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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? " Leave the ducks to swim in circles. Go your own way, follow your path. Don't let social norms dictate your life. My ducks are still fucking around and I've learned to love it. | |||
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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? " I was 32 when my ducks lined up, now they’ve scarpered and I’m back to square one | |||
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"There are ducks?! Lol on a serious note my ducks went awol years ago! I've never had my shit together! " I’ve heard we’re meant to have a little fleet of them all lined up in an orderly fashion I don’t have ducks but if I did they run wild and are free spirited | |||
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"About 6 weeks ago " well done sir I take my hat off to you | |||
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"Ahahahahaaaa!!! Hilarious! Ducks in a row! Pppfftt " No not in a row they should be in a line a row is side by side a line is one in front of the other | |||
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"Random info - I had my shit together. Married, two kids, happy life. Then husband died when I was 30. I’m far from having any type of shit back together yet, but I’m here, muddling through and trying to make the most of it all. Enjoy the now We’re all just winging it really " Amen | |||
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"Just shy of 50 this year, that's how long it took. Finally have the great job and bought my own gaff. Comfortable at last with the notion of spending the rest of my days as a singleton. It took many, many years longer than I hoped but hey, better late than never" Exactly I feel I should be competing with peers of my own age . But they didn’t go through the roadblock of cancer and paralysation (I don’t think that’s the right term but hey ) | |||
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"About 6 weeks ago well done sir I take my hat off to you " Why thank you. | |||
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"I'm 42 sunshine, and still don't have all that shit together. I'm still alive though " Well done ! Thanks makes me feel optimistic | |||
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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? Leave the ducks to swim in circles. Go your own way, follow your path. Don't let social norms dictate your life. My ducks are still fucking around and I've learned to love it. " Lucky fucking ducks Haha thank you | |||
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"Ahahahahaaaa!!! Hilarious! Ducks in a row! Pppfftt No not in a row they should be in a line a row is side by side a line is one in front of the other " It matters not... I thought mine were sorted in my 20s..I was wrong... Again in my 30s...wrong again... My 40s has been so mad I'm not sure if the ducks I can see are even mine... Tbf, I no longer care and neither should you... Live your life and be happy... There is no script | |||
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"Give your self time you’re only young ! Plenty of time we make mistakes we all do ! More more than others I hasten to add ! Be yourself everything will work out in the wash as they say ! Enjoy you’re life ahead ! " Thanks sir Sounds like you speak wise words of wisdom | |||
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"All my ducks f****d off ages ago and the bloody hooks bit bent ! Little buggers ! " Ducks still missing ! Last seen in Pacific Ocean ! | |||
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"43 this year and my shit is far from together " I blame tinder (joking) Well I’m sure it will all line up one day | |||
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"37 Well done " It may all go to shit again so I'm not feeling too smug just yet. At least I can look back and think "those 2 years were actually not bad". Prior to that life was an agonising slog of depression and anxiety. | |||
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"43 this year and my shit is far from together I blame tinder (joking) Well I’m sure it will all line up one day " I doubt it, I'm resigned to the fact this is my life from now on, single and on my own it is what it is x | |||
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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? I was 32 when my ducks lined up, now they’ve scarpered and I’m back to square one " These bastard ducks need a leash and collar | |||
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"Likely you never will. They day you feel like you aren't winging it is the day you've lost your grip on reality. Welcome to adulthood " Oh my | |||
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"43 and I still don’t. In fact I think the little buggers have swum off." I’m sure they haven’t | |||
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"What now? There are ducks? *Kudos to autocorrect, for changing ducks to dicks. It knows me too well " All the dicks in line Made me laugh thatc | |||
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"I had all my shit together by 30 and then emphatically blew it all apart by 31, shit will always happen life never stops when you feel you’re sorted " Sorry to hear that sir | |||
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"43 this year and my shit is far from together I blame tinder (joking) Well I’m sure it will all line up one day I doubt it, I'm resigned to the fact this is my life from now on, single and on my own it is what it is x" Long distance throuple ? Seriously though, I resigned myself to a situation and then it changed. The only thing you can guarantee is things won't go how you ever think | |||
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"I’m 36 and I’ve never liked being in line, step out of it and you never know what you may achieve or find, there’s always a rogue one in every group, embrace being that one and take your own path! Worst that can happen is your swept backwards now and then, shake your feathers and keep swimming, we’re all just keeping our head above water after all xx" | |||
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"I have a duck he’s called paddy I have no fecks what I’m doing from one day to the next just wing it baby " Paddy the duck Love it Duck pun too | |||
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"Ahahahahaaaa!!! Hilarious! Ducks in a row! Pppfftt No not in a row they should be in a line a row is side by side a line is one in front of the other It matters not... I thought mine were sorted in my 20s..I was wrong... Again in my 30s...wrong again... My 40s has been so mad I'm not sure if the ducks I can see are even mine... Tbf, I no longer care and neither should you... Live your life and be happy... There is no script " Thanks | |||
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"What now? There are ducks? *Kudos to autocorrect, for changing ducks to dicks. It knows me too well All the dicks in line Made me laugh thatc " Life goals | |||
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"I had all mine nicely lined up, then duck hunting season opened up and they all got shot" Who was the shooter ... I heard elma fudd only hunts wabbits | |||
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"Nearly 45... I gave up with the ducks and got cats instead. " I’ve heard herding cats is pretty tough | |||
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"53 this year and ducks absolutely not in a row " | |||
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"40. I wouldn't say they were in a line, but I owned them and took responsibility for them. They're still wayward, but that's cool... at least I'm blaming no one else for their chaos. " | |||
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"40. I wouldn't say they were in a line, but I owned them and took responsibility for them. They're still wayward, but that's cool... at least I'm blaming no one else for their chaos. " .. Same for me... The 40s feel different.. Not sure if the ducks will ever be in a row but I don't worry about it as much that's for sure | |||
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"40. I wouldn't say they were in a line, but I owned them and took responsibility for them. They're still wayward, but that's cool... at least I'm blaming no one else for their chaos. .. Same for me... The 40s feel different.. Not sure if the ducks will ever be in a row but I don't worry about it as much that's for sure " | |||
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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? " I am 29 and my ducks are far from in a line. My career is finally beginning so that's good. But I'm single and back home with my parents No kids and the body clock is ticking so that ship would have sailed by the time I meet someone and settle down etc. So naturally I thought fuck it. And came back here to get to know and reconnect with hot people ready to have great sex (once I'm happy that I no longer need to worry about covid). | |||
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"There are ducks?! Lol on a serious note my ducks went awol years ago! I've never had my shit together! " ^^^^^^^ This... I had my ducks all lined up years ago... Had more sense back then than I do now... Don't know what happened but hey I kinda went backwards | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! " Ffs it's early their* not there!! | |||
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"I have one duck and I'm clinging on to it for dear life The rest of them are nowhere to be seen. I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing - I don't think most people do - it's all pretend." I once read that, no one actually knows what they are doing, everyone is just pretending, and I think there’s quite a lot of truth in it. | |||
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"I have one duck and I'm clinging on to it for dear life The rest of them are nowhere to be seen. I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing - I don't think most people do - it's all pretend. I once read that, no one actually knows what they are doing, everyone is just pretending, and I think there’s quite a lot of truth in it. " So do I Some people are better at faking it than others that's all. | |||
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"43 and I still don’t. In fact I think the little buggers have swum off. I’m sure they haven’t " To be fair, I feel like things might be slowly coming together, but there’s a long way to go yet. | |||
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" What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? " I roasted and ate all mine. Advice: Orange sauce. | |||
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"Some dick keeps shooting my ducks in a row." I suppose if they’re in a line they’re easier to shoot If they’re running wild it’s a lot harder | |||
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"For the things I can control yeah mine have been lined up for a long time. When it comes to things where other people have been involved then they won't ever line up, other people always tend to throw a random spanner into the works somehow " In terms of ducks in a line I think you should have used ... people let a fox run wild into your ducks | |||
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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? " I definitely can relate to you on this one OP, I myself turn 29 later this year and at times have felt exactly how you do. Seeing people my age getting married, having kids, buying properties etc. The former two I feel I’m quite a way off from but the latter is something I’m working towards. I say just enjoy the ride, our time will come no doubt | |||
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"I am 23 this year...I need a hot woman to play with ...." Think you may have misread the questions post | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! " I love this answer so much ! | |||
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"Ducks, ducks? I have no ducks, I have squirrels, who are very much not in a row, they are in a squiggly line, somewhere over there " I love squirrels | |||
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"Do they ever OP? My dad used to tell me not to wish my life away and I think that means live in the moment. I'm 60 and am not living the life I thought I would but it's not a bad life. I have all the 'stuff' I need although I would like a little more emotional stability. Ask me again in 30 years." I can guarantee I’m not wishing my life away I’m doing things that I enjoy that others potentially will never get the chance to do and doing things for my happiness and enjoyment | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! I love this answer so much ! " You're welcome but I'm off to find my (ducks) | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! I love this answer so much ! You're welcome but I'm off to find my (ducks) " Also apologies, I wrote this at 0500 so their* NOT there!! | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! I love this answer so much ! You're welcome but I'm off to find my (ducks) " If you need any help .... If I can walk behind you and look at your sexy legs I’ll be there | |||
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"So I’m coming up to 29 years of age and feel like by this age I should have really got my shit together and ducks lined up in terms of my life .... I DON’T ! Partly not my fault partly I haven’t a fucking clue what I want ... where I want it and why I should .... But hey I’m pressure free and lots of potential and possibilities I just need to make some choices What year did you form an orderly queue with your ducks (life ) ? Have you ? Advice for someone who isn’t quite there yet ? I definitely can relate to you on this one OP, I myself turn 29 later this year and at times have felt exactly how you do. Seeing people my age getting married, having kids, buying properties etc. The former two I feel I’m quite a way off from but the latter is something I’m working towards. I say just enjoy the ride, our time will come no doubt " I feel like I’m having my mid life crisis early | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! I love this answer so much ! You're welcome but I'm off to find my (ducks) If you need any help .... If I can walk behind you and look at your sexy legs I’ll be there " Why thank you always glad if a helping hand | |||
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"Some people have there ducks in a line and are happy, some people's ducks have never been tamed and are happy, some people have there ducks in a line and are unhappy, some people's ducks are wild and they're unhappy ... lots of people say they're happy but moan lots and some people moan lots but are actually happy ... some people have there ducks in a row but decide to lob dynamite at them (occasionally for no particular reason) and self-sabotage! Who knows about fecking ducks? very few people seem to be happy, just find what truly makes you happy and lodge there for a while. Not sure anyone knows anything about life, just participate and enjoy the ride ... noone has the answers but you! I love this answer so much ! You're welcome but I'm off to find my (ducks) If you need any help .... If I can walk behind you and look at your sexy legs I’ll be there Why thank you always glad if a helping hand " Damn if I ever plan on heading your way I’ll be sure to let you know | |||
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"Ducks! For crying out load,I've been using kittens " You have no chance I’ve heard herding cats is tough ... kittens is near on impossible ! Good luck | |||
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"Relax OP. My ducks have been in and then out of line for decades. The next step is not minding at all if your ducks are where they're supposed to be. Ease off yourself a bit. And if you're still feeling motivated, find one or two areas of life where you feel you can put your energy. For me, once I put my efforts into my personal inner work, everything else fell into place " I think I’d follow those ducks carefully if they lead back to you | |||
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"Relax OP. My ducks have been in and then out of line for decades. The next step is not minding at all if your ducks are where they're supposed to be. Ease off yourself a bit. And if you're still feeling motivated, find one or two areas of life where you feel you can put your energy. For me, once I put my efforts into my personal inner work, everything else fell into place I think I’d follow those ducks carefully if they lead back to you " | |||
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"Ducks, ducks? I have no ducks, I have squirrels, who are very much not in a row, they are in a squiggly line, somewhere over there " Don't fuck with the squirrels, never fuck with the squirrels. This is important (as per Rick & Morty) | |||
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"Nearly 45... I gave up with the ducks and got cats instead. I’ve heard herding cats is pretty tough " Near on impossible. Unless you have treats and catnip. | |||
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"Nearly 45... I gave up with the ducks and got cats instead. I’ve heard herding cats is pretty tough Near on impossible. Unless you have treats and catnip." Think you could herd most creatures with some treats to hand | |||
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"I'll let you know when I get there " I’ll be here patiently waiting We’ll get a party sorted for that day | |||
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