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"What happens if you cross the limit? And overstay... " I'm not sure - prison maybe | |||
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"4hours! That's pretty good going. I'd want out after 20 mins" I was being polite | |||
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"Not particularly but I’ll talk to anyone, hints of bs and any kinda judgment attitudes then I’m out " But they're all judgey | |||
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"Not particularly but I’ll talk to anyone, hints of bs and any kinda judgment attitudes then I’m out But they're all judgey " Not all lovely, if they are then leave them to it | |||
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"You would hate me " Can we lock you both in a room for 5hours | |||
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"Not particularly but I’ll talk to anyone, hints of bs and any kinda judgment attitudes then I’m out But they're all judgey " We're all judgey, just some people are more vocal about it and they're usually the ones less inclined to question their judgements. To answer you question, no not really. I can get along with most people but there are very few I like. Mostly (and I include myself in this) people are selfish and inconsiderate even though some (many?) make an effort not to be with those they care about. Mr | |||
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"You would hate me Can we lock you both in a room for 5hours " it wouldn’t be a problem to me I’d waffle for hours | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " are people fundamentaly good or bad? | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " Could i book in a 3hour 59 minute meet then please. | |||
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"No, people are germy " I'll share | |||
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"Neither of the above... wicked thoughts though, them I'll share " Reply +quote is your friend | |||
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"Neither of the above... wicked thoughts though, them I'll share Reply +quote is your friend " Who said I was offering to you | |||
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"Neither of the above... wicked thoughts though, them I'll share Reply +quote is your friend Who said I was offering to you " I thought your nickname was Bear? Put ya claws away! | |||
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"Neither of the above... wicked thoughts though, them I'll share Reply +quote is your friend Who said I was offering to you I thought your nickname was Bear? Put ya claws away! " +10 | |||
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"Neither of the above... wicked thoughts though, them I'll share Reply +quote is your friend Who said I was offering to you I thought your nickname was Bear? Put ya claws away! +10 " Cruel! | |||
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"That’s me too, I can be the life and soul for a couple of hours and then ‘bam’, that’s me done and I have to leave " Yep I just had a social - and that enough of being social for at least 3 days | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " People who always want to be around people are clearly a bit needy,so not always a positive thing,but everyone to they own. I wouldnt even last 2 hrs,I'm a confident man,I can walk in a room full of people who I dont know and start conversations, but also,on the other hand I like alone time. | |||
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"In general, no. I’m a bit of a contradiction in that I like meeting people and I love getting to know new people but I need my space as well and too much peopling leaves me exhausted. Being forced into social situations and having nothing meaningful to talk about is my idea of hell, which rules out 99% of social situations for me. Also I’ve found that the majority of people are ignorant, self centred, hypocritical and inconsistent which I can’t stand. So I find myself in an awkward position where I want to meet new people but find that I dislike many that I do meet! " Oh brilliant, couldn't have put it better myself mate. | |||
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"That’s me too, I can be the life and soul for a couple of hours and then ‘bam’, that’s me done and I have to leave Yep I just had a social - and that enough of being social for at least 3 days " Haha! Yep, then it’s back to hermit territory to recover | |||
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"Some people, i find people fascinating to watch. " Watching is different though isn’t it, I can do that for ages too. | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " People are pretty over rated The fact that you're sitting next to me on a plane for a 12 hour flights isn't reason enough for me to engage with you - its just a quirk of fate. The fact that you live next door to me isn't reason enough for me to have to talk to you. Again its just fate. | |||
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"I can tolerate most folk for an hour or two and then I want to be alone. I’m not the gregarious, outgoing, happy go lucky type. Surprisingly " Only online then? | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " I can relate to this except with my two besties ...we can talk for 24 hours and still have things to discuss. But I value my "time alone" just as much. The time I enjoy spending with people depends on those people - how interesting they are and how tolerant and non-judgmental. I cannot spend a lot of time with people of extreme or polarised opinions. | |||
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"Some people, i find people fascinating to watch. " People watching is one of my favourite things | |||
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"I can tolerate most folk for an hour or two and then I want to be alone. I’m not the gregarious, outgoing, happy go lucky type. Surprisingly Only online then? " yep! | |||
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"I am very social and get along with most people, but I don't go into their lives I just skirt around the edges and just have random conversations, I tend to avoid all the Drama Llamas though " This describes me too. My job relies on my being sociable and building relationships, and I'm very good at that superficial surface stuff. I can work a room and depending on my mood I can find a room full of strangers very energizing. I do have a lot of silent time alone though, so it does all balance. Its rarely more than surface. There are very few people I truly care for. | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " For one of us that's true, for the other, not so much! X | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " This! | |||
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"I like some people a lot. And some the opposite. There is not much in between Some people should come in very small dosage. " I feeeeel you. Her x | |||
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"Not particularly but I’ll talk to anyone, hints of bs and any kinda judgment attitudes then I’m out But they're all judgey We're all judgey, just some people are more vocal about it and they're usually the ones less inclined to question their judgements. To answer you question, no not really. I can get along with most people but there are very few I like. Mostly (and I include myself in this) people are selfish and inconsiderate even though some (many?) make an effort not to be with those they care about. Mr" Fair point I try not to judge anyone but it’s not an exact science | |||
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"I'm in awe of folk that can get along with everyone and genuinely want to be around others all the time. I find nearly everyone REALLY draining. I have a 2 - 4 hour limit - then I need to go home " I think you're amazing for lasting that long My attention span is bookable in 30 minute slots | |||
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