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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.

I'm half way there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go full steam ahead. Plenty of lube or wetness otherwise it will rub. Incorporating licking and sucking always helps but squeezing the balls while you do it or rubbing the perenium can feel great.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Don't go full steam ahead. Plenty of lube or wetness otherwise it will rub. Incorporating licking and sucking always helps but squeezing the balls while you do it or rubbing the perenium can feel great. "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Splay your fingers out before penetration

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over a year ago

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Cake in one hand, cock in the other

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.

I'm half way there then

Then get ya blue knickers on and we're ready to go. Xxx

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By *ames the gentMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Coconut oil and tango hands: slow, slow fast!

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

If its as fourplay slow and teasing

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By *oody HuddsonMan
over a year ago

sexy town

A nice firm grip but not too tight.

Don’t pull the foreskin too tight, it will hurt especially if uncut.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Everyone is different what works for one doesn't necessary work for others. No one hand fits all lol - gratuitous pun.

Familiarity works for us we know what each other likes and have a synergy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saying the right words in the right way works for me

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.

I'm half way there then

Then get ya blue knickers on and we're ready to go. Xxx"

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.

I'm half way there then

Then get ya blue knickers on and we're ready to go. Xxx

xxx"

and your within 10 miles for me so if you wanted to practice when your meeting

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

A firm but not strong grip, lots of lube, eye contact, not too fast or too slow, a play with the balls and maybe a cheeky finger too

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Dressing up as a firefighter- grabbing my cock and screaming charge the line as I come- might work…. Never tried it…honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get someone else to wank my hubby so I can have a glass of wine & nibbles in peace, that seems to work a treat for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone seems to have something to add so I'll give my two pence!

Obviously everybody has their own tastes, but if I've ever had any issue it's too much or too little lube

Too little and hands feel like sandpaper going over the head, too much and I barely feel anything at all!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

** here for observation and information purposes**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"** here for observation and information purposes** "

and you will learn

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Fast and furious

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Just here to learn. It's one thing I've never been good at. Although no one has complained so far

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By *ai24Man
over a year ago

Hull

Beat that sucker like it owes you money ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an individual thing I have no doubt, personally if you've ever been a bell ringer you need not apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont pull the skin so far down that its more like your trying to skin a rabbit

Dont smack the balls so hard on the down stroke

Just stuff that has happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use two hands. Plenty of lube or oil. Give the balls some attention. Tits out for something to look at. Don't speed up when we're about to cum. Make it last. Even if someone begs for you to go faster, look them in the eye with a sexy smile and keep it at the same speed. And don't stop until the balls are drained

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Firm but not tight grip down the shaft, light teasing with thumb over the head. To finish slightly firmer up to the glans and vigorous. But not hard squeeze. There's a difference between firm grip and hard grip.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Having your foreskin yanked down hard is a no for me.

Firm pressure at the base, stroking my balls and kissing me deeply, that’s the way to get the money shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left handed please with the other hand holding my balls. Slow and steady while looking in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id happily show on cam how i like it

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Grip it firm at the base but when you get near the head loosen the grip a bit. Also don’t yank hard on the foreskin and lubrication is your friend. I’m happy for any ladies to practice on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.....let’s see if I can recall.....eye contact, the look of pleasure on her face when she’s looking at what’s she’s doing, the naughty look when she knows she ‘owns’ me in that moment.....

Physically, I think it follows from the above. There’s no standard formula for me.

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

Just don’t try to finish quickly

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
personally don't like my balls played with. But think lube is a must for most. Eye contact does it for me, you can learn alot for a guys look, we're terrible at hiding are tue feeling, if he's liking it his eyes will tell you. Oh and kissing, love a snog and a grope

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Dressing up as a firefighter- grabbing my cock and screaming charge the line as I come- might work…. Never tried it…honest!!

I have said outfit....just saying

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

1st, if you got cold hands (some womens are like icebergs),stick 'em in some hot water, clap your hands (minus any shit), ruub those palms vigourously till they look pinky red & feel hot. Now you can touch percy!!!!

2nd, yeah, I know you ladies don't like us guys kerb hangers! Fair enough.... But if we've gone to the trouble of shaving them would it be a little too much to ask for them to be sucked (lefty lucy & righty tighty - you can't do one twin without the other)?Rifgt? No? Tough crowd!

3rd, if we've got foreskin - be gentle please with it! You're not cracking your pepperami (that you've been drooling about mid morning), out now from the fridge with gusto - that will allow hammer!

4th, when you are sucking on Percy Sledge would you also mind holding our squirrel nutkins nut-sacks from time to time gently? If you have long fingernails you have more power than you realise......

I'm stopping here cos it will end up like a treatise on the subject. Other peeps have said it better above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firm grip but not squeezing. With lube start slowly, pulling the foreskin down (no yanking) then up so the foreskin goes over the head. Sometimes just rubbing the frenulum slowly and varying speed but not fast and furious. Slowly increase speed and on the up (when the foreskin feels tighter) cover head with your hand.

Have to be lying down, you to my side, kissing (maybe licking my nipples and neck also) and letting me run my hands over your naked body.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Practice has a lot to do with it. Where do you want me?

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Coconut oil and it doesn't take long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mittens, raspberry jelly and a buttermilk Yankee candle burning in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman could be the worst at it and I wouldn’t care a jot, cause there’s a woman playing with my cock hee hee and for that I will always be grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all very individual isn’t it

For me, I like a wet smooth slippy milking action. Gripped too tight and for me it’s horrendous , lighter/slipping and sliding wins. My balls always respond to ring loosened/tugged.

I hate my head being touched with anything dry. Fingers/teeth, nails. yuk!

I found an amazing video of a woman giving oral and a handjob that is just about the nest I’ve ever seen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mittens, raspberry jelly and a buttermilk Yankee candle burning in the background."

Not fussy then?

I’d rather pass if it’s bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since this was posted in lounge chat and not swingers chat are we thinking the same thing

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Take it in stages. Gentle teasing to start with until it starts to really get hard. Then (and only then) pull back the foreskin, increase the pressure. I like to feel the skin moving a little, too little pressure it just dances over the top. Only start to play with the head further into things, make me wait for it. Eye contact is really important. Feel free to play elsewhere too, those nipples love a lick. And if a finger wonders somewhere it shouldn't you'll soon tell if it's nice or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dance partner says it’s slow, slow, quick, quick, slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Don’t tell him your hand is too big for his cock and may as well use only two fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a slow with a a good grip handjob most times but a slippery lubed up wank can be very nice too

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm taking notes.....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try a pen grip rather than a tennis racquet grip....and towards the guys body rather than away from it... you're not milking cows

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"I'm taking notes.....

After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"My dance partner says it’s slow, slow, quick, quick, slow

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. Ooo slows good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm taking notes.....

I offer free of charge consultancy if interested

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I'm taking notes.....

After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice

The trick is to take your time....eye contact....watch the breathing.... that's just my personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit like your bits tbh. Lubricant, not too hard, sometimes concentrating on the head and Frenulum, then the full penis shaft. One technic is too massage the head of penis with 3 fingers up and down. Some variant is to massage the perinum and for adventurous the prostate of course at the same time to garantie to finish it off quickly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube .. and be gentle ... it’s not a gear stick ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube or hot oil, a lot of caressing slow and smooth. I do enjoy a firm hand around the bottom of the base though

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Warm oil, steady rhythm and read the room so to speak, take note of breathing, twitches etc, and ask, after all we are al different and like different things!

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I'm taking notes.....

After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice

The trick is to take your time....eye contact....watch the breathing.... that's just my personal experience."

Very nice vid and I could hear him...love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So from my very scientific study (not) I’ve come up with some suggestions, take or leave as you see fit..

- Eye contact

- Lube / spit - I’ve never complained that there’s too much

- Put in a show - he’ll be watching

- Start slow and gentle with one hand with slow long confident strokes

- Then use two hands, but not up and down, twist yoyr hands as you stroke up and down

- Increase the speed as he hardens and groans

- In the case of some men talk filth to them

Don’t

- Be afraid of getting your hands covered, it’s going to be messy, just accept it.

- Lift your pinky, you’re not drinking wine

- Maybe use other stimulation too, some men like prostate massage, others nipple licking

Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time. It’s like the pro hand job and I know I’m in the hands of an expert when she start that witchcraft

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I'm taking notes.....

Me too

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"My dance partner says it’s slow, slow, quick, quick, slow

Is it dance of sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smash it like your trying to get the last bit of ketchup out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So from my very scientific study (not) I’ve come up with some suggestions, take or leave as you see fit..

- Eye contact

- Lube / spit - I’ve never complained that there’s too much

- Put in a show - he’ll be watching

- Start slow and gentle with one hand with slow long confident strokes

- Then use two hands, but not up and down, twist yoyr hands as you stroke up and down

- Increase the speed as he hardens and groans

- In the case of some men talk filth to them

Don’t

- Be afraid of getting your hands covered, it’s going to be messy, just accept it.

- Lift your pinky, you’re not drinking wine

- Maybe use other stimulation too, some men like prostate massage, others nipple licking

Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time. It’s like the pro hand job and I know I’m in the hands of an expert when she start that witchcraft

Printed and stuck on a night table

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Since this was posted in lounge chat and not swingers chat are we thinking the same thing

Err don't know? What you thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect... I’m free if it helps a lady out .. ahem

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away from the sausage this is you’re five second warning this message will self destruct in five seconds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- Eye contact

- Put in a show - he’ll be watching

Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time."

I don't watch. I like to close my eyes. And I don't like the twist. Just straight up and down.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

Plenty of baby oil please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something I'm not overly confident with.. sucking is fine im pretty damn confident with that so tend to get to sucking ASAP

Few things to try though, thanks gents

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Its something I'm not overly confident with.. sucking is fine im pretty damn confident with that so tend to get to sucking ASAP

Few things to try though, thanks gents

Whilst I know it's entirely personal, I like to see what the guys have to say and also the ladies too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So from my very scientific study (not) I’ve come up with some suggestions, take or leave as you see fit..

- Eye contact

- Lube / spit - I’ve never complained that there’s too much

- Put in a show - he’ll be watching

- Start slow and gentle with one hand with slow long confident strokes

- Then use two hands, but not up and down, twist yoyr hands as you stroke up and down

- Increase the speed as he hardens and groans

- In the case of some men talk filth to them

Don’t

- Be afraid of getting your hands covered, it’s going to be messy, just accept it.

- Lift your pinky, you’re not drinking wine

- Maybe use other stimulation too, some men like prostate massage, others nipple licking

Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time. It’s like the pro hand job and I know I’m in the hands of an expert when she start that witchcraft

Printed and stuck on a night table

Ha! There may be others and it’s not all men (that’s not helpful is it?) but the lube thing is pretty much most guys I suspect

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Step away from the sausage this is you’re five second warning this message will self destruct in five seconds x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"1st, if you got cold hands (some womens are like icebergs),stick 'em in some hot water, clap your hands (minus any shit), ruub those palms vigourously till they look pinky red & feel hot. Now you can touch percy!!!!

3rd, if we've got foreskin - be gentle please with it! You're not cracking your pepperami (that you've been drooling about mid morning), out now from the fridge with gusto - that will allow hammer!

4th, when you are sucking on Percy Sledge would you also mind holding our squirrel nutkins nut-sacks from time to time gently? If you have long fingernails you have more power than you realise......

I'm stopping here cos it will end up like a treatise on the subject. Other peeps have said it better above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Q1 - When someone else is doing it rather than me.

Q2 - Eye gazing is goods. Balls and/or butt playing can be a real accelerator. Please watch the nails unless it is playful stroking.

Q3 - Slow, full length strokes (the base of the head is pretty sensitive and pleasurable so gliding over that and not stopping short is good).

Q4 - Having to actually talk on the Zoom call I am taking part in.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Just don’t try to finish quickly "

I'd done this more than once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Personally...

Standing face to face and kissing whilst receiving A nice firmly griped slow wank, makes me cum so hard.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Use two hands. Plenty of lube or oil. Give the balls some attention. Tits out for something to look at. Don't speed up when we're about to cum. Make it last. Even if someone begs for you to go faster, look them in the eye with a sexy smile and keep it at the same speed. And don't stop until the balls are drained"

Nice! I like the thought of him begging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its something I'm not overly confident with.. sucking is fine im pretty damn confident with that so tend to get to sucking ASAP

Few things to try though, thanks gents

Just ask... Happy to give pointers between moans

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"It's an individual thing I have no doubt, personally if you've ever been a bell ringer you need not apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure if this counts but a woman once tongue massaged me on the ‘gooch’ I think that’s the biological term right?

as she was twisting and OH. MY. GOD! It was like they struck dove shower gel in Texas! Again not for all but one that might set the fires in him

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Get someone else to wank my hubby so I can have a glass of wine & nibbles in peace, that seems to work a treat for us

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Chatting while you start, about absolutely anything- almost absent mindedly playing with the cock.

Then build up intensity and get into it more- lots,of eye contact so I know you mean business...

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By *eadseekerMan
over a year ago

worcester

Vary the speed.

Twisting motion.

Concentrate on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't treat it like a gearstick, im not a f@@## Renault Clio

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

It’s really up to the individual. Usually it works best with some sort of lube or moisture. I like it to be stroked or glided on it rather than a hard tug motion. It’s good to have the balls played with as well.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

Q1 - When someone else is doing it rather than me.

Q2 - Eye gazing is goods. Balls and/or butt playing can be a real accelerator. Please watch the nails unless it is playful stroking.

Q3 - Slow, full length strokes (the base of the head is pretty sensitive and pleasurable so gliding over that and not stopping short is good).

Q4 - Having to actually talk on the Zoom call I am taking part in.

Be careful! Don't forget what subject your talking about and be offering cock advice

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

On the zoom call that is

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By *pril88Woman
over a year ago

london

Funny

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’m not sure if this counts but a woman once tongue massaged me on the ‘gooch’ I think that’s the biological term right?

as she was twisting and OH. MY. GOD! It was like they struck dove shower gel in Texas! Again not for all but one that might set the fires in him"

Love the way you put that

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Attention to the balls and perenium, along with my cock, does it for me!!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I'm taking notes.....

After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice

The trick is to take your time....eye contact....watch the breathing.... that's just my personal experience.

Very nice vid and I could hear him...love that "

It was fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Slow and steady long strokes listening for the (my) moan then move together mmmmm

Oh and I absolutely don’t like sand as lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, starting off slow and focussing on the base of the shaft with some lube until I get hard, and then incorporating the head before going up and down.

There's something about me being on my stomach or knees as she reaches under that really gets me going as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I have one more. This applies to blow jobs as well though.

One man come you probably have noticed that they want to do it whilst balls deep inside. Someone probably won’t even realise it, but we are searching for pressure at the base of my cocks because that’s where it feels best.

I think it’s mother nature’s way of increasing the chances of pregnancy. She’s a clever girl! What that means is, when he’s cumming - whether it’s a blow job or hand job, grab the base of his cock and it will probably feel good for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm taking notes.....

Me too

Me three. Loads of valuable information in here. Good call OP and thanks for all the good advice from the gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and I have one more. This applies to blow jobs as well though.

I must proofread before I post

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Oh and I have one more. This applies to blow jobs as well though.

Duly noted..thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lube .. and be gentle ... it’s not a gear stick ...

Same applies to the clit, some go at it like they’re a DJ at decks.

My clit don’t need no remix

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I'm taking notes.....

Me too

Me three. Loads of valuable information in here. Good call OP and thanks for all the good advice from the gents

Ah thank you and I'll second that...thanks guys for sharing x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Lube .. and be gentle ... it’s not a gear stick ...

Same applies to the clit, some go at it like they’re a DJ at decks.

My clit don’t need no remix

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Lots of lube then very firm, both hands , pull the skin right the way back (it won’t snap!) and hold it right back with one hand play with it like a cut cock rather than using the foreskin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very soft n sliw edging with plenty gel. Fast n furious is the worst

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

One of the big tricks is knowing when to stop. If you were to continue vigorously after I cum then it will be very uncomfortable for me. I think it works best slowing down after my orgasm like applying the brakes gently and then keep going for a minute or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lube .. and be gentle ... it’s not a gear stick ...

Same applies to the clit, some go at it like they’re a DJ at decks.

My clit don’t need no remix

so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting a hand job when I'm at work, unfortunately the passengers on my bus aren't so keen.

John x

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

I think it better to take a practical approach to this situation.

But everyone is different. I'd advise starting slow and experimenting with grip (doesn't need to be too tight), how far down to pull, and how their body is responding to what you're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Just don’t squeeze the life out of it lol

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Us ladies just need to get in some practice now!

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Such a useful thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without thought for my personal safety, or for that matter, the aid of a safety net, I’m prepared to sacrifice my body in the name of all things science and hand jobs, so that we may all collectively learn.

I know, selfless right?

Seems that lube / wetness has been a consistent theme in this thread x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Mittens, raspberry jelly and a buttermilk Yankee candle burning in the background."

Sounds Devine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us ladies just need to get in some practice now!

Your technique seems pretty good

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Us ladies just need to get in some practice now!

Always available for practising and evaluation. Strictly style score cards available on request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 where he doesn't have to help himself cum, I'm still looking of course

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Us ladies just need to get in some practice now!

Always available for practising and evaluation. Strictly style score cards available on request

Why do I have visions in my head of Len Goodman.....7!!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Us ladies just need to get in some practice now!

Your technique seems pretty good

There's always room for improvement!

Oh and btw.....re; your status....Do it!! Release the beast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

The build up/ tease and eye contact are big ticks in my book - its all about the mental the physical game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

What makes a good hand job?

A mouth

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?

What makes a good hand job?

A mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t neglect the head

But also don’t neglect the rest of it.

The amount of pressure you use is important, find the sweet spot. I can’t speak for all men but enough is enough, not too much, but don’t be afraid to apply some.

Frequency is equally as important. When he moans he likes it, stick with it until it NEEDS to increase. Don’t rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a desire to make us finish quickly, if you enjoy men taking their time we enjoy the same.

instead of trying just one back and forth double barrel shotgun action, try mixing it with light and gentle strokes along with speeding up and then slowing down again few times.

a cup of the balls, a change in position from lying down to standing up with you on your knees, to a reach around from behind to show you're in charge.

Oil and plenty of it helps! Not sure why but my penis seems to drink massage oil more so than the rest of my skin!

And as with all things sexual, communicate, ask if he's enjoying it and let your partner know that if you can do something different you're all ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A random guy at urinal next to you reaching across and taking hold of your cock before stroking you till you unload. That's a good handjob, trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes a good hand job?

Any tips you'd like to share?

How do you like yours?

Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"

Don’t yank it like you’re trying to force open the door

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

NO yanking, nice and slow preferred lube

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