - ill wait til they're logged off - add them - browse their pictures and then remove!!

If I like the look of them I'll message - but won't add until there's been a few messages exchanged!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatly don't accept off men we haven't met.

People too far away,or ones we don't fancy.

Will often accept and if no fav pics instantly delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it better to mail and say "Let's be friends" first ?

A random request from someone you've never met, without any further mail or chat, just goes to show a lack of effort ....

which may well be reflected in anything they, do including the bedroom

By sending a message 'sayin let's be friends'. Is the same as sending friend request. "

Well obviously I'd elaborate a bit more than that .....

Not going to post a whole example of a conversation on the forum

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I agree there is some that dont read profiles at all, and send in hope.

I just wondered if anyone accepted then before talking to the person (just being nosey )

"

I don't think it matters what you write in your profile about accepting friend requests or anything else, as you find that 75% of people don't read the profile itself and just go straight to the photos and then either send a message and or friend request, even if outside of age range or what you are looking for.

I myself have even been send a number of requests, mainly by guys but also girls who I have not spoken too, but personally dont mind at all, spoken to a few nice people this way.

As a general rule I don't do this, but then rules as there to be broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says in our profile we delete all unsolicited Friend Invites. If people don't know what 'unsolicited' means then that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definatly don't accept off men we haven't met.

People too far away,or ones we don't fancy.

Will often accept and if no fav pics instantly delete it."

I've noticed that too! People hundreds of miles away that 'can't travel' seem the worst culprits!!

I guess they feel if they can't ever meet that there's a chance you'll let them have a perve over your private pics as an alternative!!

Yeah right!!!!

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Says in our profile we delete all unsolicited Friend Invites. If people don't know what 'unsolicited' means then that's their problem.

"

Ahh cool, friend request sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Forgot to add - the only exception I have to my friends rule is those I enjoy 'flanter' with on the forums!

There's several people id love to meet if for nothing more than a social and a face to face chat! Even those outside of my filter settings - and as one regular forumite told me last week - he's been trying to guess what some of the regulars look like for years - and still doesn't know! Lol

Have to say - I'm a little curious myself! (mentioning no names in particular! Lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first came on this site we accepted friends requests from anyone who asked. After a while we realised most we would never ever meet, so the way we play it now is to just exchange facial pics and then if we all decide to meet we add as friends, knowing that we will meet again at some point. Random friends invites to me is like walking into a huge room full of people and just saying to some that they can be your friends without knowing anything about them!! Very strange to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to wait till I can't sleep then go through the friends requests and accept and perv before deleting

Well if they will send me an unsolicited request... "

Me too! I do that as well!

Well, I've said "No friends requests until I know you" so if they send one then it's up to me how I use it...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have no random requests on my profile but no one listens and adds away... they get ignored..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Like many of the others, I have a quick look at who's sent the request - if they've not spoken, as my profile requests, I may ignore or wink at them, possibly message them, if they seem appropriate etc.

Most of them are chancers, looking to see more pics.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Generally I only look who has sent a request when someone tells me they have sent one... accept theirs and delete the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a random friend request will never be accepted by us, one with a message might tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's someone who's never even mailed me....and if they have friends gallery pics, I normally leave it til they're offline, accept, have a quick perv of their pvt pics, then delete. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Says in our profile we delete all unsolicited Friend Invites. If people don't know what 'unsolicited' means then that's their problem.

Ahh cool, friend request sent "

Eeeeeee, yer ded foonie yoo...... lol!

Might just 'getcha back, jack'...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

random friends requests with no other communication..

block and delete..

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Says in our profile we delete all unsolicited Friend Invites. If people don't know what 'unsolicited' means then that's their problem.

Ahh cool, friend request sent

Eeeeeee, yer ded foonie yoo...... lol!

Might just 'getcha back, jack'...

"

Well I look forward to that then, but just remember that I'm a ninja and have eyes everywhere........

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I ignore them,and everynow and then just delete them all

Ill normally exchange face pics after a few messages before I even accept anyones friends invite,I just want to know if theres an attraction

I don't like a huge friends list and don't have many on there at all,I keep in touch other ways with people that I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it's someone we've spoken to a fair bit then we'll just delete or ignore them.

We don't do silent spectators

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never sent a friends req unwarranted to anyone..I find it bizarre with no communication either, and I dunno what else they expect to find within the friends pics really(based on my own profile)

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