FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine Lunch date

By *illagaz OP Man
over a year ago

yeovil

Are there any women who would appreciate meeting for lunch then having lovely massage.

Do women think its sleazy

No way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds a bit gimmicky and more like a ploy to oil someone up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Sleazy or not is dictated by yoir relationship with them.

So I’d imagine publicly asking any woman on a swinging forum if they would be interested without first establishing some rapport goes down as both sleazy and a little desperate

Just my 2c

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illagaz OP Man
over a year ago

yeovil

"It sounds a bit gimmicky and more like a ploy to oil someone up "
thats why i said genuine.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's sleazy. We're on a swinging site, we've had waaay more sleazy offers than that. I think if both people would enjoy it, why not?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illagaz OP Man
over a year ago

yeovil

"Sleazy or not is dictated by yoir relationship with them.

So I’d imagine publicly asking any woman on a swinging forum if they would be interested without first establishing some rapport goes down as both sleazy and a little desperate

Just my 2c"
ok thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can ask what you want on here...should be a place of no judgement...it’s up to the recipient to decide if sleazy...

If it’s dinner at the Ivy with no guarantees of afters...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Not sure I’d fancy a massage on a full stomach

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure some would. And if you get a response you can build some rapport before to see if it would lead to a definite meet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not a fan of massages...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I think I'd want a massage first, then lunch. Wouldn't want to lie down on a full stomach.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally I'd avoid calling it a lunch date if there is more than lunch involved.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

i don’t think it’s that sleazy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sounds a bit gimmicky and more like a ploy to oil someone up thats why i said genuine."

It's more than a genuine lunch date, it's probably best to market it differently

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Man:would you like to go to lunch

Woman: you sleazy bastard what kind of whore do you take me for?

Only on fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um its a difficult one because it sounds a bit like it has a transactional quality to it.. I will buy you lunch if you let me oil you up?

Personally I would rather just have a massage! But by someone with qualifications, a "Professional"!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illagaz OP Man
over a year ago

yeovil

"Not sure I’d fancy a massage on a full stomach "
yep good point but noce gentle oily back rub might relax you to rhe point of ....

Falling asleep

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illagaz OP Man
over a year ago

yeovil

"i don’t think it’s that sleazy. "
thank you nice of u to say.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I don’t think it’s sleazy but if that was the selling line then I wouldn’t be interested, I’d want some conversation and getting to know before this was discussed. And anything after food should never be expected from either party

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like a transaction. Food in payment for 'a massage' which is a code word for sex.

I have this scenario planned and it does feel sleazy. Haven't decided yet if that's hot or not.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure I’d fancy a massage on a full stomach "

Also this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just for women? I would love lunch then a back rub after...keep your clothes on though lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread