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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x"

I'm unsure. Come and visit me and Tina for a thorough assessment.

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x"

You're definitely bicurious however if You feel attracted to other women then maybe even bisexual. Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if you enjoyed it then definitely welcome to the club x

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Yep bi. Just go with the flow. My wife is also bi and loves the best of both worlds x

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

You're definitely bicurious however if You feel attracted to other women then maybe even bisexual. Welcome "
that the thing I have never been attracted to woman before , but starting to be more curious

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x"

Not if you decide it’s not for you. You can try to be a vegetarian for a week but by the next Sunday you’re tucking into a nice roast dinner, it’s just something you experimented with, not something you become.

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

You're definitely bicurious however if You feel attracted to other women then maybe even bisexual. Welcome that the thing I have never been attracted to woman before , but starting to be more curious "

As long as You enjoy it just follow your feelings unless You're a Catholic then don't as You'll burn in hell lol.

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

You're definitely bicurious however if You feel attracted to other women then maybe even bisexual. Welcome that the thing I have never been attracted to woman before , but starting to be more curious

As long as You enjoy it just follow your feelings unless You're a Catholic then don't as You'll burn in hell lol. "
thanks i remember that

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You can define yourself however you like - just do what you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have just been caught in the moment and gone with the flow but id say bi curious.

Miss.

Welcome to a whole other world opening up

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"You could have just been caught in the moment and gone with the flow but id say bi curious.

Miss.

Welcome to a whole other world opening up

"
definitely got caught in the moment

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x"

To be honest, who cares? You are what you are, and if you feel you don’t neatly slot into a precise definition of your orientation then just be specific with the people you meet.

Enjoy the experimentation and don’t worry about the labels!

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

To be honest, who cares? You are what you are, and if you feel you don’t neatly slot into a precise definition of your orientation then just be specific with the people you meet.

Enjoy the experimentation and don’t worry about the labels!"
thanks

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

I'm with the other responders OP, you needn't label yourself, glad you enjoyed your experience. I have only played with a girl once and I will certainly be doing it again, it was definitely something I wanted to explore when joining the site and it didn't disappoint.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Don’t worry about giving yourself a label, just enjoy life and whatever experiences come your way and be happy x

Jxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t worry about giving yourself a label, just enjoy life and whatever experiences come your way and be happy x

Jxx"

Came here to say the exact same thing. Too much emphasis is placed on labelling everything... just experiment if you want and enjoy

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

I would say you can enjoy watching same sex fun without it necessarily meaning you will swing that way.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Sounds more bi prosseco to me. Don't worry about trying to lable yourself. To me it just sound a great night. Dosnt mean your have to be anything based on that 1 experience. If its opened your eyes up a bit amd you would like some sort of something again.. then enjoying yourself is the important thing. Leave your labels on your clothes for now. I think the confusion sometimes felt adds to the pressure of deciding which label you wear, if you must wear one

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"Don’t worry about giving yourself a label, just enjoy life and whatever experiences come your way and be happy x

Jxx

Came here to say the exact same thing. Too much emphasis is placed on labelling everything... just experiment if you want and enjoy "
thank you for your comment , much appreciated x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'd say if you like it and want to do it again you're bi curious.

If you'd tried and it wasn't your thing, then you'd still be straight.

Do whatever makes you happy, but if you do want to meet women /couples here maybe add you're exploring with women so they know you're open to it.

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"I'd say if you like it and want to do it again you're bi curious.

If you'd tried and it wasn't your thing, then you'd still be straight.

Do whatever makes you happy, but if you do want to meet women /couples here maybe add you're exploring with women so they know you're open to it.

"
thank you did actually put it on my profile before , but a lot of couples put me off , with there list of demands so toke it off again

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

My partner (her story) had never considered herself BI or even thought it I till it happened. Discovered a whole new dimension to her sexuality which had never considered, she has embraced since. If you enjoy then embrace it but for you and no one else.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"I'd say if you like it and want to do it again you're bi curious.

If you'd tried and it wasn't your thing, then you'd still be straight.

Do whatever makes you happy, but if you do want to meet women /couples here maybe add you're exploring with women so they know you're open to it.

thank you did actually put it on my profile before , but a lot of couples put me off , with there list of demands so toke it off again "

There is a demand list????

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon

Curious enough to allow it to happen definitely, you'll be bi curious if you actively seek it happening again and bisexual if you actually enjoy it and it becomes part of who you are comfortable being ...

I'm the exact opposite of yourself ... and curious enough to be talking with a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see the need to put yourself into a box.

If you enjoy something and you want to do it again then do it again.

I have always labelled myself straight for fab purposes but I’ve long been of the mind that if I ever did meet a guy that I found interesting and attractive enough to experiment with then I wouldn’t rule it out.

It’s yet to happen but that still doesn’t mean I’ve ruled it out.

Just do you, fuck being a conformist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess your fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it down to experimenting, probably class yourself as bi curious. If you enjoyed it and want to do more, then you could be bisexual if you’re attracted to both men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs doesnt consider herself to be bi even though she loves playing with other women. She finds woman attractive but only in the context of swinging. Dont worry about the labels, if you like playing with other women then just go with the flow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy what feels good and explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

Not if you decide it’s not for you. You can try to be a vegetarian for a week but by the next Sunday you’re tucking into a nice roast dinner, it’s just something you experimented with, not something you become. "

If 'let women do stuff to you' you're not bi OP. Too many women on here pretend to be bi to turn men on.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"This is my first post , so be kind , so I have always classed my self as straight, but prior to lockdown I was at a party where two woman starting to do things to me which I quite enjoyed, didn’t do anything back as they knew i am straight, but wanted me to experience it , so my question is am I now bi , for allowing it to happen x

Not if you decide it’s not for you. You can try to be a vegetarian for a week but by the next Sunday you’re tucking into a nice roast dinner, it’s just something you experimented with, not something you become.

If 'let women do stuff to you' you're not bi OP. Too many women on here pretend to be bi to turn men on. "

Exactly this ^^^^^^ OH (her) Bi sexually as in previous post is entirely hers. My involvement is incidental. As above there are lots here think FF is just foreplay, aperitif before the real action starts when the guys join in or only perform for their partners, or simply guys trying to fulfil a fantasy.

Back to OP (OH) would say it is nice to enjoyed being pleasured by another woman but to pleasure another woman is OMG. Most importantly if you enjoy do it for yourself and no one else

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By *oxy lady40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Thank you all for your messages , just going to go with the flow ,and see what happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs doesnt consider herself to be bi even though she loves playing with other women. She finds woman attractive but only in the context of swinging. Dont worry about the labels, if you like playing with other women then just go with the flow x "

There’s lots of men who like playing with cock but don’t find men attractive..... they’re mocked and ridiculed if they say they’re straight though

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Mrs doesnt consider herself to be bi even though she loves playing with other women. She finds woman attractive but only in the context of swinging. Dont worry about the labels, if you like playing with other women then just go with the flow x

There’s lots of men who like playing with cock but don’t find men attractive..... they’re mocked and ridiculed if they say they’re straight though "

That is interesting observation. If you talk to my OH she does not consider herself BI, but by definition she is (label). She considers herself sexually like liberated. She just considers her enjoyment of FF as just another dimension of sexual enjoyment.

She did write a story in the stories and fantasies about her first time, how it happened and how she sees it from her perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t this how we all discover what we like?

We experience something that we haven’t tried before and if we like it we try it again just to make sure!

Don’t overthink it OP. If it feels good, do it

V

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