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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

During lockdown nobody was doing anything much. Now that things are starting to ease is that feeling of ‘Fear Of Missing Out’ starting to rise in you? Are there some aspects of lockdown you will miss? Will you go back to how things were before or will you be making changes to your life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoyed / enjoying lockdown and things won't be much different when / if it's all eased up. And I don't get FOMO anymore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I am at the age where I know that if I don't do some things now or fairly soon I won't but the list is fairly small and as long as things don't change too much I should be able to do them. I don't have immediate fomo but long term I do

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm probably going to be spending less time on here and more on my fitness (she types whilst drinking a mug of tea). I actually said to a friend the other day I did have a pang of FOMO but I quickly realised how daft I was being. I *could* be doing something every night of the week (and day) but I'm content to go at my pace which is very slow. So no, I won't being going back to how things were before. I've changed during lockdown, what I wanted and thought was important isn't so much now.

I'll miss the quieter roads, the less fast paced aspects of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to miss hiding out in my bitch cave and avoiding all humans

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I am at the age where I know that if I don't do some things now or fairly soon I won't but the list is fairly small and as long as things don't change too much I should be able to do them. I don't have immediate fomo but long term I do"

I sometimes wonder at what age I’ll bow out. I guess there will come a time to hang up my pink pants.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I'm probably going to be spending less time on here and more on my fitness (she types whilst drinking a mug of tea). I actually said to a friend the other day I did have a pang of FOMO but I quickly realised how daft I was being. I *could* be doing something every night of the week (and day) but I'm content to go at my pace which is very slow. So no, I won't being going back to how things were before. I've changed during lockdown, what I wanted and thought was important isn't so much now.

I'll miss the quieter roads, the less fast paced aspects of life. "

I agree, lockdown has put many things in perspective and has rebooted my priorities. I hope that I remember the lessons learned during the last year and not go back to the madness that was life before. Although a little bit of madness is a good thing.

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I'm going to miss hiding out in my bitch cave and avoiding all humans "

You can still try to do that.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm going to miss hiding out in my bitch cave and avoiding all humans "

Give it a few,days of mayhem on here and you may want to go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I think it’ll be similar for me, but better in some ways, as I’ll be able to go out and see people.

I don’t think I suffer with fomo, I like doing my own thing.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

We’ve gotten used to spending our evenings just chilling, focusing on ourselves and our nearest so that won’t change much.

Although we haven’t actually been on a date yet...

I don’t miss being obligated to go places or do things ‘just because’ so I’ll definitely miss that aspect of lockdown. Also, as others said; I miss everywhere being quiet, it’s been incredibly restive not having lots of folks in my space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always liked change, things will always change, so I'm generally happy about that Insecurity and worry is a sticky trap to avoid

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't have FOMO, what I am already starting to feel though is pressure from others to do things that, to be totally honest, I've been quite happy not doing during the pandemic. I need to get better at just saying 'no' to people & not feeling like I need to apologise for it.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve always done my own thing and I’m quite antisocial, so I’ll continue to do what I do and not worry what others are up to.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No fear of missing out (glad you put that in or else would have been my first question) life has changed, how I used to socialise just isn’t there anymore or the desire to return to it.

A new, more focused, way of thinking for me going forwards

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't have FOMO, what I am already starting to feel though is pressure from others to do things that, to be totally honest, I've been quite happy not doing during the pandemic. I need to get better at just saying 'no' to people & not feeling like I need to apologise for it. "

Years ago someone cancelled a quite important thing we were supposed to do at very short notice. They made no excuse and just said they were sorry but it was for personal reasons. Since then I've always thought that's a good way to say no to something "I can't, for personal reasons". The personal reason could be that you just don't want to

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't have FOMO, but I am looking forward to seeing people and getting out in the world again. Bought myself a book of places I want to see in the UK and am planning my trips.

Think the last year has made me realize how lucky I am and FOMO is a waste of energy.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Definitely feeling a pressure to go to restaurants, bars and book holidays but kind of enjoying how much extra money I have by not doing it. The service isn't right yet either, it’s like they are doing you a big favour charging £100 to eat in some place that’s not quite ready or staffed properly

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I get Aldi fomo we don’t have Aldi over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get Aldi fomo we don’t have Aldi over here "

Do you call it Aldigh?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I get Aldi fomo we don’t have Aldi over here

Do you call it Aldigh?"

Yes

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I don't get FOMO as I've too much going on already in my life, regarding fab my journey has pretty much started off again from when we stopped, lockdown was just like a big old pause

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think lockdown has been a good eye opener for everyone in terms of what we took for granted and is making everyone re-evaluate their lives.

We’ve got a lot to do together but I don’t think it’ll be mad rush to do things now, I’ve quite enjoyed the slower pace of life.

K

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I miss the peace and quiet. Makes me want to move out of the city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm starting to feel the pressure, but probably mostly from my Mum, who makes me feel that if i haven't saved 10 babies, climed Everest, been to the pub with 30 people, painted the house, redesigned the kitchen and been for 6 mini-breaks in a month that I'm failing at life

After 50 years, she still doesn't get that i work 50 hour weeks and like drinking coffee and going to tbe gym

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