FabSwingers.com forum: Question for females

By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Is there any ladies who DONT like getting their ass spanked when getting fucked?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Why? Are all the women you chat to insisting on it?

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By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

The women I've been with seem to enjoy it was just wondering if all women like it or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That will all depend on how hard you’re spanking

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"The women I've been with seem to enjoy it was just wondering if all women like it or not lol "

Some do, some don't.

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By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

As hard or soft as you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As hard or soft as you like

Lol we can negotiate

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Is there any ladies who DONT like getting their ass spanked when getting fucked?"

Meeee I don't like it

prefer my ass grabbed xx

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Based on previous threads on the forums, some like it, some don't.

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By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

I love to grab a pert bum mmm

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By *nlyme45 OP Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Let's negotiate then fiesty lol x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Let's negotiate then fiesty lol x"

Who me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer random spanks... & Not necessarily when fking... It always has to be on my right ass cheek...It just feels so much better on that cheek for whatever reason I don't know...Maybe it's the fact I think my right ass cheek is slightly bigger than the left...

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By *unnyman84Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Depends on the situation surely?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"I prefer random spanks... & Not necessarily when fking... It always has to be on my right ass cheek...It just feels so much better on that cheek for whatever reason I don't know...Maybe it's the fact I think my right ass cheek is slightly bigger than the left..."

Ohh this is intresting

by the way lia love your profile picture

mwah

xxx

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

At the right time and has tobe followed up with a rub

But not all the time

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"At the right time and has tobe followed up with a rub

But not all the time

The ass smacker must always ask for consent first

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By *r kink8585Man
over a year ago

ireland,

"At the right time and has tobe followed up with a rub

But not all the time

The ass smacker must always ask for consent first "

Really? I would have though the surprise spank while she’s bent over would be a good thing no??

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"At the right time and has tobe followed up with a rub

But not all the time

The ass smacker must always ask for consent first

Really? I would have though the surprise spank while she’s bent over would be a good thing no?? "

She could mean get consent for the first time but not necessarily every time after.

Then again it can also go by a person's mood I'm guessing, sometimes a woman may not be in the mood for it. I dunno I'm not into spankings so just guessing lool xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone just did it out of nowhere, I wouldn't be happy. It's something I'd prefer to talk about beforehand, and whether I enjoy it very much depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something that should be discussed beforehand.

I’m submissive and into impact play, but if it happened out if the blue I wouldn’t be happy.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Me. The red mist descends when my ass is spanked/slapped how ever playfully, caressing hands instead

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I love being spanked. I hate being spanked during sex. Completely ruins the rhythm for me and puts me off. I find it really annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A slap at the right moment is fine prefer not too hard though. Arse grabbing is more my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone slapped my ass mid flow, I'd be inclined to reach round and give him a sharp dig in his nads! Hate being slapped on my butt!

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"If someone slapped my ass mid flow, I'd be inclined to reach round and give him a sharp dig in his nads! Hate being slapped on my butt!

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care much for that at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the guy and the dynamic. I don't always want it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I don't like random out of scene spanks.. my ex used to that all the time.. grab my arse or spank me. Just back off..I'm ironing or cooking dinner. Safety hazard.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I use to absolutely despise it and it would piss me off if someone did it to me. In recent years I have found with certain people I have enjoyed the odd spank.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

A focussed spanking is brilliant, but a guy trying to spank and fuck you at the same time is ridiculous, it makes them look like a circus seal.

Just stop and either fuck me or spank me...we all know men cant multitask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As hard or soft as you like

I’m assuming you haven’t noticed her username. She’ll let you know, in no uncertain terms, if it’s too hard.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

"If someone slapped my ass mid flow, I'd be inclined to reach round and give him a sharp dig in his nads! Hate being slapped on my butt!

Glad I saw this...

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

"A focussed spanking is brilliant, but a guy trying to spank and fuck you at the same time is ridiculous, it makes them look like a circus seal.

Just stop and either fuck me or spank me...we all know men cant multitask

Making the same noises as well?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I can only speak for this woman.

I do NOT like getting spanked full stop.

I can also answer for every other woman in the world.

Some do. Some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a playful spank whilst getting fucked but it;s not a deal breaker

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The women I've been with seem to enjoy it was just wondering if all women like it or not lol "

That word 'seem' ........ She 'seemed' to like it - so you are not sure ? It seems.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Depends on the situation surely?"

Yup......

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Depends on the dynamic if he’s spanking away like he’s beating a drum then no, but a little surprise spank here and there can be arousing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about during cowgirl?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

In all honesty if a bloke can manage to spank during a fuck then he isn't fucking satisfactorily......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty if a bloke can manage to spank during a fuck then he isn't fucking satisfactorily......

He more than is if the woman likes it and it enhances her experience.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"A focussed spanking is brilliant, but a guy trying to spank and fuck you at the same time is ridiculous, it makes them look like a circus seal.

Just stop and either fuck me or spank me...we all know men cant multitask

Making the same noises as well?"

Yes...but I find tossing them a fish plucked from the bucket I keep at the side of the bed usually shuts them up!

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"Depends on the dynamic if he’s spanking away like he’s beating a drum then no, but a little surprise spank here and there can be arousing

Thats exactly the image...a circus seal trying to play bongos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the dynamic if he’s spanking away like he’s beating a drum then no, but a little surprise spank here and there can be arousing

Like bending over to pic up your trainers

“Hello” xx

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

"What about during cowgirl?"

I spanked a girl while she was in top. Once....

She froze, stared at me and growled “Do. Not.... Do. That. Again...” and then carried on.

I’ve never had a terror orgasm before or since.

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By *eyondhornyMan
over a year ago

Abercynon-ish

Needs to be agreed/consent given imo.

Just "one cheeky slap" doesn't cut it either to test the water.

There is no need to do this in your first encounter with someone unless you had been discussing it beforehand as a mutual like.

I am into impact play both giving and sometimes receiving. But this is something to be built up over time with trust, conversation, respect of boundaries and consent.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

don't mind a mild spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh I am now thinking about having a spanking session. Yummy.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

What about boob slapping?? Something I’ve seen, but seems an odd thing to enjoy to me...

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"At the right time and has tobe followed up with a rub

But not all the time

The ass smacker must always ask for consent first

Really? I would have though the surprise spank while she’s bent over would be a good thing no??

Definitely not, if the receiver hasn't consented or its not been discussed then frankly its classesd as assault.

There are ways to ask during play that's wouldn't defkate the moment

Eg.. I would love to spank your arse, would you like that ?

She could mean get consent for the first time but not necessarily every time after.

Then again it can also go by a person's mood I'm guessing, sometimes a woman may not be in the mood for it. I dunno I'm not into spankings so just guessing lool xx"

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