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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long till you make a friend request? Or do you wait for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait. I'm very patient and in no rush.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If I like his face then I ask for friends to perv the rest of him

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Exactly 248 minutes from commencement of interaction

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~

Once they’ve seen us naked in real life.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If we've sent a few messages to and fro on here, I'd ask if it was appropriate.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There's no set length of time other than when it feels right - some people it's been a matter of minutes, others who I regularly interact with I'm still not friends with as there's no need.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I don't send that many to start with, but normally after exchanging several messages to get the feel if it's going to be accepted

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Exactly 248 minutes from commencement of interaction"

I think it’s after they send you a picture of a brick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

72 working days, no more, no less.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

It depends how much I want to perv at their friends only pictures

Seriously, I tend to just swap numbers or Telegram names with anyone that I want to speak to more because I bloody hate messaging on here and having to actually venture into my inbox and sift through the drivel to find the one message that I want to read.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Exactly 248 minutes from commencement of interaction

I think it’s after they send you a picture of a brick "

What kind of weirdo would do that?!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think I've ever friend requested anyone, it's usually others who do me.i appreciate them asking if they can add me, rather than exchanging a couple of messages and then sending a friends request.

My list is v small though and I only add people I've met.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In all seriousness, it all depends on whether it appears that the interaction is going to go further than a quick chat or a hundred other variables!

Without sounds wanting to sound vague, it’s a very nebulous thing and goes by feel.

As GM said; I’ve some people that I chat to frequently but aren’t actually friends, other fab friends that I’ve not chatted with in months!

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"How long till you make a friend request? Or do you wait for them?"

It won't happen and we just ignore any we get.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Exactly 248 minutes from commencement of interaction

I think it’s after they send you a picture of a brick

What kind of weirdo would do that?! "

I don’t know what a weirdo

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Only accept friends request after I have meet them

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By *exyMPCouple
over a year ago

SOUTHEND-ON-SEA

If we've chatted for a while & are compatible, then we just ask politely if they'd mind us sending a friend request.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all never ask a lady if she asks me I’d have to decline if I have never chatted on fab with her just me x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"How long till you make a friend request? Or do you wait for them?"

Depending upon circumstances how well the conversation is, is it going to develop into something or possibilities, normally a gut feeling gives you the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once there's been plenty of chat and a connection has been established. I always ask before sending

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Exactly 248 minutes from commencement of interaction

I think it’s after they send you a picture of a brick

What kind of weirdo would do that?!

I don’t know what a weirdo "

I’d much rather giant stuffed animals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am asked very rarely. I don't ask anymore as I mostly just chat with nice ladies, who are far to sensible to consider meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Exactly 248 minutes from commencement of interaction

I think it’s after they send you a picture of a brick

What kind of weirdo would do that?!

I don’t know what a weirdo

I’d much rather giant stuffed animals"

Awwww Rosie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think and think and think then in a moment off madness send the invite.

most get ignored which is probabyl a good thing for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If requested or after meeting generally

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I never do. I don’t have any friends pics so it would be unfair to. I have enough pics on show, by the time I get to the stage I would share anymore we’d be chatting elsewhere anyway.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I only used to add if we were due to meet or already know each other off another site, I learnt my lesson very early on not to just add requests willy-nilly as it were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only used to add if we were due to meet or already know each other off another site, I learnt my lesson very early on not to just add requests willy-nilly as it were "

I'm very patient

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our friends list is just that. People we either want to meet or they are our type of people.

We add/ask them when we feel it’s right.

We have a lot of friends only pics so get a lot of random requests which just get ignored as then they can’t ask again

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a few messages

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

If i was you either wait or ask if you can? Mine are for friends av actually met as theres others in them x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I only used to add if we were due to meet or already know each other off another site, I learnt my lesson very early on not to just add requests willy-nilly as it were

I'm very patient "

It’s a virtue don’t ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only used to add if we were due to meet or already know each other off another site, I learnt my lesson very early on not to just add requests willy-nilly as it were

I'm very patient

It’s a virtue don’t ya know "

That's me. Virtuous to the core

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i was you either wait or ask if you can? Mine are for friends av actually met as theres others in them x"

Lol wasn't for me...it was just a question because I saw a profile recently that said something like all friend requests will be blocked

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I never send friend requests , 95%on my friends list are from real meets, 5% are friends in some way we conected and we will meet soon

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