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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I recently came across a profile that had joined fab at a similar time to myself. Right at the start of this pandemic. As you can imagine I’m finding it hard to find my feet on here. But with the lockdowns lifting and people getting vaccinated is there any advice out there?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Seriously dude my only advice is just be you

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I recently came across a profile that had joined fab at a similar time to myself. Right at the start of this pandemic. As you can imagine I’m finding it hard to find my feet on here. But with the lockdowns lifting and people getting vaccinated is there any advice out there? "

Confused by the 1st part of you comment, but as far as getting started , attend clubs or socials grow your friends first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seriously dude my only advice is just be you

I hear that fella.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't base your worth on your success on fab or compare yourself to other people. Chat, laugh, join in and take it for what it is...a bit of light-hearted fun

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By *uskieMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah, I feel your pain!

I'm new and couldn't understand that everyone was saying they had so many messages and I wasn't even getting any views. I get I'm not Brad Pitt but I'm not bad looking fella (so my mum told ME!) people only want verified, which I understand...but how do you do that when people won't accept your messages...but, I will carry on and hopefully some lovely peeps will give me a boost.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Yeah, I feel your pain!

Get on the cam chat, people will verify you via that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only advice I can offer is just be you and don't bust your ass trying to be something someone else wants you to be. Dont take things too seriously, have a sense of humour and be patient. You usually meet the best people that way.

Remember everyone's a critic, so just have fun! Good luck OP

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Welcome to the crazy, fun world of fabs op!

Usually my advice would be to get to a few socials and make yourself known to people.

A big part of fabs is networking especially as a single man.

My advice for getting verified would be to get in the chat rooms on cam like someone said previously.

Keep chatting with people and if you don't get a reply move on. No reply usually means they're not interested.

Good luck!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What's the significance of mentioning the other profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I feel your pain!

The last word in your profile is 'thing'.

Many women won't show that they look at profiles as some people get irate that they looked but won't fuck them. You may have had lots of views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all comes down to the effort you put in OP.

Effort in profile text, photos, forums etc. Make yourself stand out from the crowd

My advice would be look at the ‘popular’ guys profiles and see how you can improve yours. Not copy theirs but it will give you some ideas

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