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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not answer.

I'm a millennial. If you're not invited I'm not opening the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

If they're unexpected visitors they'll be lucky to have the door answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

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we have cctv so can see who's at the door. Very easy to pretend we are not home sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them. I’m not moving my bed for several hours yet

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Ooooh is whip up a blueberry and pear cake and welcome them in. Exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the kettle on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fake my own death to avoid visitations. Cups of tea and small tall is not my thing.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

My house is a home, we have both lived and worked here all day, every day for 14 months now and we are mid renovation. Welcome in, I will put the kettle on there is always tea and biscuits! If you know us well enough to drop by unannounced, you will know how hard we both work with our careers, caring responsibiities, further education and home renovation, you are a non judgemental person or we wouldn't be friends, find a seat, lets have a chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unannounced visitors send me into a tizz, silly people

The house is clean and tidy enough to cope with randoms who rock up without an invite, but I won't have any cake or biscuits for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visitors?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Hide

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Hide behind sofa and switch off tv.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm eating my breakfast, Mr N is in the shower, the sofas are covered in old blankets we put on them at night for the cat to sleep on, the washing up is in the sink and the table is covered in books, electronic devices and other stuff. If someone knocked on the door I'd ask them in, say "excuse the untidiness" and usher them into the conservatory via the library/ study. I'd then make them a cup of coffee, put s one lipstick on and mentally cross them off my Christmas card list

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

"Not answer.

I'm a millennial. If you're not invited I'm not opening the door

This! I hate folk just dropping in unannounced, in fact I hate them dropping in announced!

And the washing machine is always on here - the joys of mucky kids

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

East Sussex

"What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

Unannounced visitors! Time to panic, then tidy like mad all before calming enough to open the door like I haven’t just done two weeks housework in 5 minutes. Open door, remember I’m still not dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im naked right now so they would get a shock if i answered the door like this Nd a coffee in my hand

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By *onny DogsMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I'd be running around like a lunatic cleaning up

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nah ...all good ... Bolognese simmering wafting garlic and basil through the house ... stick around and you can have a bowl

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

we have cctv so can see who's at the door. Very easy to pretend we are not home sometimes

They probably think your doorbell is also the master switch for all your house lights

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What would you do if unexpected visitors knocked your door right now.

Are you catching up with the weeks washing and your house looks like a laundrette?

Are the breakfast dishes still in the sink?

Are you a take me as I am kinda person or would you be running around hiding the washing before opening the door?

Have you ever felt like you should apologise for the mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it annoying when people ring my doorbell while I'm mid wank and I have to stop and look less flustered before I can open the door. Then I'm like "what? I'm busy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just out the shower so hair wet and jammies on but an unexpected visitor?

Yeah that would be proper nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just sat having a coffee, washing and hoovering done so its tidy here.

Mrs KC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this moment in time I wouldn't answer the door as I'm not at home.

If I was at home and it was someone I knew then they can find the house as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd fake my own death to avoid visitations. Cups of tea and small tall is not my thing."

I wouldn't answer the door!

People that drop in unannounced deserve to be ignored - friends and family know better than to do it - so if the door knocks I know it's a nosey neighbour to tell me a boring story about something I don't care about - or someone selling things

No go away!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

They would be stood there getting wet, l’m at work.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

Im chilling out watching James Martin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never happen, people who know me know I need to prepare for social interaction

And your home is your home, you dictate the mess not visitors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgetting Covid - Id invite them in. Might apologise for the mess but wouldnt be that bothered as its where I live not a show house

I want people to feel they can pop round including my kids friends. I want an open welcoming house for people. I grew up in a house like that. I would come home from my part time job to sometimes find a friend sitting in the kichen with a cup of tea chatting to my mum or even roped into helping my dad in the garden

What about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not answer.

I'm a millennial. If you're not invited I'm not opening the door

Same here

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I would make sure that they would be focus in something much more exciting than the dishes from luch time

As i live alone house is always tidy and bedroom always ready to rock

Of course i know if someone is knocking my doors there's only one reason for that hapen

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Tell them through the door I'm having to self isolate so csnt let them in but csn they go get me some shopping as I can't go out

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ve had two visitors in the last couple of hours. One stayed for coffee and one drop off cake enroute to another friend. It was good to see them both

Fortunately the house is spotless

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By *ssexPolyGentMan
over a year ago

southend

"Tell them through the door I'm having to self isolate so csnt let them in but csn they go get me some shopping as I can't go out

Now that sounds like an awesome plan to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh unexpected visitors are the worst. I'm in the bath now and wouldn't surprise me if someone knocks on. I swear to god they come at the worst times.

It's not even that the house might not be tidy or that I'm not dressed yet, that doesn't bother me too much depending on who it is! But mostlyI hate it because it always ruins plans or disrupts something.

I don't get why people can't send a text or give me a quick phonecall!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably stress at the fact I've not showered yet and dressed in comfy clothes! The rest I'd just apologise for about 100 times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine by me, cooking bread at the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get visitors and there are reasons why I don't accommodate

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have one friend who can pop in whenever she wants, anytime day or night.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm one of those that people take me as they find me

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