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Why is sex on my mind all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Serious question. Why can I not stop thinking about sex? I’ve had a good sex life but still feel jealous reading about other people. This site almost controls me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you have a penis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious question. Why can I not stop thinking about sex? I’ve had a good sex life but still feel jealous reading about other people. This site almost controls me. "

Is it just a man/penis thing then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You say you have a good sex life, is it satisfying your needs emotionally and for intimacy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say you have a good sex life, is it satisfying your needs emotionally and for intimacy?"

Not really. Bit same old. I need some spice and experiment

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"You say you have a good sex life, is it satisfying your needs emotionally and for intimacy?

Not really. Bit same old. I need some spice and experiment"

No idea if you have a regular partner or not but maybe you could do that with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say you have a good sex life, is it satisfying your needs emotionally and for intimacy?

Not really. Bit same old. I need some spice and experiment

No idea if you have a regular partner or not but maybe you could do that with them. "

I have an on/off gf but I get jealous about what I read on here. I want to try everything. Couples, wicked girls, maybe even guys. Life is short

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By *reston_SmallGirlCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We have never been, but a club or sauna may also be a good place to experience new things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You say you have a good sex life, is it satisfying your needs emotionally and for intimacy?

Not really. Bit same old. I need some spice and experiment

No idea if you have a regular partner or not but maybe you could do that with them.

I have an on/off gf but I get jealous about what I read on here. I want to try everything. Couples, wicked girls, maybe even guys. Life is short "

Got ya. Go to clubs when they open but don't get jealous of what you see on here, some of it is represented in a favourable light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried masturbation or learning a new language ?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’d try baking a cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel the same and I believes it’s just because I’m a male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d try baking a cake "

Warm cherry pie :p

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Serious question. Why can I not stop thinking about sex? I’ve had a good sex life but still feel jealous reading about other people. This site almost controls me.

Is it just a man/penis thing then?"

Far from it. Plenty of other people think about sex all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what having a penis and lots of testosterone does ha x u are probably normal, every guy must think of sex a lot daily x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not good love. Maybe seek some therapy if it is consuming you. Peace and no sex vibes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a similar problem with puns, I literally can’t stop thinking about puns, get help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. Pussy nonstop on my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, it's easy to just make comments about men and penises but let's face it, were a woman to open up and talk about a part of her life she sees as a problem and in return she got told its just because she's got a vagina I imagine (would hope) the reaction would be very different.

OP, whilst it may or may not be true that men think about sex more than women if its reached a point for you where you feel its affecting your life then its not just 'having a penis'

I'm no expert and have no experience to offer things that have worked for me but I would suggest talking to a professional, a therapist or counsellor just as you would if any other aircraft of your life began to affect your mental wellbeing.

Good luck

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aspect not aircraft ffs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If its that bad then you need professional help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not good love. Maybe seek some therapy if it is consuming you. Peace and no sex vibes. X "

Agree. It could indicate a problem. When I'm feeling OK I don't think about sex all the time.

But I have experienced manic episodes which feature hypersexuality where the thoughts about sex consume your whole life including irresistable urges and jealousy reading about others experiences. This has led to a few situations which I really shouldn't have put myself in.

If it is starting to affect your normal life or the thoughts are there constantly then it could indicate a problem.

Your profile is hidden so can't see your age which could also be a factor. If you consider it a problem then I would speak to a GP.

Best of luck OP.

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