FabSwingers.com forum: It started with a wink

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Not at all!

Just too many prats on here. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you send a unwanted dick pic?

Her x

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Dont think its something you sed it happen quite offtern on here get chatting getting on well then out of the blue nothing

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Not single ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.

Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.

It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Don’t try to apply logic to some of the people/ happenings on here...but yes have to question if they were genuine/ single or just enjoyed the thought?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I've had that, it sucks, but not a lot you can do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Not at all!

Just too many prats on here. Xx"

There are. I know that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages? "

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Not single ...

He said he was. In fact he pretty much told me his life story without me even asking!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Not single ...

He said he was. In fact he pretty much told me his life story without me even asking!"

How long had he been on Fabs ?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake? "

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.

Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.

It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move."

It is a very drastic move.

Which is why I was pretty shocked to be honest. If he had decided not to engage with me any more and didn't have the courage to explain why, he could have used the block button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Not single ...

He said he was. In fact he pretty much told me his life story without me even asking!

How long had he been on Fabs ?"

Only a very short time. He had a new profile but was a returning user. He knew how the site works, winked me initially and I saw his profile had very well worded content, so he appeared to have made an effort with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.

Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.

It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move.

It is a very drastic move.

Which is why I was pretty shocked to be honest. If he had decided not to engage with me any more and didn't have the courage to explain why, he could have used the block button. "

Precisely, what lends itself to my thinking that it was something else that has overwhelmed them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.

Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.

It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move.

It is a very drastic move.

Which is why I was pretty shocked to be honest. If he had decided not to engage with me any more and didn't have the courage to explain why, he could have used the block button.

Precisely, what lends itself to my thinking that it was something else that has overwhelmed them."

Yeah I know it wasn't me.

I have been here long enough to realise these things happen.

It just hasn't happened in a long time and I do wonder why the UNLOS phenomenon happens.

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Not to sound like a noob but what does UNLOS mean?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?"

Yes, very!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not to sound like a noob but what does UNLOS mean?

User No Longer On Site! He disappeared without a trace.

All message thread gone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?

Yes, very!

Would a squirt of cream on top of said cake push you over the edge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?

Yes, very!

Offer him a Jaffa Cake and it’s a very different story.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?

Yes, very!

Would a squirt of cream on top of said cake push you over the edge?"

Pass the Kleenex

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo

With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?

Yes, very!

Offer him a Jaffa Cake and it’s a very different story.

This is very true! lol

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Now I have It Started With a Kiss by Hot Chocolate going through my mind on repeat

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Nope happened a fair amount to me on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now I have It Started With a Kiss by Hot Chocolate going through my mind on repeat"

I do too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately happens far too often on here. But also I suppose people are entitled to change their minds. Plenty more fish in the sea x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

It’s not you it’s them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

Tut - men, bloody typical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not to sound like a noob but what does UNLOS mean?

Thanks. Seeing things like UNLOS here all the time and haven't a clue what half them mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately happens far too often on here. But also I suppose people are entitled to change their minds. Plenty more fish in the sea x"

Of course. I am philosophical as always. We have to have thick skin on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not to sound like a noob but what does UNLOS mean?

Thanks. Seeing things like UNLOS here all the time and haven't a clue what half them mean

This is where the Forum is your friend!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Him being single was probably part of the fantasy he was telling you x

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Crazy ppl on here. Happened to us alot of times x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Him being single was probably part of the fantasy he was telling you x"

I just think he wasn't expecting anyone to chat with him, and when I did, it scared him because shit could have gotten real and no longer would it have been just a fantasy!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"Him being single was probably part of the fantasy he was telling you x

I just think he wasn't expecting anyone to chat with him, and when I did, it scared him because shit could have gotten real and no longer would it have been just a fantasy!"

I mean ffs it's his loss!

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....

UNLOS!

Was it something that I said?

I thought you was going to finish with the mr bright side lyrics “ it started off with a wink , how did it end up like this it was only a wink it was only a wink “

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Next....

Many things could have been the reason and you will probably never get the truth of what's really going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more fish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plenty more fish

Here fishy fishy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake? "

Chocolate cake. You have me there, add hot chocolate, topped with cream and sprinkled with marshmallow and I am yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a wink ? .. did you ever think it would come to this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?

Was that where I went wrong?

What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?

Chocolate cake. You have me there, add hot chocolate, topped with cream and sprinkled with marshmallow and I am yours

Btw, his loss, maybe someone elses gain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It started with a wink ? .. did you ever think it would come to this ?

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I didn't lol

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