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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To cum via oral?

It’s never happened for me.

Men have tried, all have failed. A couple have got annoyed when it doesn’t happen even when they really try...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of oral as the amuse Bouche to the main course (intercourse)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like oral at all, it tends to turn me right off. No chance of an orgasm although it does make me shudder in a bad way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To cum via oral?

It’s never happened for me.

Men have tried, all have failed. A couple have got annoyed when it doesn’t happen even when they really try...

Cue all the guys making huge promises to be the first

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Very rarely do I. In my younger years I had to fake it to prevent denting egos.

It's not really for me. That's not to say I don't enjoy giving but receiving isn't the hot experience for me it is for most. I find myself getting a bit bored.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have bit it's a different, more subtle type of orgasm. I much prefer orgasm through penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

I am very happy to forego that, if I can just enjoy giving oral all evening.

This has inspired me to start a new thread actually

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To cum via oral?

It’s never happened for me.

Men have tried, all have failed. A couple have got annoyed when it doesn’t happen even when they really try...

Well I rarely cum orally either

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm the opposite - never cum from intercourse. But adore oral

Love performing it, too x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

I am very happy to forego that, if I can just enjoy giving oral all evening.

This has inspired me to start a new thread actually "

You and I need to meet! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

Same "

Same too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, but not often, having said that, I never use to cum through just penetrative sex, but now I can do, never say never

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To cum via oral?

It’s never happened for me.

Men have tried, all have failed. A couple have got annoyed when it doesn’t happen even when they really try...

Cue all the guys making huge promises to be the first

They all actually do. I sometimes fake it so they don’t feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rair for me and if someone can I tend to think there just really quite good at... I have this one friend and he can make me cum within like less than two minutes and he's the only person to ever make me squirt via oral...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever have with my husband, but orgasm isn't the main goal which is probably why it happens, I don't feel pressured.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I'm also the same, although I adore oral I can't cum with this and this alone. If he uses his fingers too then that will definitely do the trick

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

Same "

Me 3! And I don't squirt either.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"To cum via oral?

It’s never happened for me.

Men have tried, all have failed. A couple have got annoyed when it doesn’t happen even when they really try...

Only way my wife ever ever has. I suppose you've got to take it as a joy that everyone is different?

I seem to be reasonably good orally, happy to give it a go. No guarantees though :D

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yep me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen. "

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very rarely do I. In my younger years I had to fake it to prevent denting egos.

It's not really for me. That's not to say I don't enjoy giving but receiving isn't the hot experience for me it is for most. I find myself getting a bit bored."

Been there with the faking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the guy and his technique for me, as well as my mood. Sometimes I will, other times I won't.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

How rude of you to not cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think I ever have tbh

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

I've had that, too. It's like sorry, did I sent your ego by not cumming? Well I'll definitely not cum now, will I?

It's why I prefer regular fwbs - you need to get to know each others bodies x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ohh yes more so than penatrive sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think of oral as the amuse Bouche to the main course (intercourse)"

Me too but I cum from most activities so doesn’t worry me if it didn’t completely hit the spot. I’m not interested in the men that boast they can lick for hours

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

*dent

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Never failed making ladies cum via oral. But then I would say that wouldn't I

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Never failed making ladies cum via oral. But then I would say that wouldn't I

Ate you sure? Judging by the comments above....

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

More so than penetration, very few have done that

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’ll be honest. Before my fwb I never made a girl cum from it.

After my fwb that taught me all the good stuff. How to do it. I’ve never had a woman not cum.

But everyone’s different and maybe I’ve gotten lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

I've had that, too. It's like sorry, did I sent your ego by not cumming? Well I'll definitely not cum now, will I?

It's why I prefer regular fwbs - you need to get to know each others bodies x"

Me too, it's impossible to push everyone's buttons on the first meet. When you meet someone regular they get to know what works for you and it makes everything easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At least I know it’s not just me. Most of my friends seem to be able too which made me wonder how usual/unusual it might be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think of oral as the amuse Bouche to the main course (intercourse)"

Ha ha I want to be satisfied after every round

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never failed making ladies cum via oral. But then I would say that wouldn't I

That’s what they all say

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

I've had that, too. It's like sorry, did I sent your ego by not cumming? Well I'll definitely not cum now, will I?

It's why I prefer regular fwbs - you need to get to know each others bodies x

Me too, it's impossible to push everyone's buttons on the first meet. When you meet someone regular they get to know what works for you and it makes everything easier. "

Definitely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

I've had that, too. It's like sorry, did I sent your ego by not cumming? Well I'll definitely not cum now, will I?

It's why I prefer regular fwbs - you need to get to know each others bodies x

Me too, it's impossible to push everyone's buttons on the first meet. When you meet someone regular they get to know what works for you and it makes everything easier. "

Probably where I’m going wrong. I don’t normally meet more then a couple/few of times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

How rude of you to not cum! "

He was having trouble rising to the occasion that time too so I think he was overly frustrated that he couldn’t get it up and then couldn’t make me cum with his mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes someone who knows what their doing for me. Sometimes if it's not great my mind can wonder and then it's definitely not gonna happen.

Iv had a bloke that loved giving oral and he couldn’t make me cum either.

He actually got a bit narky once when he kept trying and it wasn’t going anywhere

I've had that, too. It's like sorry, did I sent your ego by not cumming? Well I'll definitely not cum now, will I?

It's why I prefer regular fwbs - you need to get to know each others bodies x

Me too, it's impossible to push everyone's buttons on the first meet. When you meet someone regular they get to know what works for you and it makes everything easier.

Probably where I’m going wrong. I don’t normally meet more then a couple/few of times. "

Absolutely not, if you stop meeting with someone it's obviously for a reason so you aren't going wrong at all. I think the majority of guys won't get annoyed but any that do, they aren't for you.

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By *an Seeking StuffMan
over a year ago

linslade.

Yeah it's not all about the orgasm. If it happens, that's great. If not then it felt good but let's move on to the main event.

It's a warm up and it creates a more intimate atmosphere. Just like a good kiss.

Also men can normally tell when you fake haha you have uncontrollably reactions that are hard to fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

Yes, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tends to happen more when I’m with another female

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It tends to happen more when I’m with another female

Maybe il have to try that instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It tends to happen more when I’m with another female

Maybe il have to try that instead

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Not all the time, I like a firm touch and a lot of men are wary of doing that, which I think is understandable as they'd probably get a slap from the majority of women...but with someone that knows me and gets the right amount of pressure then I do, repeatedly

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Never failed making ladies cum via oral. But then I would say that wouldn't I

That’s what they all say

Of course it is but that doesn't necessarily mean it is untrue. But then then again to could be just male BS

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Never failed making ladies cum via oral. But then I would say that wouldn't I

Ate you sure? Judging by the comments above....

Are the lovely ladies of the forums sure?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"To cum via oral?

It’s never happened for me.

Men have tried, all have failed. A couple have got annoyed when it doesn’t happen even when they really try...

Get with the blokes who can’t cum orally either.

Would make watching Coronation Street more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do!.

Just takes a while, that's all!!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

It's only ever happened with one person, most of the time I tend to find receiving oral nothing but a turn off and a bore

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can, but they're not good ones and I'd rather skip it.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

Same for me too. X

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've faked it nearly every time when they wont bloody stop, despite verbal and non-verbal commands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

Same "

And me

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

The vast majority of women don't orgasm with just penetration.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I can with the right technique. A lot of guys go too hard for me though. I can count on less than one hand the times I've orgasmed just from penetrative sex though and it's kind of underwhelming for me so I guess you win some you lose some.

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By *oey16Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

If a woman is not really doing it for me with oral then I tend to imagine it was someone else doing it. Is that the same for women not being brought to orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you haven't doesn't mean you can't.

It's all about communication, verbal and non-verbal. Try lending a hand if all else fails. Or don't, each to their own. I for one am not overly fussed on receiving but really enjoy giving, as long as it's having the desired effect.

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By *lice1010Couple
over a year ago

CROYDON

This is an interesting thread. I had never cum through oral and couldn't get into it at all. Mr A has been trying to get me to be patient with it as he loves giving oral, but I'm not very good at being patient. Anyway it's taken lockdown, and afternoons with plenty of time on our hands for me to relax into it. It worked! I recently had my first orgasm this way and now able to cum through oral, although it takes a long time. I thought the orgasm would be less intense than with a vibrator but it's not. Mr A is delighted with his work and seems to like having his head crushed between my thighs during spasms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a woman is not really doing it for me with oral then I tend to imagine it was someone else doing it. Is that the same for women not being brought to orgasm?"

Not for me.... Iv had at least one or two blokes that Iv reallly fancied and they still haven’t been able to do it.

Although I have pictured another bloke while having PIV sex before to make things more pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is an interesting thread. I had never cum through oral and couldn't get into it at all. Mr A has been trying to get me to be patient with it as he loves giving oral, but I'm not very good at being patient. Anyway it's taken lockdown, and afternoons with plenty of time on our hands for me to relax into it. It worked! I recently had my first orgasm this way and now able to cum through oral, although it takes a long time. I thought the orgasm would be less intense than with a vibrator but it's not. Mr A is delighted with his work and seems to like having his head crushed between my thighs during spasms

I think this is what I’d have to do.... although I won’t be getting in a relationship anytime soon and I don’t sleep with the same men more then a couple of times so really I have no hope

Maybe one day though

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"If a woman is not really doing it for me with oral then I tend to imagine it was someone else doing it. Is that the same for women not being brought to orgasm?"

Not for me, it's not who is doing it so much as the fact it doesn't really do it for me. I prefer penetration and that's what makes me cum, as long as they don't cum too soon

Mrs H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It tends to happen more when I’m with another female

Maybe il have to try that instead

Thoroughly recommend it! Different experience altogether

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By *oey16Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

"If a woman is not really doing it for me with oral then I tend to imagine it was someone else doing it. Is that the same for women not being brought to orgasm?

Not for me.... Iv had at least one or two blokes that Iv reallly fancied and they still haven’t been able to do it.

Although I have pictured another bloke while having PIV sex before to make things more pleasurable

And then being disappointed when you open your eyes and realise it's not him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't cum through penetrative. Swings and roundabouts

I am very happy to forego that, if I can just enjoy giving oral all evening.

This has inspired me to start a new thread actually "

I could also happily give oral all night. I couldn't imagine starting a proper one on one relationship with a woman who doesn't like receiving oral sex.

When my mates and I were teenagers watching porn I wasn't thinking I can't wait to lose my virginity and have sex. I was thinking I can't wait to eat my first pussy.

I love the taste and smell of a pussy. It massively turns me on if a woman orgasms when I am giving her oral sex. I love the feeling of her juices trickling into my mouth as I tongue her pussy. I adore women who can flood my mouth with their juices when they orgasm from me giving them oral. A woman sitting on my face is heaven for me. I don't miss a drop of her sweet juices.

A woman once bet me I couldn't tongue her pussy for one hour. I won. I managed 2 hours. My tongue was really sore afterward lol. It was worth it though.

I have never really been into the dom and sub thing. However, I do have a fantasy about being a woman's oral sex sub.

Damm, I wish somebody was sitting on my face right now lol.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't need to cum from oral.

I get the impression that the men who have given it to me (very few from here have), are trying very hard to make me cum, so they can get it over with.

I don't suck a cock to make a man cum; it's for the pleasure of feeling it in my mouth, and him enjoying that feeling too.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they can keep going for long enough, and focus on the clit then yes.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"If they can keep going for long enough, and focus on the clit then yes. "
Yes I agree it’s about enjoying it yourself, Then your head and brain are giving everything

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

The only time I've struggled to make someone cum via oral was a fb with very stubborn orgasms, took some perseverance. A long time. Possibly some mental block & certainly comfort with your partner is a massive part, this was several meets in.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

My fingers normally do the trick. But as a preamble to the....!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't need to cum from oral.

I get the impression that the men who have given it to me (very few from here have), are trying very hard to make me cum, so they can get it over with.

I don't suck a cock to make a man cum; it's for the pleasure of feeling it in my mouth, and him enjoying that feeling too.

I don’t need to cum via oral but I’d like to be able to every now and again to change it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not always. I cum quicker from penetrative sex, fingering or ... for other reasons.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I cum every time through oral. It doesn't happen quickly tho and my position is a factor also in how quickly it happens

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