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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton

I need you wonderful forumites to solve an argument for me?

In my eyes, a social is when you get together for a coffee/drinks/food/whatever and no playing involved.

A meet, is when you get together and have some fun.

Which common sense dictates, a social meet is meeting for food/drinks/whatever, and then having some fun.

My female friend says a social meet does not involve sex.

Who is right?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Her

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Social meet. Just chatting. No fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need you wonderful forumites to solve an argument for me?

In my eyes, a social is when you get together for a coffee/drinks/food/whatever and no playing involved.

A meet, is when you get together and have some fun.

Which common sense dictates, a social meet is meeting for food/drinks/whatever, and then having some fun.

My female friend says a social meet does not involve sex.

Who is right?"

If I was having a social meet I wouldn’t be expecting sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet is a social to me, no play involved.

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton

You’re all wrong!!!!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A social meet to me is just coffee or lunch or whatever .It only turns into something else if we get on extremely well.Once social is in the title that is what it means to me anyhow .

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I had social meet as a social to see if you get on but fun not to be expected but a possible option if the mood takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet is a social to me, no play involved."

Unless cheese is involved then thats a whole different ball game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet is chatting, getting to know each other, no expectations.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

She is. Social is purely a get to know you, quick coffee/drink.

A meet is where play is involved.

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By *tsbudahMan
over a year ago

ely

Her !

Woman are always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have prearranged to have play then it’s different but if not then it’s just a meet for coffee or a drink have a chat

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton

Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The clue is in the word; social.

No play on a social meet, they’re for gauging interest and attraction, then deciding if you want to go further at a later date.

You don’t get people having sex at group socials, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet for a social = social meet/no expectation of sex surely?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Social meet is chatting, getting to know each other, no expectations."

This 100 %

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Have been on socials that have been just that coffee/drink and others that went on to fun! It depends on what both parties want but certainly no expectations x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

In my view a social meet is exactly that, meeting in a social environment, no pressure and no expectation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the lady above

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?"

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The clue is in the word; social.

No play on a social meet, they’re for gauging interest and attraction, then deciding if you want to go further at a later date.

You don’t get people having sex at group socials, do you?"

This

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton

I feel sorry for future generations after reading these comments

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Sorry Sausage the forum is unusually in agreement that you are wrong.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?"

A social is a social meet. Social is short for social meet. Same thing. What you’ve done (if I’ve read it right) is taken “social” and “meet” and assumed the two said together means a social then fun. They’re the same thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate but a social meet is just that a meet to get to know each other face to face. To see if you can both hold a conversation in person and to see if you are both actually attracted to each other physically instead of from behind a keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?"

There isnt a difference

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?

A social is a social meet. Social is short for social meet. Same thing. What you’ve done (if I’ve read it right) is taken “social” and “meet” and assumed the two said together means a social then fun. They’re the same thing x"

An even better answer

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I always thought a 'social' was short for 'social meet', and the reason we chuck social on the front is to make it clear that the meet is only for social reasons.

This leaves the stand alone 'meet' as potentially everything else.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

A social for us is meeting up for drinks, coffee, chat.... if that leads to fun that day or night then cool it's a social that's turned into a naughty meet. Doesn't really matter to us how it's labelled for instance if we are meeting up with someone for a drink at night we like to call that a "date" each to there own.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr southend

Sorry fella your friend is right a social meet is just that a social meeting with somekne for coffee, drinks, lunch ect whwre as a meet or a play meet is a meet with the expectation of sex/play/naughtyness on the cards.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?

A social is a social meet. Social is short for social meet. Same thing. What you’ve done (if I’ve read it right) is taken “social” and “meet” and assumed the two said together means a social then fun. They’re the same thing x"

Agreed. I've never seen the forum come together so beautifully, brings a tear to my eye.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No matter how you want to interpret it anything that has “social” in it means just that, socialising

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X"

People definitely do meet and have fun on the first time.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X

People definitely do meet and have fun on the first time. "

Yep, they most definitely do

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's what you make it but you would generally be expecting the wrong things, if you expect your cock to be engaged

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest


"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X"
its most definitely been known on a first meet

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X

People definitely do meet and have fun on the first time. "

Yes I have met for coffee and if there is that sexual chemistry gone onto have fun on first meet! For sure! But if the chemistry attraction whatever u like to call it is not there which has been often I wouldn't x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?"

No difference.

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville


"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X"

it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet is chatting, getting to know each other, no expectations."

This

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant imagine anyone would expect fun on a very first meet whatever u like to call it tbh? If u have never met someone before how will u know u are sexually attracted? U cant tell that unless u are face to face? X

People definitely do meet and have fun on the first time. "

Yes we have

Her x

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton

I don’t like the forums any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're confusing meet with lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so a question to all you wronguns: what’s the difference between a social and a social meet?"

There is no difference, in my opinion... A social meet is what it says on the tin... You are meeting socially.

Drink, chat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Sausage, your friend is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless to what you call it:

Social, Social meet,meet, coffee and a chat, Lunch or Dinner Date.

You should never turn up anywhere with the attitude or view in your mind of getting your dick wet or your pussy pounded!!

Your not even guaranteed to have sex in a club (as an example)

It's a Cockwomble view to have

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton


"Regardless to what you call it:

Social, Social meet,meet, coffee and a chat, Lunch or Dinner Date.

You should never turn up anywhere with the attitude or view in your mind of getting your dick wet or your pussy pounded!!

Your not even guaranteed to have sex in a club (as an example)

It's a Cockwomble view to have "

Lol only you!!! It’s a joke thread x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I don’t like the forums any more "

Be happy that you have done something that has never been done before.

You have brought the forums together as one!

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton


"I don’t like the forums any more

Be happy that you have done something that has never been done before.

You have brought the forums together as one! "

Not as one cause now I’m the outcast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social is a social. Whether you call it a social or a social meet, it's the same thing.

If im going to play, I'll say so.

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton


"Social is a social. Whether you call it a social or a social meet, it's the same thing.

If im going to play, I'll say so. "

You’re not my friend any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social is a social. Whether you call it a social or a social meet, it's the same thing.

If im going to play, I'll say so.

You’re not my friend any more "

Liar.

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By *heNYCSausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Everton


"Social is a social. Whether you call it a social or a social meet, it's the same thing.

If im going to play, I'll say so.

You’re not my friend any more

Liar."

Go and sit in the corner

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You're friend is so right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social is a social. Whether you call it a social or a social meet, it's the same thing.

If im going to play, I'll say so.

You’re not my friend any more

Liar.

Go and sit in the corner "

What, with everyone else who is right? Okay - busy corner

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"I don’t like the forums any more

Be happy that you have done something that has never been done before.

You have brought the forums together as one!

Not as one cause now I’m the outcast "

Join us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need you wonderful forumites to solve an argument for me?

In my eyes, a social is when you get together for a coffee/drinks/food/whatever and no playing involved.

A meet, is when you get together and have some fun.

Which common sense dictates, a social meet is meeting for food/drinks/whatever, and then having some fun.

My female friend says a social meet does not involve sex.

Who is right?"

Social meet is always no sex. It’s an opportunity to see if the spark exists in the real world before meeting for sex.

Some people may not separate the two perhaps to save time or maybe because of long distance

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