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Are you happy or unhappy with your body?

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm not talking about the things you can change, like body fat or muscle size. Most of us have some control over those. I'm talking about the things you have no control over, at least without medical intervention.

Do you like your face? Your hair colour? Your age? Your height? Your boob/cock size? Birth marks? How hairy you are or aren't? Anything really.

Generally speaking, I (Luke) am pretty happy with mine. I'm a good height (6') with broad shoulders. I think I've got a good frame. I would prefer my hair not to have receded and I'd rather be a shower than a grower, but those are only minor things. I'm happy that if I got fit, I'd like the way I look.

What are the things you like and dislike about your body that are just how you are made? How much of an issue are they for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate it. always have, always will.

my hair is my only saving grace. Px

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

Although I get compliments all time I really have body dysmorphia and I'm constantly mentally telling myself I should be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have lovely dark hair,then I met sweet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with pretty much everything ...

The only thing would be height I'd rather be 6ft or 5ft6 both for totally different reasons, funny though coz I've actually been both heights

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"hate it. always have, always will.

my hair is my only saving grace. Px "
I can think of a few others

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would like to be a little taller, everything else I'm ok with I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question, well worded.

I hate my body, but you have to be confident with what you have a do as much as you can with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, there are so many things I would change if I could: I'd be taller, have bigger eyes, blue eyes instead of green, I'd like to be naturally blonde instead of brunette. I wish I had narrower hips, clearer skin that wasn't prone to scarring, bigger feet and hands, a longer torso.

I could go on, but really if I could wave a magic wand, there's nothing I'd keep the same as it is now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm quite happy with how I look. I wish my hair was a bit thicker, but I love the colour.

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By *oolrider13Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Absolutely rubbish xx stunning in every way x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You can change your boob size and hair colour without medical intervention. Or at least I can.

Anyway, I'm happy with my hair colour, my birth marks, my height etc. I think my face is probably one of my redeeming features for my body to be frank! I'm working on the body though so maybe this time next year I'll say I'm happy with everything.

Oh, I did always want long straight hair but I don't mind the frizz too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned to live with my imperfections x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like it....most women on here want gym fit bods on here so it can make you feel unwanted but each to there own I suppose

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Absolutely rubbish xx stunning in every way x"

If I looked perfect I wouldn’t have had to work on my rapier wit, obvious charm, personality - sexual prowess, mastery of all things in the bedroom and above all remaining humble!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like myself most days. But it's not where the end goal lies. Not yet.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

In an ideal world I would probably change a few things. Some things about my face, I'd want clearer skin without so many freckles all over my body, a longer and slimmer neck and probably not be so ghostly pale. Though I ended up just embracing my paleness and facial features and working my "look" around them so if we did have magical powers to change our appearance, maybe I wouldn't know who I was.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Fairly happy.

All of my stand out features I get from my family. Height, strong features and body shape etc. I am a reflection of them.

The only thing I’m not happy with is my feet size but I’m stuck with that so I just make the best of it.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Other than wishing I had perkier boobs I'm pretty happy with my body! Oh and perhaps have a higher cervix if we're being picky! I could definately do with losing some weight, but I really can't be arsed to and so I dont let it be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things I’d tweak I guess ... but overall yeah

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Im that happy with my body I made it bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my height at 5.8 (and a half) and I used to be bald so had a hair transplant 12 months ago, I guess it’s making the most of what you have.. quite a bit I’d change if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy with mine, but it’s always a work in progress. I have the little bits I’m not so keen on and I don’t show, but yes, I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m happy with mine, but it’s always a work in progress. I have the little bits I’m not so keen on and I don’t show, but yes, I am.

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So you should....stunning body! X

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Other than wishing I had perkier boobs I'm pretty happy with my body! Oh and perhaps have a higher cervix if we're being picky! I could definately do with losing some weight, but I really can't be arsed to and so I dont let it be an issue

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If we're talking internal stuff there's loads of stuff I'd fix .

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm never happy with how I look but that could be sorted by giving my head a wobble. Mainly I'd like a properly functioning one please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than wishing I had perkier boobs I'm pretty happy with my body! Oh and perhaps have a higher cervix if we're being picky! I could definately do with losing some weight, but I really can't be arsed to and so I dont let it be an issue

If we're talking internal stuff there's loads of stuff I'd fix . "

Ohh, me too, mine pretty good on the outside, but quite fucked on the inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unhappy atm.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Other than wishing I had perkier boobs I'm pretty happy with my body! Oh and perhaps have a higher cervix if we're being picky! I could definately do with losing some weight, but I really can't be arsed to and so I dont let it be an issue

If we're talking internal stuff there's loads of stuff I'd fix .

Ohh, me too, mine pretty good on the outside, but quite fucked on the inside "

Oh gosh, maybe we need a whole other thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With how you put it OP,I could change my saggy bum but not my saggy tum or bingo wings.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I (Mr) am happy with my body as its the only one I have.

However, there are a few medical issues I have which had I been smarter years ago I likely wouldn’t have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish my tummy was smaller xx

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I'd like new knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like bigger hips , a thinner ribcage. I have a big old ribcage and huge lung capacity so certain positions I look a dam grey hound all ribs and no ass

Plus having bigger hanging ballsack would be a great bonus in the downstairs department , my balls are quite small

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Love it.

Potentially I’d knock a few inches off my height.. but that’s to please others not me.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Mine serves me fairly well but being a bit taller might be nice. I would probably regret it when I bump my head and take a flight though!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I'm gonna sound like Tom Cruise here...

Three or four inches taller.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.... never happy..... I’m just glad I’ve got a glittering personality..... lols tho even that isn’t that good!!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally yes.... I have always been happiest with look from neck up.... The rest I have never been entirely content with but with age have become more accepting of the way things are and focus more on general wellbeing rather than looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like my lips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my frizzy hair....sick of the sight of curling tongs.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Is being a long and slowly process for me but so far i'm really happy with my body but i still have long way to go till finish everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is being a long and slowly process for me but so far i'm really happy with my body but i still have long way to go till finish everything "

You already look amazing, I’m sure when you’re ‘finished’ you’ll be very happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than wishing I had perkier boobs I'm pretty happy with my body! Oh and perhaps have a higher cervix if we're being picky! I could definately do with losing some weight, but I really can't be arsed to and so I dont let it be an issue

If we're talking internal stuff there's loads of stuff I'd fix . "

Like what lol ?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I like what I've got...it serves me well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be not impressed by my nose, did consider having work done at one point. But then again thought against it, as it was a stupid idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like my hair not to have gone grey at such a young age and having to constantly dye it.

Not a huge fan of my toes either but otherwise I'm content with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like my body and my face. My feet aren't great but they get me from place to place. It's all getting old which is interesting when you look in the mirror and it doesn't reflect the 40 year old that's inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only change 1 thing and thats...everything lol

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

As above

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Overall very happy with everything only thing I wish I had was 'long silky smooth hair' haha

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

If I had the money I would make lots of changes, so knowing that won’t happen Ive come to accept what I have and it’s not too bad

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I quite like being, the height I am of about 6ft.

I don't like my size 13 feet, the selection of decent shoes is small, the selection of ladies shoes is smaller still.

I would prefer a shower, not a grower in the cock dept.

Would like to have both testicles instead of one, thank you cancer.

I wish my hair would hurry up and go silver instead of salt and pepper, it has been going grey since me early 20's.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Is being a long and slowly process for me but so far i'm really happy with my body but i still have long way to go till finish everything

You already look amazing, I’m sure when you’re ‘finished’ you’ll be very happy x"

Thank you xx

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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I’ve always hated my nose and chin, love my boobs.

I’ve got a bit of a flabby arse but bugger it, we need to learn to love ourselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to be a tad taller but I'm really not a fan of how hairy my body is

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"You can change your boob size and hair colour without medical intervention. Or at least I can.

Anyway, I'm happy with my hair colour, my birth marks, my height etc. I think my face is probably one of my redeeming features for my body to be frank! I'm working on the body though so maybe this time next year I'll say I'm happy with everything.

Oh, I did always want long straight hair but I don't mind the frizz too much. "

OK, I get that you can dye your hair, but how do you change your boob size without medical intervention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have days where I think I look great and days where I don't. I used to be really overweight as a teen and it's messed with my confidence. But I'm happy with what I have.

Hair wise that's a different story. I have random grey hairs dotted about the place. Id love it if I greyed at the sides. Full Doctor Strange.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I would only change 1 thing and thats...everything lol"
same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently unhappy after lockdown but it's back to being a work in progress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty happy with everything.

Nothing bothers me enough that I’d change it really.

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis

It could definitely be a lot better, so No at the moment.

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"hate it. always have, always will.

my hair is my only saving grace. Px "

What do you hate about it? You look great to me.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I’m not a fan of my body or looks but I make the best of what I have. It’s always a fighting battle to take a compliment because I just don’t like any of it but I can’t change this so just try and make myself feel better by dressing it with underwear. Though I refused to wear a balaclava day to day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not a fan of my body or looks but I make the best of what I have. It’s always a fighting battle to take a compliment because I just don’t like any of it but I can’t change this so just try and make myself feel better by dressing it with underwear. Though I refused to wear a balaclava day to day "

Well i am ... just saying

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"hate it. always have, always will.

my hair is my only saving grace. Px "

What do you hate about it? You look great to me. Luke

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I’m not a fan of my body or looks but I make the best of what I have. It’s always a fighting battle to take a compliment because I just don’t like any of it but I can’t change this so just try and make myself feel better by dressing it with underwear. Though I refused to wear a balaclava day to day

Well i am ... just saying "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Every body’s looking tasty ! What are all you lot seeing ? ..

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’m me...I’ve accepted my flaws and embraced them. I’ll never be perfect nor do I strive to be and despite it taking a long time I’m happy with the way I look but more importantly how I feel about myself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m me...I’ve accepted my flaws and embraced them. I’ll never be perfect nor do I strive to be and despite it taking a long time I’m happy with the way I look but more importantly how I feel about myself xx"

Well said.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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OK, I get that you can dye your hair, but how do you change your boob size without medical intervention? "

Losing weight, gaining weight (speaking on a personal level). Not the best method of doing it but my boob size slowly decreases when I lose weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m me...I’ve accepted my flaws and embraced them. I’ll never be perfect nor do I strive to be and despite it taking a long time I’m happy with the way I look but more importantly how I feel about myself xx"

Truly awesome ... only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overall I'm fairly content. It's not like I'm going to wake up with a new body one day so I may as we accept the one I have. I do go through phases of being unhappy with different bits though. A few months ago it was my teeth. Now I'm totally happy with my teeth and I'm dissatisfied with my flat bum. By Christmas I'll love my bum and be irritated by my strange ears. I obviously just need something to feel discontent with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After all the surgical interventions I’ve been through these last 9 months I’m going to wait until the swelling and bruising has gone and see how I feel.

I’m pain weary.

I’m fed up of being broken.

I just want to enjoy my life for a while now.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'd like to be taller.

Wish my hair had stayed naturally red.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Unhappy. But life’s too short to worry about it.

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked"

That is certainly not true about cock size. Most women see that is not some they particularly think about.

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Unhappy. But life’s too short to worry about it. "

What in particular are you unhappy about may I ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im quite happy. My figure i think is great. My boob size im good. Wish I had longer legs but im in proportion. Age and face well some say im still cute if you can be in your 60s. Love my new hair. On the whole pretty OK with who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with it and always have been. No improvement or change needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve hated my body for several years, since a rugby injury ended my career early and I piled on weight. I was in great shape all my life , simply because I did so much sport (not because I cared at all about how I looked - in fact I was oblivious to it, quite frankly). Being “in good shape” was an outcome, not an aim.

Suddenly finding myself 3-4 stone overweight after the injury was really challenging and it only then struck me how difficult and emotionally draining life must have been for so many people who’d got out of shape earlier on/or just didn’t like their bodies, and battled with body image all their lives. I felt wretched for not realising or understanding people’s struggle beforehand.

But I’ve spent a couple of years getting back into shape and, for the most part, I’m happy now, but it’s a work in progress with regular biscuit breaks that delay advancement lol.

I’m fitter and stronger than I have been for years and feel pretty good overall. But if I ever get complacent, above my station or cocky about the progress I’m making, I come in here just to get passed-over by almost everyone I ever message - that brings me down to Earth pretty sharpish lol.

Love you all and your various shaped bodies

Will x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

That is certainly not true about cock size. Most women see that is not some they particularly think about. "

I know it's not 100% true of most women/profiles but I'd say it's 99%...that's just me reading plenty of profiles and hung,vwe get mentioned a hell of a lot x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I (Mr.) used to absolutely hate it.

Far too thin, glasses, not good looking at all, geeky, clumsy the list went on.

Then, as cheesy as it sounds, met Mrs. CC and it just changed.

I'm STILL too thin, glasses, not good looking, geeky, clumsy and....I couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happy at the moment but feeling a little low to get the motivation to head back into the gym properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happy at the moment but feeling a little low to get the motivation to head back into the gym properly.

"

Mate you’re in great shape. Give yourself a break.

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

That is certainly not true about cock size. Most women see that is not some they particularly think about.

I know it's not 100% true of most women/profiles but I'd say it's 99%...that's just me reading plenty of profiles and hung,vwe get mentioned a hell of a lot x"

We must be looking at very different profiles. I see it occasionally but not often. On the forums it is overwhelmingly the guys who go on about big dicks. Most women then say they don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thank you kind sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wasted so many years hating the way I look, skin colour when I was a child because everyone around me was white, my ridiculously frizzy hair, I've always been tall and chubby, big teeth, stupid feet ... I could go on

Such a waste - I look back and realise that being young is beautiful!

I'm trying to make peace with who I am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like anything about mine but being on here has enabled me to feel sexy and stop caring so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't like anything about mine but being on here has enabled me to feel sexy and stop caring so much"

Power to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wasted so many years hating the way I look, skin colour when I was a child because everyone around me was white, my ridiculously frizzy hair, I've always been tall and chubby, big teeth, stupid feet ... I could go on

Such a waste - I look back and realise that being young is beautiful!

I'm trying to make peace with who I am now "

Your hair is absolutely fucking amazeballs. I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

That is certainly not true about cock size. Most women see that is not some they particularly think about.

I know it's not 100% true of most women/profiles but I'd say it's 99%...that's just me reading plenty of profiles and hung,vwe get mentioned a hell of a lot x

We must be looking at very different profiles. I see it occasionally but not often. On the forums it is overwhelmingly the guys who go on about big dicks. Most women then say they don't care. "

I'm not lying I'm just saying what I see...believe me I don't go on about big dicks because I don't have one I have more to me than that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked"

That isn’t true, I don’t look for those things, it’s about whether I’m attracted to them and we get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

That isn’t true, I don’t look for those things, it’s about whether I’m attracted to them and we get on."

Message incoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

That isn’t true, I don’t look for those things, it’s about whether I’m attracted to them and we get on."

Like I said I'm not lying I do see a lot of profiles requesting that....not all but a lot x

Great pics by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body is far from perfect, whatever perfect is?

But yes, I'm happy with my body.

And in the word's of Ru Paul "If you can't love yourself, then how hell will anyone else?"

Xxx

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Reasonable happy , but working on the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd change several things if I could just press a risk free bottom, but I don't think I'd have surgery.

Not sure I've ever been happy with my body really. Just learned to accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd change several things if I could just press a risk free bottom, but I don't think I'd have surgery.

Not sure I've ever been happy with my body really. Just learned to accept it."

I know a way to make it perfect!

*Attempts to stick penis inside*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

I’m the vision of mankind Mother Nature first had whilst flicking her bean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd change several things if I could just press a risk free bottom, but I don't think I'd have surgery.

Not sure I've ever been happy with my body really. Just learned to accept it.

I know a way to make it perfect!

*Attempts to stick penis inside*"

It looks the same, except now I'm just moaning incoherently lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd change several things if I could just press a risk free bottom, but I don't think I'd have surgery.

Not sure I've ever been happy with my body really. Just learned to accept it.

I know a way to make it perfect!

*Attempts to stick penis inside*

It looks the same, except now I'm just moaning incoherently lol"

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I hate mine. I try not to, but I can’t help it. I hate that I’ve gone from reasonably fit and healthy to the state I’m in now. I hate being in pain literally every minute. I hate that so many things don’t function properly, I hate that I’ve had to have operations to remove badly functioning bits, and I hate that I’m going to have to have at least one more quite soon. I hate the rapidly growing collection of scars as a result. I hatehatehate being in pain. I hate my wonky brain chemicals. I hate struggling to sleep. I hate making plans to do something then feeling like shit the whole time. I hate that something as simple as taking some photos leaves me hobbling like an old woman. Did I mention how much I hate the constant fucking pain? Yeah. I hate it.

How it looks? Most of the time I don’t care too much.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"100%

I’m the vision of mankind Mother Nature first had whilst flicking her bean.

"

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

The only thing I’m unhappy about at the moment I can do something about.

I would quite like to lose a couple of inches in height though.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Happy enough. Could lose a few pound (stone!) it’s photos I don’t like. Oh and mirrors lol

Mrs J

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

If I was picky then the things I don't like is the mum tum pouchy overhang, my very untoned bum and thighs and the jiggly under arms, all things I guess can be rectified to an extent, but Im definitely conscious of them when I take or have pics taken

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked"

Says who!? It actually isn't a thing that is a deciding factor for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could lose anything it would be these massive tits that appeared on my chest this morning, they were fun for the first hour but the novelty has worn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

Says who!? It actually isn't a thing that is a deciding factor for me personally"

From a lot of profiles I read

...like I say for the 3rd time I'm not lying and I don't understand the hostility I'm getting

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

I've never been happy with how I look, I do have nice thick hair though and I like the greying in my beard

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

Says who!? It actually isn't a thing that is a deciding factor for me personally

From a lot of profiles I read

...like I say for the 3rd time I'm not lying and I don't understand the hostility I'm getting "

I'm not being hostile, it's just a small minority on here that want that, the rest of us actually don't, don't let it out you off here

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis


"I’m not a fan of my body or looks but I make the best of what I have. It’s always a fighting battle to take a compliment because I just don’t like any of it but I can’t change this so just try and make myself feel better by dressing it with underwear. Though I refused to wear a balaclava day to day "

You look amazing.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I've never been happy with how I look, I do have nice thick hair though and I like the greying in my beard"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many things about me that I can't change without medical intervention and lots of money, though I've mostly learned to live with it or I'd just get depressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now in my 50s, and can't complain i guess (nora im not 48, but thanks for that earlier) I guess gravity gets you in the end, so basically if you want to meet me I will be mostly lying down though the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock size, height and gym fit...unfortunately they are the 3 most desired things on here...even if you're fairly attractive if you don't have them your fucked

Says who!? It actually isn't a thing that is a deciding factor for me personally

From a lot of profiles I read

...like I say for the 3rd time I'm not lying and I don't understand the hostility I'm getting

I'm not being hostile, it's just a small minority on here that want that, the rest of us actually don't, don't let it out you off here "

Thanks for your comments xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The things I can't change I don't dislike or wish were different - so guess that counts for being happy with my body.

In fact the only thing I dislike is my belly and having lost two stone since the end of Jan that's a work in progress and I'm growing to feel better about myself in that respect too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my feet, I'd definitely change them If I could, although Mr J always assures me he loves every part of me

Her x

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I hate mine. I try not to, but I can’t help it. I hate that I’ve gone from reasonably fit and healthy to the state I’m in now. I hate being in pain literally every minute. I hate that so many things don’t function properly, I hate that I’ve had to have operations to remove badly functioning bits, and I hate that I’m going to have to have at least one more quite soon. I hate the rapidly growing collection of scars as a result. I hatehatehate being in pain. I hate my wonky brain chemicals. I hate struggling to sleep. I hate making plans to do something then feeling like shit the whole time. I hate that something as simple as taking some photos leaves me hobbling like an old woman. Did I mention how much I hate the constant fucking pain? Yeah. I hate it.

How it looks? Most of the time I don’t care too much."

Sending hugs.

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I love being me. I've learned to accept my body since having children, and I'm more confident being a 12 than I ever was as an 8.

I love my bum, my stupid hair, my stretch marks. Ive even learned to love my mental issues.

Don't get me wrong, I have bad days, but they are very rare since having my boy. I grew a human, Ive dragged myself up from wanting to die and have gone through horrific things in life. I'm fucking awesome

My husband's pretty awesome too

Her x

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I'm very happy with every inch of my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with the shape. I'm blessed with a very defined hourglass figure. I'd change my boobs as they aren't perky. I also have terrible skin. I'm very prone to breaking out on my face. I'd like to be taller too as I'm quite short. I'd like a smaller nose and a stronger jawline.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I hate mine. I try not to, but I can’t help it. I hate that I’ve gone from reasonably fit and healthy to the state I’m in now. I hate being in pain literally every minute. I hate that so many things don’t function properly, I hate that I’ve had to have operations to remove badly functioning bits, and I hate that I’m going to have to have at least one more quite soon. I hate the rapidly growing collection of scars as a result. I hatehatehate being in pain. I hate my wonky brain chemicals. I hate struggling to sleep. I hate making plans to do something then feeling like shit the whole time. I hate that something as simple as taking some photos leaves me hobbling like an old woman. Did I mention how much I hate the constant fucking pain? Yeah. I hate it.

How it looks? Most of the time I don’t care too much.

Sending hugs. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am appalled at the state of my body at the moment but only I can change it

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I go through phases, sometimes yes sometimes no and also large amounts of time of not caring as I find it liberating.

It's not always easy but I find not trying to compare myself to others helps

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I dislike my broken bits. My prolapsed uterus, my nerve injured leg/hip/pelvis, my damaged spinal discs. All things that cause me daily pain and disability.

I'd like to be slimmer, but you said fat doesn't count

The rest I'm fine with. I really like my eyes. I have clear, young looking skin. I really don't care that my skin is super pale because it suits me. My natural hair colour is fine, I've never coloured it. I'd prefer my boobs to have stayed perkier but I can cope with the sag.

I REALLY hate my tummy, but that's a fat thing. My saggy apron was caused by pregnancy so no idea if that counts? I'd love for the apron to disappear, even if I didn't lose weight overall. I can't diet the apron away unfortunately.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Extremely happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhhhhh not lately

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm incredibly hairy naturally and that bothers me, but I'm working on it.

I have health problems which I wish I didn't have, and I've been reliant on medication to survive for more than two thirds of my life.

But I wouldn't be me without it.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Very happy with mine. I'm tall (6"2) and have a good build. I'm happy with my broad shoulders and tapered "V" back. No aches or pains at my age. I like my face with its angled cheekbones, defined jawline and strong chin. I like my smile too. Still have hair!

Thank you mom and dad

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I am completely content with my human body; I have no health problems and my blood is tested at every blood donation session I attend; in fact I occasionally contacted to make special donations for patients in urgent need of my blood group and HLA blood type.

I have no need for medication; I have never smoked (tobacco or illicit drugs); I do not consume alcohol; I eat very healthily and I exercise almost every day.

I am contented to be the latest in a line of long-lived survivors, stretching back millions of years; my body is a miracle of an evolutionary process that began 13.5 billion years ago.

I marvel at its astonishing complexity, and when this pandemic finally ends, and I can safely meet others I look forward to sharing it with members of the opposite gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my look

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

As a male body of the particular age, I guess there's nothing too wrong with it. But if there was any magical way to swap it in for one that would be a better fit to my lingerie...

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By *partharmony OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I love being me. I've learned to accept my body since having children, and I'm more confident being a 12 than I ever was as an 8.

I love my bum, my stupid hair, my stretch marks. Ive even learned to love my mental issues.

Don't get me wrong, I have bad days, but they are very rare since having my boy. I grew a human, Ive dragged myself up from wanting to die and have gone through horrific things in life. I'm fucking awesome

My husband's pretty awesome too

Her x"

What an uplifting attitude! I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My weights up and down like a yo yo

9 st or 12 I'm always happy with my body and all that it has to offer

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I can not complain as think I have good genes although I wish I were 2 inches taller and 10 years younger.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I'm not talking about the things you can change, like body fat or muscle size. Most of us have some control over those. I'm talking about the things you have no control over, at least without medical intervention.

Do you like your face? Your hair colour? Your age? Your height? Your boob/cock size? Birth marks? How hairy you are or aren't? Anything really.

Generally speaking, I (Luke) am pretty happy with mine. I'm a good height (6') with broad shoulders. I think I've got a good frame. I would prefer my hair not to have receded and I'd rather be a shower than a grower, but those are only minor things. I'm happy that if I got fit, I'd like the way I look.

What are the things you like and dislike about your body that are just how you are made? How much of an issue are they for you?"

I am who I am.

Don’t like it but I have to live with it and make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wasted so many years hating the way I look, skin colour when I was a child because everyone around me was white, my ridiculously frizzy hair, I've always been tall and chubby, big teeth, stupid feet ... I could go on

Such a waste - I look back and realise that being young is beautiful!

I'm trying to make peace with who I am now

Your hair is absolutely fucking amazeballs. I love it "

Aw thankyou

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By *heekyeyesMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"hate it. always have, always will.

my hair is my only saving grace. Px "

I love your body x

Always a fan of your profile

Hotlist forever

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK

I am happy and thankful for what I have (have seen worse) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently lost 2 stone due to no boozing and very few takeaways over lockdown so I'm feeling pretty darn good about myself!

Probably put it all back on now the pubs are open!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Pretty happy with what I am ! Not keen on my wobbly bits! (Just made a vid without hiding them For a change !) But they are part of me! X

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

i'm ok female of the couple with myself learnt to live with what i have and ignore what i don't but i'm only 4ft 9" quite possibly the shortest person on fab lol so as the song goes 'i wish i was a little bit taller' in my case a lot taller.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

The only thing I don't like is that it's knackered and I can't do everything I want to!

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