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Single men and waiting to see what happens?

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes to all single men out there on here

Today meet was five years in the planning we got here at long last after a few socails to all single men wait see cos there no timescale

There was a lot of stop to starts to it as I say over the years as I say

Now dont give up let the time find it self this isnt a race no should be treated at such

Now there are a lot of really nice guys on here who are not pushy and are a creit to the site and life style

Now there some who think its a free for all which is isnt

Now you have to let it find its own timeing and not push it

Its how to find and get the best from this

Some folk your meet almost right away and play soon follows fun some you have to wiat for it all to find its own level and it own way

So hold back dont push cos most of this dont happen over night

Lots of things have to fall into place for for this to begin

So I will open this to see what folk have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years! Think of all the shiz a man could do in five years!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I would rather have a good connection with someone first, so for me there is no rush

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I would lose interest.. av not got time to wait 5 years for anything never mind waiting for sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years to plan a meet, what did you have an opening and closing ceremony with two weeks of events in between ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of encouragement Appreciated

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Hurray! 5 years wowee..good on ya!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m not for rushing into anything but five years? One thing I’m not after on Fab is a pen friend. I’m here to meet real people. Not necessarily for sex but at least a coffee or a stroll.

5 years in the making. Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow that’s a long arse time but congrats for you both in eventually getting it on I just hope after all that buildup and time it was amazing and not a flop as that would be very sad indeed and will there be a round 2 hopefully not in another 5 years keep us posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a couple of people who got on really well and kept in touch, let it happen naturally. Bet it was a great experience when you met in the end

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

was amzing it what is what swinging is about its found its self in its own timeing

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

I’m patient whilst being impatient.

5 years is a whole new level!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

There's no rush from me

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By *amesB2021Man
over a year ago

ruislip

5 years long time , did u meet while he was serving his prison sentence then ? As unless you couldn’t physically meet one another I couldn’t see why anyone would want to wait 5 years ? But that’s just me I’d presume after prob one year if she didn’t want to meet me she prob didn’t want to but that’s just me

I hope it was worth the wait for you both

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Did you both go without for 5years? Or did you have other lovers in that time?

Imagine waiting that long and it turned out to be crap then having to wait another 5 years for the next bus to come along

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Im happy to get to know someone socially, equally im happy meeting and getting straight into the fun side.

Five years would be too long for me, unless it was one of these overseas romances, even then....five years

I couldn't do it, hope it all went well for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would lose interest.. av not got time to wait 5 years for anything never mind waiting for sex! "

Same here

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

If it takes you 5 years to have a social with me and decide if you like me enough for a meet I’ll save us both the time and say don’t bother.

No ones that busy. It’s a case of being bothered at that point.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I know I take my time to get to know someone before I meet but I'm talking weeks .5 years nah that's too long and we would lose interest in meeting or they would have long ago been friendzoned .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would lose interest.. av not got time to wait 5 years for anything never mind waiting for sex! "

Lol true

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Flippin ek. And I thought I was bad!

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

If we havent met within a year its not going to happen.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Sorry but after 5 years I'd have long given up, christ

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Sorry but after 5 years I'd have long given up, christ "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean this is a swinging site right I'd assume they were meeting other people they had already made a connection with maybe another reason they weren't in any rush

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It’s great that you got there in the end OP, but I couldn’t have ‘forsaken all others’ in the meantime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me I prefer the build up to the actual meet anyway

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Work patterns clashing, being unable to afford a hotel or travel, responsibilities, not being local to one another.

There are umpteen reasons a meet could have taken that long.

Unless I book time off work as holiday there's zero guarantee that I'll get my rota'd days off or my shifts can change very short notice. Shit happens. To pin me down as a definite I need to book it off, and I ain't gonna book time off willy nilly. I save my holiday for my birthday week, gigs, special occasions and when I'm starting to feel burnt out.

So yeah, it can easily happen that it takes what seems like an age unless the timing aligns all flukey.

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By *heekyeyesMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't think it takes five years to get a connection to someone here!

Basically all interest will gone along with what you are looking for here! Depends on the people here!

I think and I am actually like this: I rather wait 1 year and if there's a connection with someone ok ! If not I'll move on ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand meeting on here and staying in touch etc, then meeting following that, or meeting in person but not seeing each other for ages. But I think I’d struggle to understand a pair trying to actively arrange a meet for five years.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Wow... Life is too short to wait that long.

But I have a short attention span, so yeah. I think 5 months would probably be my limit

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Congrats on finally meeting but 5 years is a bit long for me to wait for a meet.

Waiting over a year because of covid is more than long enough but has given time to get to know people better.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just happy that your happy. Maybe not wait so long till the next meet?

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