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Can’t accommodate,can’t travel

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By *heeryman OP   Man
over a year ago

stoke

If these are both on your profile how can we ever meet. Remarkably common

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

You’re not my type.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If the mountain will not come to Muhammad, then Muhammad must go to the mountain

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Local meets only?

The can do either, just don't want to advertise that to randoms?

They are only here for the forums at the moment?

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Local meets only, no?

How do you define "travel"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the mountain will not come to Muhammad, then Muhammad must go to the mountain"

Who is Muhammad and what mountain?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Define travel? To me it means further than 15 mins away maybe?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Send a taxy

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Taxi

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

And rent an hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says they have to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or being particular about who they meet and would rather do the looking themselves.

Just because you've ticked some boxes on a website doesn't mean it is sacrosanct - it's a way of not coming up in searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They only meet on the astral plain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers club meets. Covers both the local no 2hr travel required and no requirement for accommodation in anyones home.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Ask them "

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By *lueeyedblonde78Woman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

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By *lueeyedblonde78Woman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just ask xx

Some that can't travel and accommodate will just want to stay local to where they live and use hotels, go the the person they are meeting or outdoors for the more adventurous of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say can accommodate they assume that means to any stranger at any time of day or night.

If you say can travel they assume that means you will leave your house in London and travel to them in Scotland to sex them.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I’ve met can’t access or travel - collected them from train station and went to my hotel- on the way she told me about a guy she had met who locked the doors as soon as she got in the car - and insisted she call him daddy and suck him off - it was then that I guess I realised so much of what we do is on trust even after lots of conversations… but on the op point I guess you can be both and still meet.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I’ve met can’t access or travel - collected them from train station and went to my hotel- on the way she told me about a guy she had met who locked the doors as soon as she got in the car - and insisted she call him daddy and suck him off - it was then that I guess I realised so much of what we do is on trust even after lots of conversations… but on the op point I guess you can be both and still meet. "

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I’ve met can’t access or travel - collected them from train station and went to my hotel- on the way she told me about a guy she had met who locked the doors as soon as she got in the car - and insisted she call him daddy and suck him off - it was then that I guess I realised so much of what we do is on trust even after lots of conversations… but on the op point I guess you can be both and still meet. "

Accommodate * - been a long day!!

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By *heeryman OP   Man
over a year ago

stoke

Some excellent points particularly about happy to meet locally but not hundreds of miles away. Thanks for the views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers club meets. Covers both the local no 2hr travel required and no requirement for accommodation in anyones home. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say can't do either on my profile, whereas I can actually do both

I'm bored to tears of grown ups that can't do either or both but expect me to!

It's about others expectations, especially the one where they won't/can't accommodate but expect me to invite a stranger into my home!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not meeting, clubs only, cam only, local travel only (you'd be amazed how many people think "will travel" means "will go to the outer Hebrides* on the off chance"

* It's never been the outer Hebrides, but you see my point)

Or it's on their profile, or ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you heard of meditation sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If these are both on your profile how can we ever meet. Remarkably common "

It only there was a way, like you pick them up at their place and then take them to yours, then when you’ve finished drop them home again, but experts warn this is still along way off till cars and houses are invented.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"If you say can accommodate they assume that means to any stranger at any time of day or night.

If you say can travel they assume that means you will leave your house in London and travel to them in Scotland to sex them.

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Absolutely this.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If these are both on your profile how can we ever meet. Remarkably common

It only there was a way, like you pick them up at their place and then take them to yours, then when you’ve finished drop them home again, but experts warn this is still along way off till cars and houses are invented. "

it’s a tricky one isn’t it

I just think it means they don’t drive so don’t want to go too far, also they would rather meet at a hotel or a club than have someone come to their house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drive so can't/won't travel outside my local area... I don't accommodate as I cohabit... It's not terribly difficult

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"If these are both on your profile how can we ever meet. Remarkably common "

Look respect people wishes may not want to meet. Do you know you can go on Cam or meet at there local club stop see problems where there are none just move on..

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