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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" Bring back capital punishment. | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" What are your thoughts? | |||
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"Most people hate it, some don't mind it. Get the thread to 175 answers, and that will be the outcome. "The last post is the definitive answer | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" Entirely their choice | |||
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"Why do the thoughts of strangers matter op? Just do you. If you’re married then be honest to anyone you plan to meet then they can make an informed decision whether to meet you. Other than that it’s nobody’s else’s business "Sound advice as usual | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" A very risky theme mate you will be hung by so many on here | |||
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"I personally don't judge people for the choices they make in life; it's their life and they have to live with their decisions. Me, I'm married and on here with consent and I admit to meeting married men in the past. However, if I were to start meeting again, I don't think I would/could go down that road again. I once met a married man many times who then went on to meet with many other women. The fallout when he didn't leave his wife for one of them who had caught the feels was truly awful, even though when they had met him they knew he was married and wanting nsa. I just wouldn't want to get involved in that again. I've definitely changed my opinion over the years and realise the hurt it can cause "And I expect he wasn't bothered anyway? | |||
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You do you OP and stop asking for other people's approval | |||
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"It there choice , I don’t judge them , but I won’t meet any married man with our wife’s permission " How many of you are married ?  | |||
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"It there choice , I don’t judge them , but I won’t meet any married man with our wife’s permission How many of you are married ? "not me thank god | |||
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"It there choice , I don’t judge them , but I won’t meet any married man with our wife’s permission How many of you are married ? "We are! | |||
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"I don’t wanna meet me. If they don’t have the bollocks to have an adult conversation with their wife then they aren’t really for me " Them* | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine " why not | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not " Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here?" | |||
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"I’m married and I’ve met a number of women both married and unmarried. Even some that say they don’t meet married men despite knowing I was. It’s up to individuals." Of course it is up to individuals. It is still dishonest and disrespectful though. We always wonder what the unknowing partner has done to deserve being treated so badly? | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here?" She doesn’t want me to see other women | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here?" seems a bit strange to me | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women " I’ve only ever men btw | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women I’ve only ever men btw" So you would rather be dishonest?? She is a swinger, would she really be so judgemental?? | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women I’ve only ever men btw" so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women I’ve only ever men btw" So then why does she not know about your profile if you are still following her rules? | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women I’ve only ever men btw so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical " She’s one of them jealous types | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women I’ve only ever men btw so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical She’s one of them jealous types " Probably from a history of guys cheating on her lol | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? Bring back capital punishment. " Mmmmmmm yes please Sir | |||
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not Our thoughts exactly. Why not, seeing that she is on here? She doesn’t want me to see other women I’ve only ever men btw so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical She’s one of them jealous types " Have you ever asked her why? | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say. | |||
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"It there choice , I don’t judge them , but I won’t meet any married man with our wife’s permission How many of you are married ?
We are!"You said our wife | |||
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"Why do the thoughts of strangers matter op? Just do you. If you’re married then be honest to anyone you plan to meet then they can make an informed decision whether to meet you. Other than that it’s nobody’s else’s business " | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say. " I wonder if that's ever happened on here | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say. I wonder if that's ever happened on here" not with mine lol. He's no idea how to set fab up plus we was on here as a couple  | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say. I wonder if that's ever happened on herenot with mine lol. He's no idea how to set fab up plus we was on here as a couple "That’s what you think | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" whatabout married women? | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say. I wonder if that's ever happened on herenot with mine lol. He's no idea how to set fab up plus we was on here as a couple
That’s what you think "I don't think I know lol. | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? whatabout married women?" I bet it’s different... | |||
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"It there choice , I don’t judge them , but I won’t meet any married man with our wife’s permission How many of you are married ?
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You said our wife "error lol | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" Argument is as old as swinging and will go on forever. People "cheat" to use the favourite word for many different reasons, swinging scene and outside - fact Married females are far more tolerated than married males. - People I'm sure will disagree but that has been our experiences over many many years on the scene. As I a previous poster in the end it is down to the individuals, nobody else's business!!! just be honest with them - you are all adults? decide between you and keep it between you and also be aware actions also have consequences. P.S. Looking for some kind of peer ratification in forums is unlikely  | |||
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"Is it worse than cheating married women ? " No it’s not the only difference is women don’t make posts asking for people’s opinions .. | |||
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"Is it worse than cheating married women ? No it’s not the only difference is women don’t make posts asking for people’s opinions .."True dat | |||
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"As long as they leave me alone they can crack on thats both ways women who do it too "In a nutshell ...^^^ | |||
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"Most people hate it, some don't mind it. Get the thread to 175 answers, and that will be the outcome. "I havnt scrolled any further - this is probably the smartest answer in the thread | |||
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"I'm honest and upfront about it. Not for everyone but I can understand why" Are you saying that you are honest and upfront with your wife, or not? | |||
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"I'm honest and upfront about it. Not for everyone but I can understand why" Behave!!! | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" Think of it this way....imagine your wife on this site? Meeting some huge cocked guy and doing some really dirty stuff with him....then the other guy next.... | |||
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"Ask me if I give a damn. " He did ask? | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" Hold on and I'll go ask my wife what she thinks | |||
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach "Yes, we find it hilarious! When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'. | |||
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach
Yes, we find it hilarious!
When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'."I think that person was talking about being honest and upfront about it on fab. | |||
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach
Yes, we find it hilarious!
When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'.
I think that person was talking about being honest and upfront about it on fab. "yeah I get that I just meant the honest bit. Not honest to the wife. Not saying I'm against it I just find it funny. Not my business what they do though . | |||
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach
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When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'.
I think that person was talking about being honest and upfront about it on fab. "Basically honest to get sex, but not to my life partner. We just wonder why not just say nothing, and stay off the radar? | |||
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"Most people hate it, some don't mind it. Get the thread to 175 answers, and that will be the outcome. "Waiting to make a random comment about omelette to close the thread | |||
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"Don't know about an omelet but what about ham egg and chips and glass of wine "Oh dam still another 73 to go - ambition is to end a thread before I leave | |||
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"What about married women, there's plenty of them on here!! "There is for sure. They probably don’t really care about peoples thoughts though. | |||
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?" They should be bloody well hung. | |||
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"What about married women, there's plenty of them on here!! "There is and both as bad as each other! Except women don’t use being married as an excuse not to getting any interest  | |||
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being on here it’s up to the individual what they think My wife lost her breast to cancer 9 years ago and never took HRT hates being touched by anyone after all this time Does that make me a horrible person " If you’re lying to her then yes in my opinion | |||
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest. I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult. Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her. So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject." Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day? She must feel like a human cum sock. | |||
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest. I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult. Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her. So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject. Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day? She must feel like a human cum sock. " And trust me you think you’re getting punished because she is going through the menopause...  unbelievable | |||
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"I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not " likewise I was with a fem FB on here - both married and both honest from day one - we ended up teaming up as a couple for just over two year , some of my best times on here where with her
In both cases, our home sex life was our reason for being here - whilst it was/is never awful, we both needed an extra spark that swinging together brought
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"I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not
likewise I was with a fem FB on here - both married and both honest from day one - we ended up teaming up as a couple for just over two year , some of my best times on here where with her
In both cases, our home sex life was our reason for being here - whilst it was/is never awful, we both needed an extra spark that swinging together brought
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"DD You be surprised how often that happens not just to married men but married women as well J "Without a doubt.. where I don’t agree with trolling and everyone has there own opinion.. but you reap what you saw | |||
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest. I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult. Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her. So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject. Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day? She must feel like a human cum sock. And trust me you think you’re getting punished because she is going through the menopause... unbelievable "Sorry you find it hard to believe. I don’t think I am being punished but she is going through menopause and I can love and support her though it and also be having a midlife crisis myself. Am I not allowed to struggle too. Is it a crime to be human and honest even when is not complimentary to myself. Can I not be the loving husband and have my own needs or should I ignore my subconscious desires in an attempt to be what other want me to be. “A human cum sock” made me laugh... I hope she doesn’t Feel like that. I try my hardest to not let her be with me unless it’s clear her body also wants sex. Feeling deeply Intimate Helps me stay honest and feeling rejected is more about intimacy than sex. Sex and intimacy is different. Intimacy can be hard with kids and a busy life and endless compromises. We have had endless conversations about this. | |||
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest. I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult. Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her. So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject. Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day? She must feel like a human cum sock. And trust me you think you’re getting punished because she is going through the menopause... unbelievable
Sorry you find it hard to believe. I don’t think I am being punished but she is going through menopause and I can love and support her though it and also be having a midlife crisis myself. Am I not allowed to struggle too. Is it a crime to be human and honest even when is not complimentary to myself. Can I not be the loving husband and have my own needs or should I ignore my subconscious desires in an attempt to be what other want me to be.
“A human cum sock” made me laugh... I hope she doesn’t Feel like that. I try my hardest to not let her be with me unless it’s clear her body also wants sex.
Feeling deeply Intimate Helps me stay honest and feeling rejected is more about intimacy than sex. Sex and intimacy is different. Intimacy can be hard with kids and a busy life and endless compromises. We have had endless conversations about this.
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"I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not
likewise I was with a fem FB on here - both married and both honest from day one - we ended up teaming up as a couple for just over two year , some of my best times on here where with her
In both cases, our home sex life was our reason for being here - whilst it was/is never awful, we both needed an extra spark that swinging together brought
Fill your boots "trollers"
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"Married here, she can’t or doesn’t want to give me what I want or need I make friends here and have fun Not romantic relationships Maybe it’s selfish but I want to enjoy and experience " Yes it is selfish. Wouldn’t it be funny if she is getting her fun elsewhere. | |||
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"My opinion is super clear on my profile. For married men and women. Make it known straight away when you start speaking to someone or put it on your profile and then only the people that don’t care will be interested. Easier for everyone. Most of the single male profiles on here are married, it’s nothing new lol. I just block and delete anyone who’s married and cheating then we can’t waste each other’s time x" very clearly stated on our profile how we feel. Not into destroying some unsuspecting partners life when they find out... | |||
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"Married men who complain their partners don’t want to have sex with them need too look closer to home!! Maybe your shit at sex and thats why she don’t bother!! Just a thought!!" If she won't have sex with him surely it's a red flag that he will be crap. | |||
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"These sort of threads make my head hurt. If you throw yourself to the wolves your gonna get bitten unfortunately. Just live your life how you want to live it. Do I agree with cheating? No Would I ever cheat? No but I'm not gonna bash someone with a moral stick. You never truely know what's going on in a person's life or relationship so no one has the right to be judge and jury " This ^^^
Seen sooo many of these threads and the all go the same way. I keep my opinions on the subject to myself cos it is simply none of my business or anyone else's. Have we experienced those you condemn married guys but would welcome married woman, I don't like hypocrisy.
If your guy posting in the forums about the subject and you are a looking for some sort of furomite approval which will not happen, all that will happen is you'll get lynch mob hanging or burned at the stake. Sorry guys
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"These sort of threads make my head hurt. If you throw yourself to the wolves your gonna get bitten unfortunately. Just live your life how you want to live it. Do I agree with cheating? No Would I ever cheat? No but I'm not gonna bash someone with a moral stick. You never truely know what's going on in a person's life or relationship so no one has the right to be judge and jury
This ^^^
Seen sooo many of these threads and the all go the same way. I keep my opinions on the subject to myself cos it is simply none of my business or anyone else's. Have we experienced those you condemn married guys but would welcome married woman, I don't like hypocrisy.
If your guy posting in the forums about the subject and you are a looking for some sort of furomite approval which will not happen, all that will happen is you'll get lynch mob hanging or burned at the stake. Sorry guys
"Why you sorry.. we all have opinions on it.. and he did ask in an open forum. I my comments also stand for women but you don’t see women starting threads about it. | |||
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"Married here, she can’t or doesn’t want to give me what I want or need I make friends here and have fun Not romantic relationships Maybe it’s selfish but I want to enjoy and experience " What a pathetic selfish entitled attitude. How do you think us single guys manage when we go months or years without sex because we dont have a partner. Cheating is awful and someone always gets hurt. | |||
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