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What the feeling about polygamous relationships in the UK

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm interested to know how people feel about polygamous relationships in the UK, this is non religious based polygamy. I know the concept in the UK with marriage is not legal. But either a wife could take more than one husband or a husband could take more than one wife. Are there people in the UK looking to genuinely join a polygamous relationship?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have no problem with people doing it if it's right for them but it's not for us personally.

I wouldn't be in favour of a law change to give multiple wives/husbands the same rights under law for reasons I can explain if necessary. I think it should be an arrangement between those involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but one husband's enough for me, ain't got the energy for two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only poly relationships I ever see are on Twitter and tend to always be dumpy red or blue haired women in dungarees with two or three youngish gamer blokes with wispy beards.

Are there any other types?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my idea of hell!

I find relationships difficult - one is too much for me to manage let alone multiple partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are plenty in the US, but it is becoming more popular in the UK. There are normal poly relationship that aren't geeky gamers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could easily handle 2 wives as more of a triad polygamous relationship, so we all have a relationship with each other.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m a member of a site that is Poly focussed. There is plenty going on in the Uk scene wise.

Watching some of the fallouts over what constitutes a true polygamous relationship is very tiring though. They are always having forum meltdowns over it.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd be more inclined toward polygyny at my age ........ pretty wise really.. Loads of female company and he'd be fucking knackered.

Plus im sure at least one or two of the women could do the dirties I don't like AND be better housekeepers.

I'd be the lazy arse that watches t.v. and spends the money

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Why a man would want to marry one woman is a mystery

But why he would want to marry two is

a biggermystery .

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have polyamorous relationships but no interest in polygamy,

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’m a member of a site that is Poly focussed. There is plenty going on in the Uk scene wise.

Watching some of the fallouts over what constitutes a true polygamous relationship is very tiring though. They are always having forum meltdowns over it. "

The sure the poly police come along to educate everyone what a real poly relationship is like here with D/s. There will be some blue haired person with a manual

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm interested to know how people feel about polygamous relationships in the UK, this is non religious based polygamy. I know the concept in the UK with marriage is not legal. But either a wife could take more than one husband or a husband could take more than one wife. Are there people in the UK looking to genuinely join a polygamous relationship?"

I know loads of people in poly relationships and they all pity me because I'm straight and monogamous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a member of a site that is Poly focussed. There is plenty going on in the Uk scene wise.

Watching some of the fallouts over what constitutes a true polygamous relationship is very tiring though. They are always having forum meltdowns over it.

The sure the poly police come along to educate everyone what a real poly relationship is like here with D/s. There will be some blue haired person with a manual "

you're making me laugh today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I would rather just be with one relationship partner.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't think it's anyone else's business as long as there isn't abuse of some sort happening.

Personally I am poly, no interest in marriage or in raising anymore kids though, 28 yrs of parenting them both just to 18 is quite enough thank you .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage. "

What's your stance on dungarees though?

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.

What's your stance on dungarees though? "

pain in the ass to go for a piss in, jumpsuits/boilersuits are worse

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.

What's your stance on dungarees though? "

I'm pretty sure I haven't worn them since I was about 3

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.

What's your stance on dungarees though?

pain in the ass to go for a piss in, jumpsuits/boilersuits are worse "

Dungaree dresses can be cute though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked for a brilliant family ... it was him, his wife (their kids all grown up and had left home), his concubine, their kid and his girlfriend. All lived together in a smallish house, all worked together in the business and totally excepted in a small Cornish village.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I worked for a brilliant family ... it was him, his wife (their kids all grown up and had left home), his concubine, their kid and his girlfriend. All lived together in a smallish house, all worked together in the business and totally excepted in a small Cornish village.

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Nice to hear concubine again it’s poly and it’s been around Thousands of years kings and queens used it to breed for the king of the throne

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People should be able to date and fall in love with other adults as they want to. The law could potentially be changed to allow more than 2 to be married but many people are less interested in polygamy than in open and poly relationships

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage. "

@_acey_red it does not have to result in marriage but if your all living as committed couples then your as good as married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I worked for a brilliant family ... it was him, his wife (their kids all grown up and had left home), his concubine, their kid and his girlfriend. All lived together in a smallish house, all worked together in the business and totally excepted in a small Cornish village.

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By *ere againMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

My wife and I have been in and out this sort of relationship. The longest was 7 years with Sam's partner living with us. We have been together for 28 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love one. Not like a massive gang or anything though! Just one or two others.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like my polyamourous set up, he lives with his wife during the week and sees me on weekends,

Maybe in the future I'd consider him staying longer but I like my own space too much and find it hard to live with other people to do it full time

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage.

@_acey_red it does not have to result in marriage but if your all living as committed couples then your as good as married."

I only mentioned marriage because polygamy specifically refers to marriage.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I was part of a poly relationship, it worked very well for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very interesting as a guy who’s definitely questioning whether i might be poly. I’ve had a number of monogamous relationships that have all ended with me feeling frustrated and trapped and I don’t just mean sexually. Makes me start to think that for whatever reason I’m not geared up to be a one exclusive partner guy and I’m not sure why that is.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"This is very interesting as a guy who’s definitely questioning whether i might be poly. I’ve had a number of monogamous relationships that have all ended with me feeling frustrated and trapped and I don’t just mean sexually. Makes me start to think that for whatever reason I’m not geared up to be a one exclusive partner guy and I’m not sure why that is."
If You’re an atheist you don’t need any laws you don’t have to marry you only have to love and there is no law in that , Everything is in your hands for living life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely with you on that. Raised a Christian and someone who still believes in a higher power I think you end up with a lot of constraints on you. That said these days I just think well the one global rule we’d all do well by is to live one another. So I think you have great point

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"The only poly relationships I ever see are on Twitter and tend to always be dumpy red or blue haired women in dungarees with two or three youngish gamer blokes with wispy beards.

Are there any other types? "

I'm getting shades of that infamous channel 4 documentary Dogging Tales where the three of them are sat on the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poly relationships are my preference but I don’t think it needs a law change nor am I or do

I ever want to be married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My oh is in a poly relationship. That's not fair me, but am ENM. I'm not sure if the general world would accept but we've shared where we are with people we trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm polyamorous but I personally have no interest in marriage. "

We are looking for a poly relationship talked about it for years x

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I can see how it could work. But the work required to get it to work..

And working out who would be ideally compatible with this while working out who the cock wombles are(male and female) just looking for casual might be a bit of a frigging nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't believe it is a healthy way to raise a family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even get one, possibly because I'm currently identifying as a tea strainer.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Always be the water.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Open or poly relationships are the only type I will consider.

I've no interest in marriage or monogamy.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I would be open to that kind of relationship. Either myself of my fella. In fact I'd quite enjoy it. But im not sure my friends and family would agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open or poly relationships are the only type I will consider.

I've no interest in marriage or monogamy."

You should get in touch with us x

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Open or poly relationships are the only type I will consider.

I've no interest in marriage or monogamy."

Yep - me too.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend


"We don't believe it is a healthy way to raise a family."

Care to elaborate on this opinion? I don't personaly see why raising a a family in a polyamorous or polygamous relationship is a problem, so long as the child is raised in a stable loving environment it shouldn't make a blind bit of difference that the relationship dynamic doesnt conform to the societal norm, that has been pushed onto us for years basically by the church the same as same sex marriage being considered wrong and banned until fairly recently.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I'm interested to know how people feel about polygamous relationships in the UK, this is non religious based polygamy. I know the concept in the UK with marriage is not legal. But either a wife could take more than one husband or a husband could take more than one wife. Are there people in the UK looking to genuinely join a polygamous relationship?"

Sure, more love to go around. I don't think I'd ever want to get married again though.

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