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Wavelength and vibes

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

How do you know you are on the same wavelength with people - not just on here but in life, at work etc. What are the vibes you respond to? (Lighthearted and non scientific)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know you are on the same wavelength with people - not just on here but in life, at work etc. What are the vibes you respond to? (Lighthearted and non scientific)"

just an instinct really.

some people are just dorks...and it shows...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"How do you know you are on the same wavelength with people - not just on here but in life, at work etc. What are the vibes you respond to? (Lighthearted and non scientific)

just an instinct really.

some people are just dorks...and it shows..."
Would you say you go by their profiles on here? Or by posts? Or emails?

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I go by their posts, if I like them, I normally get on well.

I never read my posts, I can't stand the twat who writes them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just know

I can tell within a few messages if I am likely to click with someone

Outside of Fab, it doesn't take long to suss out who gets me and who doesn't !

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

For me not always what is said but the intention behind the words that matter. Some people just make you think yes I like them

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"How do you know you are on the same wavelength with people - not just on here but in life, at work etc. What are the vibes you respond to? (Lighthearted and non scientific)

just an instinct really.

some people are just dorks...and it shows...Would you say you go by their profiles on here? Or by posts? Or emails? "

That second question is always going to bring people onto the forum slagging off other people.

I thought it was a general question you were asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant get any wavelengths me radio is broken. Now about those vibes

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I go by their posts, if I like them, I normally get on well.

I never read my posts, I can't stand the twat who writes them"

+1

I'll let you decide whether I'm agreeing with sentence 1 or 2 and whether I'm talking about myself or Pablo

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"How do you know you are on the same wavelength with people - not just on here but in life, at work etc. What are the vibes you respond to? (Lighthearted and non scientific)

just an instinct really.

some people are just dorks...and it shows...Would you say you go by their profiles on here? Or by posts? Or emails?

That second question is always going to bring people onto the forum slagging off other people.

I thought it was a general question you were asking?"
Absolutely - it was a general question to ask people what made them think that they on the same wavelength with somebody. I dont mean just the forums, in fact maybe I should take forums out of the question so it is clear. Sorry if that was not clear

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Cant get any wavelengths me radio is broken. Now about those vibes "
Did say vibes, no vibs

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

In real life there's very seldom people I don't get on with.....I'm not saying I'm this complete Pollyanna but I'm thinking hard and I really can't bring anyone to mind who I don't get on with (apart from the thieving ex, obviously.....and one or two people who've let me down or acted in a childish and petulant way that put me in mind of having to take care of a geriatric or small child having a tantrum).....I'm still in touch with my ex husband's family, they're still my in-laws and neices and nephews and there's never any embarrassment talking about my ex hubbie with them

Maybe I am a Pollyanna after all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know straight away if im going to be on the same wavelength as someone. Sometimes you can joke and banter with someone straight away, some people can tell a joke and it will go right over my head and i know its supposed to be funny cause others laugh. I think generally its instinct. Same as you can like or dislike someone instantly without knowing them

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