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Club or Social meet what do u prefer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't they the same thing potentially?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social. With clubs there’s a distinct “expectation”almost. From both parties as well as others.

Personally I’d rather get to know somebody in a neutral environment and see what happens

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By *lexnNatasha1977Couple
over a year ago

wigan

Club

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

100% club.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

I think club bring more choice and fun. Getting a meet sometimes can be hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the individual, my preference would be social meet

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Any will do tbh I didn’t realise it would be so hard to find someone when we started looking 4 years ago x

Mrs x

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston


"Any will do tbh I didn’t realise it would be so hard to find someone when we started looking 4 years ago x

Mrs x "

Its really hard ain't it. That's why we're thinking might try a club everyone has told us it's the way to go. X

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham


"Any will do tbh I didn’t realise it would be so hard to find someone when we started looking 4 years ago x

Mrs x

Its really hard ain't it. That's why we're thinking might try a club everyone has told us it's the way to go. X"
people been saying same to us but I’m really shy

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston


"Any will do tbh I didn’t realise it would be so hard to find someone when we started looking 4 years ago x

Mrs x

Its really hard ain't it. That's why we're thinking might try a club everyone has told us it's the way to go. Xpeople been saying same to us but I’m really shy "

I'm quite self conscious sometimes and do worry everyone will be slim and gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social. With clubs there’s a distinct “expectation”almost. From both parties as well as others.

Personally I’d rather get to know somebody in a neutral environment and see what happens "

I still think there is a massive expectation at a social too... or at least all the ones Iv been too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

club Px

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

We’re looking for club meets

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We prefer a social meet but it can be difficult finding suitable couples and then trying to arrange times and places to meet so we will be looking more towards clubs once we can.

For single men though I do prefer socials.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, but that can be for a social meet too =)

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Social meet as more intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the social side of clubs and enjoy getting to know people and if it leads to anything then that’s a bonus.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I can be myself easier at a club, but socials are good fun too (Natural light isn't so kind to my makeup skills!)

And if you think there's an expectation to play with someone at either a social or club, then IMO you're talking to the wrong people. I never expect to play immediately with anyone without a friendship there first, and am quite happy in the company of other like minded souls.

As an aside, I know it's easy for me to say but the worries of clubs being full of "the beautiful people" are completely unfounded. Hell, they let me in ok!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Social - love a good laugh, natter and flirt over a drink

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Social - love a good laugh, natter and flirt over a drink "

You forgot one vital thing and that's very unlike you

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Social, it’s more intimate and a chance to get to know someone better,. A club could probably work too, but do others choose that to seize the opportunity if the social goes well, or so they have a back up plan and the time isn’t wasted if the social doesn’t work out?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve always done a social meet in coffee houses during the daytime, and occasionally an evening drink in a pub. It’s an easy option, with no expectations on either side, and we can both go our separate ways if we don’t click.

For me to visit a club means an hour and a half’s drive, then there’s the single male membership and entry fees, on top of being restricted to single guy ‘friendly’ times.......

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Social - love a good laugh, natter and flirt over a drink

You forgot one vital thing and that's very unlike you "

I didn't like to mention food

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Social every time!

Hate having that feeling of being expected to have sex, I’m not a performing monkey lol.

It takes the fun out of it in my eyes. Would rather build the tension up, flirt and go with the flow

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Social. With clubs there’s a distinct “expectation”almost. From both parties as well as others.

Personally I’d rather get to know somebody in a neutral environment and see what happens "

We prefer socials in a club, never ever have expectations. We've had great meets, some have lead to fun and some just great craic. No one should go to a club with expectations, just a view to having a great night amongst like minded people

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