FabSwingers.com forum: The one that got away

By *mateur100 OP Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

We've all got one! Mine was Mandy. A school friend for years, loads of flirting in our late teens but never single at the same time and despite everyone knowing we fancied each other, it just never happened. Still some great memories though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex- from many moons ago.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't. Some of my exs were great, some not so much,but all those relationships ended for good reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't actually have one of these, which im grateful for!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

He's never got away, he has always been there as a lover but also a very, very good friend x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Not so much ‘the one that got away’ but there was an electricity between us that made it both great and destructive.

There are good reasons that we split and I’m glad that we did but when it was good, it was amazing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If they got away it was for a good reason. There's not a single person in my life I think "what if?" about.

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

Yes there is one

My fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not so much ‘the one that got away’ but there was an electricity between us that made it both great and destructive.

There are good reasons that we split and I’m glad that we did but when it was good, it was amazing "

I can totally relate to that. Highs and lows were too extreme to be healthy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If they got away it was for a good reason. There's not a single person in my life I think "what if?" about. "

Me neither. If it’s to be it will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have one either. My recent ex I still have strong feelings for, but I ended that for very good reasons and don't regret it.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Yes there is one

My fault

Exactly this, unfortunately

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My ex, enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if he got away.

But it always felt magical and great. I was 20 and he would rock my world lift me up and spin me around.. Then lots of bad choices after that one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they got away it was for a good reason. There's not a single person in my life I think "what if?" about. "

I have one and the reason it ended wasn't really for a good reason as it was before I recognised I had a mood disorder. I just shut her out for no reason and she attempted to get back in to no avail.

I sometimes think 'what if?' (mainly because I think she would've been interested in swinging) but I don't pine or have any interest in searching her out now.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

There’s one..a hedonistic, whirlwind of a man who would set my soul on fire but could burn me just as quick.

A fun at the time or many times as the case was, I’ll always feel something for him but on reflection I know I’m a better person without him x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

One school time one that never worked out because we were always trying to convince the other we didn’t fancy each other. 35 years passed and …. We stopped trying to convince each other…. We’re in touch a lot and occasionally a fwb thing.

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By *olinOfBathMan
over a year ago

Corsham

A lady is not supposed to suffer a fatal heart attack at 32...

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

I have let quite a few get away unfortunately, I need a word with myself

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I eventually had a thing with my one that got away after 16 years and it taught me one thing.....they got away for a very good reason

If they were that good then they wouldn't have got away, if they're gone then enjoy the memories as that's where they should stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got one! Mine was Mandy. A school friend for years, loads of flirting in our late teens but never single at the same time and despite everyone knowing we fancied each other, it just never happened. Still some great memories though"

You remember her all your life?

Raining down as cold as ice

Now your just shadows of a man

A face through a window

Crying in the night

The night goes into

Morning, just another day

Happy people pass your way

Looking in their eyes

You see a memory

You’re now realising

How happy she made you?

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By *mateur100 OP Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

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By *mateur100 OP Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

I had a colleague once who I really got on with, desks next to each other and chatting between calls. Really good banter and lightweight flirting. Unfortunately she was married, whilst I was single. However, her marriage was on the rocks. One day, she suddenly lunged across my desk and snatched a post-it note that I hadn’t seen. Puzzled I picked it up from where she had put it, and read “how about it, my place after work today?”

That was the first suggestion I had that she actually liked me more than just friends which really surprised me! I would have been up for it as well, being a horny 20 something year old but the moment had passed - looking back she was in a bad place in her marriage and I think she had a moment of weakness as it was never discussed again.

Years later, we made contact on Facebook. She was single! But... I was married

that’s kind of been our thing, when one of us had been single, the other one hasnt!

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By *mateur100 OP Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

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