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"It scares them because we can bleed for a week without dying " | |||
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"It scares them because we can bleed for a week without dying " Love that that's funny xx | |||
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"I've had one ex where we had sex and oral during periods." I. Got that kink xx it's horny xx | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack." Lmao | |||
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"I don't blame them to be honest. I'm not sure I'd want to fuck a dick if it was farting out blood with every movement. " | |||
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"I have found alot of men don't care if I am on or not... Thank fuck! if anyone suggests bj/anal because of it though, I may go off on one... It's aswell as, or nothing... Not instead! " That's me I think that's rude or u get u can just wank me off lol no just no | |||
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"shower sex Px " Please | |||
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"Don't understand why it turns some guys off. Its a bit messy but that's it. " I agree just wash xx | |||
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"Don't understand why it turns some guys off. Its a bit messy but that's it. I agree just wash xx" Exactly. Baby wipes at the ready if it gets too messy. | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack." Wow! The thought of that made me cringe and I haven’t even got a cock haha | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack." DO NOT look at my photos! I have one from the photo threads, that'll bring back those memories | |||
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"I have found alot of men don't care if I am on or not... Thank fuck! if anyone suggests bj/anal because of it though, I may go off on one... It's aswell as, or nothing... Not instead! That's me I think that's rude or u get u can just wank me off lol no just no" Yeah super satisfying that! Not sure how some think sticking their cock up my arse is less dirty than my fanny while I'm on, either... Weird | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack. DO NOT look at my photos! I have one from the photo threads, that'll bring back those memories " Too late. I was perving them just now, they didn’t bring back any memories but they did inspire a memorable wank. | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack. Wow! The thought of that made me cringe and I haven’t even got a cock haha " Ooooh, definite paint brush material! | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack. DO NOT look at my photos! I have one from the photo threads, that'll bring back those memories Too late. I was perving them just now, they didn’t bring back any memories but they did inspire a memorable wank." Haha. I've set it as my profile pic anyway | |||
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"It scares me because it reminds me of the time I zipped my cock up. That fucking hurt. Getting the fucker out again looked just like I’d withdrawn from some blob sex. Having said that though... it all depends who’s period it is as to whether I’m prepared to decorate my ball sack. DO NOT look at my photos! I have one from the photo threads, that'll bring back those memories Too late. I was perving them just now, they didn’t bring back any memories but they did inspire a memorable wank. Haha. I've set it as my profile pic anyway" You beast. | |||
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"I'm fine with sex but I'm not going down on a lass that is on her period. Auditions for the next Joker movie have been closed " Ha ha I don’t blame you. For the very very small amount of men that I have done it with ... None have offered oral either. It turns my stomach though.. the thought of a man giving it when I’m on | |||
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"I'm fine with sex but I'm not going down on a lass that is on her period. Auditions for the next Joker movie have been closed Ha ha I don’t blame you. For the very very small amount of men that I have done it with ... None have offered oral either. It turns my stomach though.. the thought of a man giving it when I’m on " Yeah it doesn't help when I lived with 4 girls at uni and none of them thought it's a good idea to change the sanitary bin, for months... | |||
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"I have found alot of men don't care if I am on or not... Thank fuck! if anyone suggests bj/anal because of it though, I may go off on one... It's aswell as, or nothing... Not instead! " I agree somewhat, for me I'm even more horny and sensitive there, towel down and a shower after sorts any mess out | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " Are men weird about periods? | |||
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"I'm fine with sex but I'm not going down on a lass that is on her period. Auditions for the next Joker movie have been closed Ha ha I don’t blame you. For the very very small amount of men that I have done it with ... None have offered oral either. It turns my stomach though.. the thought of a man giving it when I’m on Yeah it doesn't help when I lived with 4 girls at uni and none of them thought it's a good idea to change the sanitary bin, for months..." That’s just grim | |||
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"Fucking stinks tho don't it. " Wouldn't go that far but it definitely has it's own smell. Not to mention the smeary mess on the sheets , down your thighs, on the towels and possible on other parts if hands have wandered...... Jesus no thanks ....... Smell of drying blood and then the clean up ...... yak | |||
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"I have found alot of men don't care if I am on or not... Thank fuck! if anyone suggests bj/anal because of it though, I may go off on one... It's aswell as, or nothing... Not instead! I agree somewhat, for me I'm even more horny and sensitive there, towel down and a shower after sorts any mess out " This | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " I wouldn't want to have sex with a woman on her period. It's just too messy. When I was a young man I was going down on a woman. Asi was tonguing her she asked if I have ever done rainbow kissing. I had no idea what it was so asked her. She then told me rainbow kissing is giving women oral sex when she is on her period. I nearly threw up. | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " never had a problem doing my man duty during her heat...actually turns me on..!! | |||
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"Most men don’t mind in my experience. It’s a perfectly natural thing, and I don’t really get why it’s considered so icky. I understand men not wanting to give oral though. " I have no issues with it at all but as mentioned here, I won’t give oral (I don’t think many women would want it either) but I may do if she has a tampon on. There, I’ve said it! | |||
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"shower sex Px " I was thinking this ! Jump in the shower wrap her legs around me and fuck against the wall then a hot W rinse after | |||
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"Most men don’t mind in my experience. It’s a perfectly natural thing, and I don’t really get why it’s considered so icky. I understand men not wanting to give oral though. I have no issues with it at all but as mentioned here, I won’t give oral (I don’t think many women would want it either) but I may do if she has a tampon on. There, I’ve said it! " I've given oral on a long term partner before while she's on her period. I don't mind just as she didn't but I do think most women wouldn't want like the idea of that | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " To be fair, in my experience, it’s excuse No.1 for a woman not to have sex, or cancel a meet...... | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? To be fair, in my experience, it’s excuse No.1 for a woman not to have sex, or cancel a meet...... " Considering we spend 25% of the time on our periods (sometimes even more) then it's likely to be one of the most common reasons to need to cancel. | |||
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"Personally it's something I'm reluctant to do because of a previous experience. However, of the men I've dated I would say the majority are happy to have sex when you're on your period. It's only a small handful I've met who are bothered by it. On the flip side though, I've met a small number of men who are so chill about it they've wanted to give oral if you have a tampon in. I wasn't personally comfortable with that though. " For me,,?? Sex would be at the ladies behest. She’d have to be comfortable xx Oral?? Not sure if that’s 1- hygienic and 2 - what a lady would like?? | |||
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"shower sex Px " This ^ with or without period ... period | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " Never been put off with a period | |||
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"Personally it's something I'm reluctant to do because of a previous experience. However, of the men I've dated I would say the majority are happy to have sex when you're on your period. It's only a small handful I've met who are bothered by it. On the flip side though, I've met a small number of men who are so chill about it they've wanted to give oral if you have a tampon in. I wasn't personally comfortable with that though. For me,,?? Sex would be at the ladies behest. She’d have to be comfortable xx Oral?? Not sure if that’s 1- hygienic and 2 - what a lady would like??" Period blood isn't dirty and with a tampon in they wouldn't come into contact with it anyway. Personally I'm not comfortable with it but every woman is different. | |||
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"Personally it's something I'm reluctant to do because of a previous experience. However, of the men I've dated I would say the majority are happy to have sex when you're on your period. It's only a small handful I've met who are bothered by it. On the flip side though, I've met a small number of men who are so chill about it they've wanted to give oral if you have a tampon in. I wasn't personally comfortable with that though. For me,,?? Sex would be at the ladies behest. She’d have to be comfortable xx Oral?? Not sure if that’s 1- hygienic and 2 - what a lady would like?? Period blood isn't dirty and with a tampon in they wouldn't come into contact with it anyway. Personally I'm not comfortable with it but every woman is different. " Sorry didn’t mean to come across wrong way x | |||
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"Personally it's something I'm reluctant to do because of a previous experience. However, of the men I've dated I would say the majority are happy to have sex when you're on your period. It's only a small handful I've met who are bothered by it. On the flip side though, I've met a small number of men who are so chill about it they've wanted to give oral if you have a tampon in. I wasn't personally comfortable with that though. For me,,?? Sex would be at the ladies behest. She’d have to be comfortable xx Oral?? Not sure if that’s 1- hygienic and 2 - what a lady would like?? Period blood isn't dirty and with a tampon in they wouldn't come into contact with it anyway. Personally I'm not comfortable with it but every woman is different. " This is the problem though isn’t it, that periods are considered messy and dirty, when in fact they are a little miracle. It’s just blood, and while I understand men don’t want to give oral (I wouldn’t want to lick blood off anywhere), it’s a natural thing. | |||
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"M doesn't give a monkey's about it. He sees it as a normal bodily function. I wouldn't meet someone whilst on my period due to the thoughts of some it's yuk etc. To me if you want to stick your manhood in my poop shoot then my vagina during my period really shouldn't be a problem in my opinion. " Love this! | |||
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"M doesn't give a monkey's about it. He sees it as a normal bodily function. I wouldn't meet someone whilst on my period due to the thoughts of some it's yuk etc. To me if you want to stick your manhood in my poop shoot then my vagina during my period really shouldn't be a problem in my opinion. " Good point well made! | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " This is all about and do with sexual education and social conditioning. Men in particular are not taught enough about the female menstrual cycle and the emotional affects both bad and good sides.. Yet the prudish adults of the UK still think childern shouldn't be taught about SEX in schools! | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do" All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. | |||
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"My uterus swells. Its too painful and smelly. " or should I say it did. Not had a period for 2 years now | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? This is all about and do with sexual education and social conditioning. Men in particular are not taught enough about the female menstrual cycle and the emotional affects both bad and good sides.. Yet the prudish adults of the UK still think childern shouldn't be taught about SEX in schools! " I don't think girls/women are taught how much those emotional effects might affect boys/men/others either and how it's acceptable to behave in any way you (or your body) choose(s), but that it's also acceptable for others not to put up with it - life is a two way street, right, not just about the female individual? | |||
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"My uterus swells. Its too painful and smelly. or should I say it did. Not had a period for 2 years now " I know what you mean. When I used to get periods, I was definitely more delicate. My lady parts would sometimes ache a bit too. Everything was super sensitive but not necessarily in a good way. There were certainly times where I totally didn't want to have sex or others where I would but would want to take things easy. | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " i love doing it during a period, it is amazing. | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. " The OP isn’t implying that, the OP is saying she’s never seen it as weird to want sex during her period, not that others are. Having an aversion to blood isn’t weird and is perfectly understandable but not understanding and having an aversion just because it’s a period is ignorance. As is so often the case, the key is in the why | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. The OP isn’t implying that, the OP is saying she’s never seen it as weird to want sex during her period, not that others are. Having an aversion to blood isn’t weird and is perfectly understandable but not understanding and having an aversion just because it’s a period is ignorance. As is so often the case, the key is in the why" The title of this thread is 'why are men weird about periods'...... I rest my case. | |||
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"Men are weird about *lots* of things." As are women They insist on looking at the mantle piece whilst poking the fire, then wonder why they end up burnt | |||
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"Just keep it wet, blood dries quickly with friction " Yeah and then more blood comes. Kind of how periods work | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. The OP isn’t implying that, the OP is saying she’s never seen it as weird to want sex during her period, not that others are. Having an aversion to blood isn’t weird and is perfectly understandable but not understanding and having an aversion just because it’s a period is ignorance. As is so often the case, the key is in the why The title of this thread is 'why are men weird about periods'...... I rest my case. " I think the title and the question are two different things in my mind. I think it's perfectly normal for women to want sex when they are on their periods. Just as much as it's fine not to want to and the same for men if they don't like blood etc. However, I don't think men should see periods as weird. My other half will get tampons etc from the shops without batting an eye lid. Same as if I leak at night I don't want to feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. | |||
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"M doesn't give a monkey's about it. He sees it as a normal bodily function. I wouldn't meet someone whilst on my period due to the thoughts of some it's yuk etc. To me if you want to stick your manhood in my poop shoot then my vagina during my period really shouldn't be a problem in my opinion. " Is that an offer In all seriousness though, this is how I see it too and I don't understand where the squeamishness comes from if having sex during a period doesn't come with any physical pain, it is after all just a normal bodily function. | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right " You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right " A man with a bleeding dick would be an injury and an open wound so it's not any kind of comparison and yes I'd know as I've had circumcision stitches split on me and know all about how that pain is. If you knew what a period is than you would know its the womb lining clearing itself out ready for its next cycle. | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. The OP isn’t implying that, the OP is saying she’s never seen it as weird to want sex during her period, not that others are. Having an aversion to blood isn’t weird and is perfectly understandable but not understanding and having an aversion just because it’s a period is ignorance. As is so often the case, the key is in the why The title of this thread is 'why are men weird about periods'...... I rest my case. I think the title and the question are two different things in my mind. I think it's perfectly normal for women to want sex when they are on their periods. Just as much as it's fine not to want to and the same for men if they don't like blood etc. However, I don't think men should see periods as weird. My other half will get tampons etc from the shops without batting an eye lid. Same as if I leak at night I don't want to feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. " But that's you developing a conversation around the topic which I understand is the nature of the forums. However I stated that the OP implied that men were weird because they only wanted oral when she was on her period. I was told that wasn't what the thread was about and so clarifies by restating the thread title. Even in the opening post there was no question around men being ok buying sanitary products or the lack of female reproductive cycle fof men. If was simply thd op saying how horny she was on her period and his weird it was that men didn't like it. Of course education is key and period shame is a real thing. | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. The OP isn’t implying that, the OP is saying she’s never seen it as weird to want sex during her period, not that others are. Having an aversion to blood isn’t weird and is perfectly understandable but not understanding and having an aversion just because it’s a period is ignorance. As is so often the case, the key is in the why The title of this thread is 'why are men weird about periods'...... I rest my case. I think the title and the question are two different things in my mind. I think it's perfectly normal for women to want sex when they are on their periods. Just as much as it's fine not to want to and the same for men if they don't like blood etc. However, I don't think men should see periods as weird. My other half will get tampons etc from the shops without batting an eye lid. Same as if I leak at night I don't want to feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. But that's you developing a conversation around the topic which I understand is the nature of the forums. However I stated that the OP implied that men were weird because they only wanted oral when she was on her period. I was told that wasn't what the thread was about and so clarifies by restating the thread title. Even in the opening post there was no question around men being ok buying sanitary products or the lack of female reproductive cycle fof men. If was simply thd op saying how horny she was on her period and his weird it was that men didn't like it. Of course education is key and period shame is a real thing. " I read it more as "why do men find period sex weird?" rather than "men are weird for not liking period sex". | |||
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"I do have an issue and would rather not meet. " Same, I wouldn't even wanna be around men when I'm on xx | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " Nothing wrong with fucking a women on her peroid, Feels amazingly different too, all soft and spongey inside and whats a bit of blood, better to have blood on your knob than a lump of shit | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. " Have you seen my thread about you yet | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right A man with a bleeding dick would be an injury and an open wound so it's not any kind of comparison and yes I'd know as I've had circumcision stitches split on me and know all about how that pain is. If you knew what a period is than you would know its the womb lining clearing itself out ready for its next cycle." Jesus sorry to hear that re your stitches bet that was painful | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. " He's definitely done himself no favours over the past couple of days. He says he has the biggest dick in Swansea but the wording should be he is the biggest dick in Swansea | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. He's definitely done himself no favours over the past couple of days. He says he has the biggest dick in Swansea but the wording should be he is the biggest dick in Swansea " Shut up you pansy | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right A man with a bleeding dick would be an injury and an open wound so it's not any kind of comparison and yes I'd know as I've had circumcision stitches split on me and know all about how that pain is. If you knew what a period is than you would know its the womb lining clearing itself out ready for its next cycle. Jesus sorry to hear that re your stitches bet that was painful " Well going on your responses on here you could always ask a woman how painful it is being on her period as you seem to think it's it's same thing | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. He's definitely done himself no favours over the past couple of days. He says he has the biggest dick in Swansea but the wording should be he is the biggest dick in Swansea Shut up you pansy " That's comical coming from you | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " That everyone is entitled to like what they like. Some like period sex, some don't just like some women do/don't. Imagine if a guy moaned about women not wanting sex whilst on her period, he'd get torn a new one. | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. He's definitely done himself no favours over the past couple of days. He says he has the biggest dick in Swansea but the wording should be he is the biggest dick in Swansea Shut up you pansy That's comical coming from you " Shouldn’t you be scouring the forums looking for women to agree with like usual | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. He's definitely done himself no favours over the past couple of days. He says he has the biggest dick in Swansea but the wording should be he is the biggest dick in Swansea Shut up you pansy That's comical coming from you Shouldn’t you be scouring the forums looking for women to agree with like usual " I agree with valid statements and who I reply to has nothing to do with you and I don't reply to only women. Maybe you should think more before you post because I've replied to yourself also | |||
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"A lot of men are made uncomfortable by women's periods and it's logical why. 1 we don't have them ourselves so it's the unknown and there is fear sometimes in the unknown. 2 while its not actually blood, it looks a lot like blood and blood makes a lot of people uncomfortable. 3 it's messy. It's amazing the amount of people who don't feel comfortable dealing with mess. Clear body fluids are fine. Red or brown liquids can make people react with shame and that's off putting. I'm not saying these are true for every man and I'm not saying that these are the only reasons or that they are totally valid, only that they explain why most men are uncomfortable with periods. It's also worth noting that some women also don't want sex during periods for the third reason above. " And some men are wary because blood can be associated with pain. And if your anything like me and taking blood thinning medication the last thing you want is anyone or anything coming anywhere near me.... | |||
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"A lot of men are made uncomfortable by women's periods and it's logical why. 1 we don't have them ourselves so it's the unknown and there is fear sometimes in the unknown. 2 while its not actually blood, it looks a lot like blood and blood makes a lot of people uncomfortable. 3 it's messy. It's amazing the amount of people who don't feel comfortable dealing with mess. Clear body fluids are fine. Red or brown liquids can make people react with shame and that's off putting. I'm not saying these are true for every man and I'm not saying that these are the only reasons or that they are totally valid, only that they explain why most men are uncomfortable with periods. It's also worth noting that some women also don't want sex during periods for the third reason above. " What do you mean it isn't actually blood? | |||
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"A lot of men are made uncomfortable by women's periods and it's logical why. 1 we don't have them ourselves so it's the unknown and there is fear sometimes in the unknown. 2 while its not actually blood, it looks a lot like blood and blood makes a lot of people uncomfortable. 3 it's messy. It's amazing the amount of people who don't feel comfortable dealing with mess. Clear body fluids are fine. Red or brown liquids can make people react with shame and that's off putting. I'm not saying these are true for every man and I'm not saying that these are the only reasons or that they are totally valid, only that they explain why most men are uncomfortable with periods. It's also worth noting that some women also don't want sex during periods for the third reason above. What do you mean it isn't actually blood? " It's the lining of a woman's womb. It's blood and cells. Only half of it is real blood. The rest is excreted cells and fluids. | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. Have you seen my thread about you yet " Nope I’ve been napping. What’s it called? | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? To be fair, in my experience, it’s excuse No.1 for a woman not to have sex, or cancel a meet...... Considering we spend 25% of the time on our periods (sometimes even more) then it's likely to be one of the most common reasons to need to cancel. " It does depend on the woman though. I had a good think back over my life of sex, and recollected three different responses to women on their periods but wanting to meet; "I can work round it, don't worry" (She used some sponge thing?) "You'll have to go in the backdoor, as I got my period today" and (to keep OT); "I really want you to cum inside me as my hubby won't when I'm on my period" | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. Have you seen my thread about you yet Nope I’ve been napping. What’s it called? " Annie Wilkes appreciation thread, I expect you to have your way with me in my sleep now | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. Have you seen my thread about you yet Nope I’ve been napping. What’s it called? Annie Wilkes appreciation thread, I expect you to have your way with me in my sleep now " Found it, thank you! | |||
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"Absolutely vile would you shag a man with a bleeding dick ? That shit ain’t right You’re too critical, first you don’t like trainer socks, now you turn your nose up at guys that have sex with a woman whilst she’s on her period. Have you seen my thread about you yet Nope I’ve been napping. What’s it called? Annie Wilkes appreciation thread, I expect you to have your way with me in my sleep now Found it, thank you!" No worries, can be in Cardiff within the hour x | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " Don’t bother me just stick a towel down lol | |||
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"Towel down and you're good to go in my opinion, it's only a bit of blood and you can just shower after " This! | |||
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"I understand it, that's simply because my periods were so heavy that it would look like a fucking massacre, blood sprayed up the walls, bloody hand prints on the walls etc. " Apart from that I find woman that are on are way more sensitive and there g spot seems biggger | |||
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"A lot of men are made uncomfortable by women's periods and it's logical why. 1 we don't have them ourselves so it's the unknown and there is fear sometimes in the unknown. 2 while its not actually blood, it looks a lot like blood and blood makes a lot of people uncomfortable. 3 it's messy. It's amazing the amount of people who don't feel comfortable dealing with mess. Clear body fluids are fine. Red or brown liquids can make people react with shame and that's off putting. I'm not saying these are true for every man and I'm not saying that these are the only reasons or that they are totally valid, only that they explain why most men are uncomfortable with periods. It's also worth noting that some women also don't want sex during periods for the third reason above. What do you mean it isn't actually blood? It's the lining of a woman's womb. It's blood and cells. Only half of it is real blood. The rest is excreted cells and fluids. " Right, I thought you meant it wasn’t blood at all . | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " I have the same issue. Orgasms help with hormonal tension too. So yeah that doesn't stop me and it always makes me sad when some men still get freaked out about it. I can understand though fear of blood.. not disgust though. | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? I have the same issue. Orgasms help with hormonal tension too. So yeah that doesn't stop me and it always makes me sad when some men still get freaked out about it. I can understand though fear of blood.. not disgust though. " I prefer anal though for heavier days. | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? " Because we cant trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesnt die | |||
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"In all honesty, I think that a lot of men are ignorant of what periods are, how women are affected during, etc. It’s a taboo subject and one that society doesn’t engage in, so men don’t learn about it, which exacerbates ignorance and the rise of myths. It’s not gross or shameful, it’s just something that some bodies do All of this is true but just because a man doesn't want to participate in blood sports doesn't mean he needs to be shamed and called weird as the op implies. Sexual and general education for men around periods is very different to men wanting to have sex with women on their periods. The OP isn’t implying that, the OP is saying she’s never seen it as weird to want sex during her period, not that others are. Having an aversion to blood isn’t weird and is perfectly understandable but not understanding and having an aversion just because it’s a period is ignorance. As is so often the case, the key is in the why The title of this thread is 'why are men weird about periods'...... I rest my case. I think the title and the question are two different things in my mind. I think it's perfectly normal for women to want sex when they are on their periods. Just as much as it's fine not to want to and the same for men if they don't like blood etc. However, I don't think men should see periods as weird. My other half will get tampons etc from the shops without batting an eye lid. Same as if I leak at night I don't want to feel ashamed or embarrassed about it. But that's you developing a conversation around the topic which I understand is the nature of the forums. However I stated that the OP implied that men were weird because they only wanted oral when she was on her period. I was told that wasn't what the thread was about and so clarifies by restating the thread title. Even in the opening post there was no question around men being ok buying sanitary products or the lack of female reproductive cycle fof men. If was simply thd op saying how horny she was on her period and his weird it was that men didn't like it. Of course education is key and period shame is a real thing. " In its simplest form - Ignorance, lack of sexual education and social conditioning over 100s of years. It beggars belief how ignorant and un-educated men (and woman) are. A least as a swinging community most are more open and have a greater level of enlightenment. Sexual intercourse at menstruation can be an amazing pleasure experience for both parties. Alot of women are super horny at that time. You just have to get over the mess aspect and use a good lube. | |||
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"I get ultra horny during them but most men say give me a blowjob lol I never had a problem or thought it was weird at all. What's everyone's opinion??? Because we cant trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesnt die" Then you're failing to see how tough women really are because if a man was to bleed for a week he would be dead....long live these strong women who do this every month and still keep smiling and enjoying life | |||
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