FabSwingers.com forum: Moods.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Lack of sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

You have your health. And your own teeth, presumably. And it 4 weeks it’s summer solstice and the nights start drawing in. You are Winning at life! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

I worked the night shift last night and I've not been able to fall asleep... not on the best mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your age

As soon as the clock strikes midnight on your 40th birthday fuckdoffness ascends.

It starts small and then gets bigger the older you get

So snap out of it you've only just started.

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your age

As soon as the clock strikes midnight on your 40th birthday fuckdoffness ascends.

It starts small and then gets bigger the older you get

So snap out of it you've only just started.

Your welcome

Have you ever thought about becoming a motivational speaker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh the temptation. I was quite frustrated by a thread the other day where a guy opened up that thinking about sex, jealousy of others sex lives etc was causing him a problem and was told by numerous posters that it was because he had a penis/was a man.

I suspect that were I to suggest an errant low mood were due to you being a woman I would be publicly flogged.

Instead, I will say I read a very interesting book on how our emotions are made and the author suggests that often times or mind can misinterpret physical symtoms as the wrong mood- she recounts a fluttery tummy on a first date that she took at the time to be an unexpected interest in her partner but turned out to be a bout of food poisoning

Obviously most moods and feelings are less obvious, we are mostly not aware of our blood sugar levels for example or the levels of umpteen different hormones, all or any of which can make us feel low for no apparent reason. One of the things I took from the book is to be more accepting of low moods, not to expect an answer as to what caused them as it could be as simple as too much or too little of an obscure chemical in my food. For me this helps to stop a low or irritable mood being blamed on something (or someone) in my life and genuinely feels like it becomes easier to bear.

I hope your usual bubbly self comes back out to play soon OP.

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt the same yesterday, thinking I was peopled out from the weekend and in need of recovery from social exhaustion. Woke up at 3am with D&V. Could you be coming down with something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's your age

As soon as the clock strikes midnight on your 40th birthday fuckdoffness ascends.

It starts small and then gets bigger the older you get

So snap out of it you've only just started.

Your welcome

Actually I think you're right. At 40 I made lots of life changes and that fits quite perfectly. The snap out of it thing isn't happening. I need harsher words I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I felt the same yesterday, thinking I was peopled out from the weekend and in need of recovery from social exhaustion. Woke up at 3am with D&V. Could you be coming down with something?"

Oh god don't say that! I hope you're OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ohhh the temptation. I was quite frustrated by a thread the other day where a guy opened up that thinking about sex, jealousy of others sex lives etc was causing him a problem and was told by numerous posters that it was because he had a penis/was a man.

I suspect that were I to suggest an errant low mood were due to you being a woman I would be publicly flogged.

I hope your usual bubbly self comes back out to play soon OP.

Mr"

Thank you. Great response... What book did you read please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

You have your health. And your own teeth, presumably. And it 4 weeks it’s summer solstice and the nights start drawing in. You are Winning at life! X

Yes I am winning at life. Last week I won something too so I should be in a great mood so I really don't get it today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your age

As soon as the clock strikes midnight on your 40th birthday fuckdoffness ascends.

It starts small and then gets bigger the older you get

So snap out of it you've only just started.

Your welcome

Have you ever thought about becoming a motivational speaker?

would you come to my seminars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How emotions are made by Lisa Feldman Barrett

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your age

As soon as the clock strikes midnight on your 40th birthday fuckdoffness ascends.

It starts small and then gets bigger the older you get

So snap out of it you've only just started.

Your welcome

Actually I think you're right. At 40 I made lots of life changes and that fits quite perfectly. The snap out of it thing isn't happening. I need harsher words I think. "

Not seeing any other humans helps a lot with the fuckdoffness.

So does booze and chocolate.

Oh and log off of here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's your age

As soon as the clock strikes midnight on your 40th birthday fuckdoffness ascends.

It starts small and then gets bigger the older you get

So snap out of it you've only just started.

Your welcome

Actually I think you're right. At 40 I made lots of life changes and that fits quite perfectly. The snap out of it thing isn't happening. I need harsher words I think.

Not seeing any other humans helps a lot with the fuckdoffness.

So does booze and chocolate.

Oh and log off of here

The last bit is the best advice you’ll get and is probably exactly what you need. #Socialmediadetox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on Fabswingers because I thought it was a help group for people who mood swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk and music is my fix. Hope afternoon brings a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think giving yourself permission to feel how you feel, and sit with it.

There’s no need to snap out of it, we can’t be happy and bubbly all the time.

I’m currently sitting on the sofa with a cup of tea and just being gentle with myself for having been stressed this morning.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Are you suffering from excruciating hemorrhoids?

No? Then pull yourself together stop whingeing.

(If anyone is suffering from piles you have my sympathies.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm going out for lunch and walk with a friend. I'm not the only one feeling glum. So hopefully that'll do the trick for the pair of us.

I think there's been too many rainy days lately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How emotions are made by Lisa Feldman Barrett

Mr"

Thanks you.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm going out for lunch and walk with a friend. I'm not the only one feeling glum. So hopefully that'll do the trick for the pair of us.

I think there's been too many rainy days lately. "

You know where to find me if you want to talk. Xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm going out for lunch and walk with a friend. I'm not the only one feeling glum. So hopefully that'll do the trick for the pair of us.

I think there's been too many rainy days lately. "

I agree. It’s the weather that’s been bringing me down lately. It’s looking better ahead though. Enjoy your lunch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

Go for a paddle in your pink canoe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this weather depressing on hols and bored at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

Rub one out and get over it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Full moon nearly, innit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going out for lunch and walk with a friend. I'm not the only one feeling glum. So hopefully that'll do the trick for the pair of us.

I think there's been too many rainy days lately.

You know where to find me if you want to talk. Xx"

I would if knew what was up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going out for lunch and walk with a friend. I'm not the only one feeling glum. So hopefully that'll do the trick for the pair of us.

I think there's been too many rainy days lately.

I agree. It’s the weather that’s been bringing me down lately. It’s looking better ahead though. Enjoy your lunch x"

Thank you, it was lovely.

I can't wait for the weather to perk up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

Rub one out and get over it.

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I'm not in that kinda mood.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

OP, its because you've not used my face as a throne and smeared my lippy yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

Rub one out and get over it.

I'm not in that kinda mood.

Try some sardines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I felt the same yesterday, thinking I was peopled out from the weekend and in need of recovery from social exhaustion. Woke up at 3am with D&V. Could you be coming down with something?

Oh god don't say that! I hope you're OK. "

It's not the most fun time I've ever had, but I'll survive x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I term such days as described as, ‘emotional malaise‘ days.

It’s a case of finding some form of motivation to efficaciously lift the spirits

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Yup woke up feeling the same this morning for some reason, best thing to do is have a chill make a cup of tea and maybe try to get some fresh air, being out in nature can do wonders for the mood. And if all else fails hide under the duvet and try again tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, its because you've not used my face as a throne and smeared my lippy yet

Are you available now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I felt the same yesterday, thinking I was peopled out from the weekend and in need of recovery from social exhaustion. Woke up at 3am with D&V. Could you be coming down with something?

Oh god don't say that! I hope you're OK.

It's not the most fun time I've ever had, but I'll survive x"

I hope you're OK, D&V is the worst.

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

"I've had 8 hours sleep. I've got nothing to bitch about, I'm not due my period, yet I've woken up feeling like I couldn't give a toss about anything, flat mood, bored, and I have no idea why!

What the fuck is wrong with me! I'm usually a giggly silly person but today I feel oh so serious and glum.

Anyone else get out of the wrong side of bed this morning? I clearly have.

What would be you pull yourself together message to me.... Make it harsh and witty!

You have been on my hotlist for a long time now! But I get this mood I am the same. I found that a beasting at the gym! Then a soapy wank in the shower sort of up lifted me. But I would love to just get to know someone right now get to know all their kinks

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