FabSwingers.com forum: Use of the F-Word

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, just curious of views on women who use the F=Word alot... FK

I'm inclined to do so...Only as a form of expression...I cant seem to help myself... I'm very aware it's unlady-like and when I hear another female efffing & blinding I actually cringe and realise how `bad` it sounds... I have heard over use of the F-Word is a tension release or a way of getting your point firmly across...I've also heard research has proven the majority of peeps who use FK alot in their lingo are apparently highly intelligent...

I guess what I'm asking is ... Is a `Lady` who uses the FK word alot a serious Turn=Off...& Yes I class myself as a `Lady`...I have tried to quit the use of this fking word

... But I always slip back into it again...

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I think its more a matter of how its used. I can be more tolerant to hearing it if its used in a jokingly manner compared to letting off steam.

I never really been the type to swear much, the most I often say is shit and bloody. For me to use the F bomb I have to be seriously annoyed /irritated or shocked at someone or something xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but it’s usually FFS multiple times a day usually muttered under my breath

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do but it’s usually FFS multiple times a day usually muttered under my breath

My colourful language mainly consists of...

WTF

FKing Hell

FFS

The Poor Fker

The Poor Bitch

The Fking Idiot

All used in humour or serious talk...

I actually never use Fk-Off for some reason & it's not a conscious decision not to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over use of the word can be unnecessary

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Over use of the word can be unnecessary "

That's me fucked then

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Hi, just curious of views on women who use the F=Word alot... FK

I guess what I'm asking is ... Is a `Lady` who uses the FK word alot a serious Turn=Off...& Yes I class myself as a `Lady`...I have tried to quit the use of this fking word

... But I always slip back into it again...

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op I reckon we use it over here for everything,

So I'd be more worried about a lady who doesn't throw in the odd Fffk every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do but it’s usually FFS multiple times a day usually muttered under my breath

My colourful language mainly consists of...

WTF

FKing Hell

FFS

The Poor Fker

The Poor Bitch

The Fking Idiot

All used in humour or serious talk...

I actually never use Fk-Off for some reason & it's not a conscious decision not to use it.

I usually use FK-off when someone tells me something unbelievable like instead of No Way !

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Oh my goodness I forgot I can say it alot during sex and oral loooooool

xxx

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Oh my goodness I forgot I can say it alot during sex and oral loooooool

xxx "
more of this,, please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, just curious of views on women who use the F=Word alot... FK

I guess what I'm asking is ... Is a `Lady` who uses the FK word alot a serious Turn=Off...& Yes I class myself as a `Lady`...I have tried to quit the use of this fking word

... But I always slip back into it again...

op I reckon we use it over here for everything,

So I'd be more worried about a lady who doesn't throw in the odd Fffk every now and then.

Ooooooohhh that's good to hear...

Throwing in the odd fk lol...ain't that what fabs all about...the odd FK

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Oh my goodness I forgot I can say it alot during sex and oral loooooool

xxx more of this,, please

Looool

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Oh my goodness I forgot I can say it alot during sex and oral loooooool

xxx more of this,, please

Looool "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a foul mouthed woman, I fing it a turn on !

Especially one that uses the C word !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over use of the word can be unnecessary

That's me fucked then

Wash your mouth out Young Private

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

Fuck no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck being lady like

I don’t use it a lot, but I will if I feel like it, but I’m also aware that people can find it offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know....I can hardly say FEMALE nowadays without being roasted by some female for it.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If it's used in normal day to day conversation with me then that's a red flag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know....I can hardly say FEMALE nowadays without being roasted by some female for it.

I never liked the word Woman ever...so yes I use the word Female too...& Guy sounds so American & the word Men just sounds old... So I am inclined to use the word Male too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the context but it can be a little cringy when it's constant from both men and women. I think someone who swears constantly like to be foul for a 'personality' but there's a time and place for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know....I can hardly say FEMALE nowadays without being roasted by some female for it.

Any females?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's used in normal day to day conversation with me then that's a red flag."

Defo don't use it in that way...if I'm very surprised by something...Shocked by something, vexed or annoyed or maybe find something extremely funny...the F`s come out then...I also include my F sayings here on this site as I would in speech... Be it on my bio, status updates or forum posts & comments...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know....I can hardly say FEMALE nowadays without being roasted by some female for it.

I never liked the word Woman ever...so yes I use the word Female too...& Guy sounds so American & the word Men just sounds old... So I am inclined to use the word Male too"

Thank you. Fucking hell, finally somewhere safe to say FEMALE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Context and some people can get away with it - they can say things that if spoken by another would would make you cringe.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I Just make people use the F-Word in all iterations - I'm very good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know....I can hardly say FEMALE nowadays without being roasted by some female for it.

Any females?

Fuck....you say FEMALES as well? I want to hug you now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I never swear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I Just make people use the F-Word in all iterations - I'm very good at it

Fucking show off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I never swear

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I don't find it a turn off.

In fact I quite fancy Debs from Dexter and loved her constant swearing.

The only thing that would put me off is if she were disrespectful of the situation (like swearing in front of someone else's kids)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, some don't, I don't think it's a anyone's place to tell people they can't or shouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't find it a turn off.

In fact I quite fancy Debs from Dexter and loved her constant swearing.

The only thing that would put me off is if she were disrespectful of the situation (like swearing in front of someone else's kids) "

I think I agree with you, mate. Its all about context and intent. If they're not embarrassing themselves in front of a group of pensioners or kids I couldn't give a fuck!

I tend to swear quite a lot day to day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Glasgow its not even a swear word.

Neither is the C bomb.

Both used within the structure of an every day sentence.

e.g. See that C*** , he's a brand new C***.

Meaning- that guy over there is a really nice guy.

e.g. come on tae f***.

Meaning - please, it would really help me out.

Lol x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Fuckety fuck! Who wants to be a lady anyway

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Sometimes I do. Not a lot though to be honest. I wouldn’t in public. Mostly when I’m driving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, just curious of views on women who use the F=Word alot... FK

I guess what I'm asking is ... Is a `Lady` who uses the FK word alot a serious Turn=Off...& Yes I class myself as a `Lady`...I have tried to quit the use of this fking word

... But I always slip back into it again...

I say .. say what you want and say it how you feel ..

... I’m guilty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, just curious of views on women who use the F=Word alot... FK

I guess what I'm asking is ... Is a `Lady` who uses the FK word alot a serious Turn=Off...& Yes I class myself as a `Lady`...I have tried to quit the use of this fking word

... But I always slip back into it again...

I say .. say what you want and say it how you feel ..

... I’m guilty "

Ooooooohhh I do say it how I feel... I'm very good at expressing myself...believe me

I use FK in many contexts but within reason...Not forgetting the sexually fk or I'm fked now...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"No I never swear

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I never swear

Me neither

You're joking yea

I find it very hot & super sexy when some men use the F-Word in a sexual context...

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m a Londoner, I use it like punctuation.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"No I never swear

Me neither

You're joking yea

I find it very hot & super sexy when some men use the F-Word in a sexual context... "

Yes of course I'm fucking joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a Londoner, I use it like punctuation.

Likewise here in Northern Ireland

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I’m a Londoner, I use it like punctuation.

Likewise here in Northern Ireland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a Londoner, I use it like punctuation.

Bahahahaha Luuuuvvve It...

fking hell eh

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

If I wanted to stop swearing I’d have to stop driving. Don’t seem to be able to do the shortest of journeys without the inside of the vehicle turning blue.

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By *ohnny_ThunderMan
over a year ago

LLandudno

Ah, the dreaded F-word. Foreplay.

I try to avoid using it where possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a lot of things, some will be bothered by it, some won't, some will judge you for saying it, others won't.

Personally, I don't care what words a person uses, what is far more important to me is the thoughts and ideas they use words to express.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I try and curb my language around others but if you'd heard me in the lab a minute ago trying to reassemble a pair of rimless glasses, the air was blue is an understatement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guilty ....... I use it a lot in speech .... especially when stressing.... it just comes out before my brain engages as I agree I always think it sounds horrid from a ladies mouth xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am in company where people are using the F word frequently in general conversation I find myself slipping into using it more myself, which I don't like doing.

It isn't an essential word to use at all apart from when you are actually talking about the act of sex (fucking.) Then it is entirely appropriate and I love saying "fuck me" when that is indeed what I want to happen!

I did let it slip out of my mouth recently when doing a workout with my partner.

The next excercise was announced on an app we use, and I immediately thought and articulated "fuck that!"

I think however in the moment that comment was justified lol.

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