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"X girlfriend single mum Amazing weekend together and then no contact? Treated like a king and genuinely could commit ... ( also there are children involved) This has happened several times ... don’t have blame at all because we opened up and felt we close.. But without communication I don’t feel is fair to myself and my own life gets put on hold... This specific situation is recent but consolidated fairly and lovingly and pleased to move on Interested in this community opinions on similar situations Is it ghosting? Or just a normal traight with modern society? " She needs time | |||
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"Dated on off over 6 months a couple of years ago 3 months together with children involved I personally feel breaks through the honey moon period of a relationship Yet we both pleased to be single as we both single parents Genuinely have feelings but also feel happy in myself to move on.. given communication.. no communication I care more and don’t feel is fair Interested to know how common a traight like this is... especially in this community where people seem more comfortable with themselves If even a simple ‘we are finished’ would allow " Is she in this community | |||
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"Maybe if you're exes then whilst she sti has clear feeling for you she might not want to go back ... especially if one or both of you hasn't changed in the same way? Do you share kids with her? " We don’t share kids But she’s helped me very much with my own and I have great heart for her own It’s probably me... but if you are two of a kind perhaps we just poles apart | |||
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"Dated on off over 6 months a couple of years ago 3 months together with children involved I personally feel breaks through the honey moon period of a relationship Yet we both pleased to be single as we both single parents Genuinely have feelings but also feel happy in myself to move on.. given communication.. no communication I care more and don’t feel is fair Interested to know how common a traight like this is... especially in this community where people seem more comfortable with themselves If even a simple ‘we are finished’ would allow Is she in this community " I wouldn’t know that but we both single and free | |||
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"If you've actually spent time with them that's fairly surprising. But you never know quite what their circumstances are. If someone from this site I'd been seeing decided to just stop responding I'd send them a message but I wouldn't badger them at all. You're right though - it would be nice to at least get a message saying something like "Sorry, your knob is tiny and you're a crap shag - I'm going elsewhere" just so you know where you stand." Yes lol And I can assure you I’m not that shit but yes would find that funny and assuring enough to move on | |||
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"If you’ve reached out and she’s just not getting back to you (and you know she’s ok otherwise) then just leave it and get on with your life. If she gets in contact with a reasonable explanation and you’re satisfied, then fair enough. If she doesn’t well you’ve reached out to her, she hasn’t got back so it’s time to leave it there and move on - there isn’t much more you can do. She might just have a lot going on and feels overwhelmed and needs space, or she may just not want to pursue things. But you’ve put your cards on the table, she knows your intentions. Ball is in her court now." I have put my cards on the table and you are exactly correct I had to go to work on the Sunday and should have stayed with her ... and I could of gone back that evening but was exhausted from work and no sleep And I just reread my messages and yes I did send James Bond music when I was d*unk on Wednesday So yes is my fault .. and now I biting my fist lol However the original question I asked is when do genuine phone calls become pestering or harassment? | |||
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