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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?"

Why would someone need qualifications?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Resilience

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Resilience

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Yep, I agree. Not to be offended easily either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very long arms......

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?

Why would someone need qualifications?"

Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Very long arms...... "
The male or the female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?

Why would someone need qualifications?

Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part "

Then you are looking for attributes rather than qualifications.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?

Why would someone need qualifications?

Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part

Then you are looking for attributes rather than qualifications. "

As I pointed out it was meant to nbe light hearted - I used poetic licence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The patience of Job, determination, persistence, breadth of mind and thought, forgiveness, empathy and understanding, laissez-faire, a good traveller, charisma, class personality and wit, and somewhere down the bottom physical stamina and a damn good shag.

Fraid I don't suffer fools gladly tho'

Wolf

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"The patience of Job, determination, persistence, breadth of mind and thought, forgiveness, empathy and understanding, laissez-faire, a good traveller, charisma, class personality and wit, and somewhere down the bottom physical stamina and a damn good shag.

Fraid I don't suffer fools gladly tho'

Wolf

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Next question ... how do you measure those...;-)

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

a lot of patience...and a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Next question ... how do you measure those...;-) "

Not with a sky remote, that's for sure

In all fairness can you realistically measure them... or just look for that in others. Does that then NSA things 'lucky dip' and the in-depth analysis of people for desirables more like dating....?

Wolf

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Being a good communicator

Having a good sense of humour

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?

Why would someone need qualifications?

Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part

Then you are looking for attributes rather than qualifications.

As I pointed out it was meant to nbe light hearted - I used poetic licence "

Glad we've got that sorted out, I've been onto Sydney University, fecking phone call's cost me a fortune, but they said if I collect loads of photos they'll give me a degree.....I've asked for Sheila Ferguson

Semi-serious answer, thick skin, sense of humour (tho' some seem to be sadly lacking in both departments),what I can only define as "nous" to help sort the wheat from the chaff....

I've personally got 3 GCSEs (Gloriously Cute Slippery Entrances) that I love to use as well

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Next question ... how do you measure those...;-)

Not with a sky remote, that's for sure

In all fairness can you realistically measure them... or just look for that in others. Does that then NSA things 'lucky dip' and the in-depth analysis of people for desirables more like dating....?

Wolf

"

No, you cant - measure them. Again I am being playful, I agree with you that there is an element of (un)lucky dip in swinging and the indepth analysis is left better for the medium to long term relationships

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Sense of humor, compassion and the ability to laugh at ones self

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Sense of humor, compassion and the ability to laugh at ones self "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.

It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?

Wolf

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Sense of humor, compassion and the ability to laugh at ones self "

Stamina, persistence and a thick skin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big pile of doughnuts, apparently.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.

It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?

Wolf

"

The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got me 17th Edition Full Scope Part P Domestic Installer's Certificate. If that isn't enough then fuck 'em.

(that should just about cover it I think)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.

It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?

Wolf

The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here "

Ah... women are a sucker for real-estate :o) lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.

It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?

Wolf

The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here

Ah... women are a sucker for real-estate :o) lol

Wolf"

maybe that was freudian... rearrange words as appropriate

Wolf

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I'm a qualified kisser and chest massager

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"I've got me 17th Edition Full Scope Part P Domestic Installer's Certificate. If that isn't enough then fuck 'em.

(that should just about cover it I think) "

Bloody hell another kitchen fitter with a five day course under his belt .

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.

It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?

Wolf

The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here

Ah... women are a sucker for real-estate :o) lol

Wolf

maybe that was freudian... rearrange words as appropriate

Wolf

"

Most thing wrote on here are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the qualifications that you need are definitely a sense of humour, a good communicator, an acceptance of oneself, emotionally stable, assertive and confident

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

very good O levels

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