FabSwingers.com forum: Forgiveness from hot neighbour

By *Superb OP Man
over a year ago

now in Germany

Some thoughts please everyone?

When I was younger we lived next door to a family and I would often babysit for them.

Late at night before they returned I would sneak into their bedroom and wear and steal her underwear.

One night they returned and the husband was in the car still. I heard footsteps coming upstairs and I threw the lingerie behind her dressing table and popped out of their bedroom just as the wife made it upstairs. I apologised saying I heard noises and all was ok luckily. Bar my erection!

Nothing ever happened between the wife and I but I do feel bad about my actions.

Should I get in touch with her through social media and apologise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! That would be incredibly creepy.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think best to not contact her after all these years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No! That would be incredibly creepy. "

I second this!

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By *Superb OP Man
over a year ago

now in Germany

I won’t, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t, thank you"

Were you hoping she'd find it hot and offer to shag you?

Some women might find it hot but most won't. Especially as you were babysitting their kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would leave it. Unlikely to have the outcome you want.

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By *Superb OP Man
over a year ago

now in Germany

It might be the fact I’m in hotel quarantine for fourteen days!

Was maybe hoping she’d enjoy the apology...somehow?!

Her lingerie was amazing for me being 18 at the time. Teddies and full bodies.

But now I do feel bad for it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I won’t, thank you

Were you hoping she'd find it hot and offer to shag you?

Some women might find it hot but most won't. Especially as you were babysitting their kids. "

This!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Wow massive breach of trust if true.

If someone who babysat for us came forward many years later and admitted to this I would be seriously pissed off.

Very creepy

You did ask OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to leave the past, in this incidence, where it is - in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be the fact I’m in hotel quarantine for fourteen days!

Was maybe hoping she’d enjoy the apology...somehow?!

Her lingerie was amazing for me being 18 at the time. Teddies and full bodies.

But now I do feel bad for it."

Sounds like you're just going stir crazy from being locked up.

Just keep it as a memory and don't do it again, unless with the person's consent.

Good luck with quarantine.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be the fact I’m in hotel quarantine for fourteen days!

Was maybe hoping she’d enjoy the apology...somehow?!

Her lingerie was amazing for me being 18 at the time. Teddies and full bodies.

But now I do feel bad for it."

I highly doubt she would enjoy the apology and probably be really annoyed, creeped out that you mentioned this 15 years later...

Best just to leave it in the past it won’t have the outcome you are hoping.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What makes you think she would forgive someone in a position of trust who stole her underwear ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It might be the fact I’m in hotel quarantine for fourteen days!

Was maybe hoping she’d enjoy the apology...somehow?!

Her lingerie was amazing for me being 18 at the time. Teddies and full bodies.

But now I do feel bad for it."

Women very rarely enjoy an apology for something like that. They very rarely enjoy the thought of a man invading their privacy for sexual gratification either.

My guess is that she would have put two and two together anyway. Underwear doesn't just throw itself behind a dressing table.

Please don't ever think that something like this is in anyway a turn on or enjoyable for a woman.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Leave her alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get the thought process here.

I can't see how there could ever be a positive outcome for a "confession" like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had this guy who use to babysit for us, I caught him fleeing from my bedroom with an erection after I know for a fact he had been wearing my pants. If I ever hear from him again im gunna string him up by the bolloks on the village green and let the locals whip him with a hosepipe

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I can't get the thought process here.

I can't see how there could ever be a positive outcome for a "confession" like this."

I think I can twist my head to it, but it's not in any way a plausible position for her to be in.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

So you basically want to contact this poor woman and say “you may not realise this but I violated you repeatedly when you trusted me but soz I guess lol” and you don’t think that’s an awful, shitty thing to do? How do you think she’ll benefit from your “apology”? The answer is she won’t, she’ll be upset and creeped out.

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By *Superb OP Man
over a year ago

now in Germany

I totally understand what I did wrong.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Haha do it

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Not creepy at all just a guilty sorry man..

What the worst could happen you end up on sex offenders list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some thoughts please everyone?

When I was younger we lived next door to a family and I would often babysit for them.

Late at night before they returned I would sneak into their bedroom and wear and steal her underwear.

Nothing ever happened between the wife and I but I do feel bad about my actions.

Should I get in touch with her through social media and apologise?

That's a very creepy story.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I totally understand what I did wrong."

Then don't compound it.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"I totally understand what I did wrong."

Its wrong to even think about bringing this up with the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter..."

Or hide your knickers

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter..."

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too. "

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

Or hide your knickers

Hahahaha take them all with me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

Apparently it's not uncommon for *some* men to go through the drawers and linen baskets of the woman of the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. What you did was extremely creepy and inappropriate - but it's done now.

Just leave it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too. "

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

There was a TV documentary with hidden cameras once. Some men were actually masturbating into the drawers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

There was a TV documentary with hidden cameras once. Some men were actually masturbating into the drawers."

Jesus christ...what's wrong with some people

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too. "

Personally I’ve never felt safe allowing them in when I am there, I’ve always wanted someone else with me for backup. No way I’d trust them alone in my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd sooooo love to receive a call from an ex babysitter to tell me they'd been wanking through my pant draws!

Mate, as much as I enjoyed reading this thread, I think best to leave it be. Maybe go to church confession or summat instead if you're feeling guilty? Maybe this thread will do the trick?

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Most definitely contact her again. Keep us updated on the response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

There was a TV documentary with hidden cameras once. Some men were actually masturbating into the drawers.

Jesus christ...what's wrong with some people "

Ok I've officially lost some trust in humanity

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No OP...it may ease your conscience but what will she get out of it..apart from being quite unhappy about it.

Why do that to her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most definitely contact her again. Keep us updated on the response

I think you might be the smartest one of us

Cant help feeling the OP is 'enjoying' being told off

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

There was a TV documentary with hidden cameras once. Some men were actually masturbating into the drawers.

Jesus christ...what's wrong with some people

Ok I've officially lost some trust in humanity

I know..that's a really awful thing to do to someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too. "

Is this because they consent trademan to wear their underwear so long as they are there to watch

haha

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Is this because they consent trademan to wear their underwear so long as they are there to watch

haha"

Yes..that's the real issue here isn't it!

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over a year ago

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

hell no thats just asking for all sorts of truble,

whats done is done but contacting her on social media and confessing is just damm wrong and creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want any men wanking into my pants either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope do not contact her that’s creepy on a whole nother level op

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Most definitely contact her again. Keep us updated on the response

Yup ^^^^ if you do have a brainstorm OP and decide to actually do something this stupid, please do report back, the forum needs to know.

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Yeah, i would get in touch with her and fez up, at least if she doesn't ask you round for a shag, she will be able to find her underwear behind the dressing table, bet she's been looking all over for it ......

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

This is vile and if someone messaged me telling me they'd been wearing my underwear while babysitting my children I'd be disgusted.

You should never have breached her trust like that, it isn't hot, it isn't a compliment, it's downright disrespectful. Especially when being trusted to look after her kids.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

I started a thread a while ago and caught a few nasty men out, I think I called it 'cheeky sniff'.

Sadly, it resulted in my inbox filled with said men not brave enough to post on the forum but telling me all about what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

I started a thread a while ago and caught a few nasty men out, I think I called it 'cheeky sniff'.

Sadly, it resulted in my inbox filled with said men not brave enough to post on the forum but telling me all about what they do."

Unintended consequences

Ps why have you got 11 legs Topsy when Ive only got 2?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

I started a thread a while ago and caught a few nasty men out, I think I called it 'cheeky sniff'.

Sadly, it resulted in my inbox filled with said men not brave enough to post on the forum but telling me all about what they do.

Unintended consequences

Ps why have you got 11 legs Topsy when Ive only got 2?

That's a pic of the inaugural Fab Crap Runners Club. We are on the forum

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

I started a thread a while ago and caught a few nasty men out, I think I called it 'cheeky sniff'.

Sadly, it resulted in my inbox filled with said men not brave enough to post on the forum but telling me all about what they do."

If it results in a more robust block list I'd call that a win

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

There was a TV documentary with hidden cameras once. Some men were actually masturbating into the drawers."

Oh my word, that is disturbing.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

I started a thread a while ago and caught a few nasty men out, I think I called it 'cheeky sniff'.

Sadly, it resulted in my inbox filled with said men not brave enough to post on the forum but telling me all about what they do.

If it results in a more robust block list I'd call that a win

I think it helped a lot of us

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

I know men who worked with my husband who used to go through bedroom drawers to look at knickers.

There was a TV documentary with hidden cameras once. Some men were actually masturbating into the drawers.

Oh my word, that is disturbing. "

Not actually surprising though,

I bet you've read the forums

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm lost for words with this lot.

I could rant all day at the damage this kind of behaviour does on so many different levels, not just to the women whos trust is betrayed but to those of us 'men' who have our own women's underwear and get tarred with this brush because many think we do this too.....we don't, we buy our own.

Leave this woman alone, you did enough damage already.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

If this is true

Why would you ask stranger's on the internet

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'm lost for words with this lot.

Leave this woman alone, you did enough damage already.

It's scary stuff

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"If this is true

Why would you ask stranger's on the internet

Strangers are just as capable of giving good advice. He will get a variety that he can choose from. That's the purpose of forums, right?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"If this is true

Why would you ask stranger's on the internet

Strangers are just as capable of giving good advice. He will get a variety that he can choose from. That's the purpose of forums, right?"

Yeah maybe you like

Fables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some thoughts please everyone?

When I was younger we lived next door to a family and I would often babysit for them.

Late at night before they returned I would sneak into their bedroom and wear and steal her underwear.

Nothing ever happened between the wife and I but I do feel bad about my actions.

Should I get in touch with her through social media and apologise?

.... Immediately starts setting up cameras for the next babysitter needed...

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lord. Note to self, do not get a babysitter...

There's quite a few women on here who will no longer allow tradesmen in their home unless they're there too.

Oh no... Really?? I haven't read any of these ones yet

I started a thread a while ago and caught a few nasty men out, I think I called it 'cheeky sniff'.

Sadly, it resulted in my inbox filled with said men not brave enough to post on the forum but telling me all about what they do."

I remember that thread. Blocked quite a few because of it!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I'm lost for words with this lot.

Leave this woman alone, you did enough damage already.

That's a good point.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

That’s a no from me.

Not sure what sound rationale could be used to justify it in the first place tbh.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"If this is true

Why would you ask stranger's on the internet

Attention seeking ?

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