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Wanking, as a word.

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

One for tha lay deeeezzz... Or anyone else...

There never seemed to be a good word for female masturbation. But rather than phrases like "flicking the bean" and all, has saying wanking become more genuinely relevant to everyone, whatever bits are being fiddled with... if you, as a woman, say you had a wank, do you say with with an association still with it being able male masturbation, or do you feel it's wholly, directly relevant to you these days?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Weirdly a female friend of mine calls it wanking and I always found it weird. Playing suits better

She’s a manc tho to be fair

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I just associate wanking with solo pleasure regardless of gender identity.

I'll quite often announce to myself (as I live alone lol) that I'm going to have a wank.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I quite like it when she's told me she's had/having a wank, dunno why but I quite like the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it a Lady Wank. Not sure why I feel the need to distinguish!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just add Lady at the start of it. It takes away the vulgar impact of the word. It's still the exact same act, just more refined and sophisticated.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I call it a Lady Wank. Not sure why I feel the need to distinguish! "

Same

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Just add Lady at the start of it. It takes away the vulgar impact of the word. It's still the exact same act, just more refined and sophisticated. "

This is why I just call it wanking. Although I have been told I'm very ladylike while doing it

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

A wank is a wank

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A wank is a wank "

If it looks like a wank, feels like a wank, sounds like a wank then it in fact must be, a wank!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"A wank is a wank

If it looks like a wank, feels like a wank, sounds like a wank then it in fact must be, a wank! "

What you're saying then, is if she weighs the same as a wank....

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Ooh, no! I disagree. I hate referring to it as a wank when I do it. I just say play. Wanking is for guys.

Sorry if I'm being old fashioned!

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A wank is a wank

If it looks like a wank, feels like a wank, sounds like a wank then it in fact must be, a wank!

What you're saying then, is if she weighs the same as a wank...."

We shall use my largest dildo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it playing, or masturbating. Wanking is definitely associated with male masturbation for me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just add Lady at the start of it. It takes away the vulgar impact of the word. It's still the exact same act, just more refined and sophisticated. "

How very role defining. Don't tend to see much of that in these more enlightened times.

Kind sir. Gadzooks n all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I used to associate it with men wanking, but now I call it that myself.

I wank

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't like the word wank anyway. I find it vulgar and crude. I used it though in the absence of anything better.

I detest the term 'lady-wank' or 'playing' .....

Why do people say , 'women's football' ? Why do you think we should say 'lady-wank?' - I'll spare everyone the reasoning.

For the ignorant - The clitoris is simply a small penis. It has a head, it has a shaft and the base of it which extends back into the body is far larger than what protrudes out of the body.

Women have diff sized clits. Some are able to actually wank as men do albeit with fingers. It's great ! I'd guess very many do rub, stroke, slap , stretch , flick and anything else that gets them off.

It's sex. Why presume a woman has to be a 'lady' ? What kind of fooking male ownerships of fanwahs and bits is this ?

We wank ..... end of.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I don't like the word wank anyway. I find it vulgar and crude. I used it though in the absence of anything better.

I detest the term 'lady-wank' or 'playing' .....

Why do people say , 'women's football' ? Why do you think we should say 'lady-wank?' - I'll spare everyone the reasoning.

For the ignorant - The clitoris is simply a small penis. It has a head, it has a shaft and the base of it which extends back into the body is far larger than what protrudes out of the body.

Women have diff sized clits. Some are able to actually wank as men do albeit with fingers. It's great ! I'd guess very many do rub, stroke, slap , stretch , flick and anything else that gets them off.

It's sex. Why presume a woman has to be a 'lady' ? What kind of fooking male ownerships of fanwahs and bits is this ?

We wank ..... end of. "

Granny for president!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the word wank anyway. I find it vulgar and crude. I used it though in the absence of anything better.

I detest the term 'lady-wank' or 'playing' .....

Why do people say , 'women's football' ? Why do you think we should say 'lady-wank?' - I'll spare everyone the reasoning.

For the ignorant - The clitoris is simply a small penis. It has a head, it has a shaft and the base of it which extends back into the body is far larger than what protrudes out of the body.

Women have diff sized clits. Some are able to actually wank as men do albeit with fingers. It's great ! I'd guess very many do rub, stroke, slap , stretch , flick and anything else that gets them off.

It's sex. Why presume a woman has to be a 'lady' ? What kind of fooking male ownerships of fanwahs and bits is this ?

We wank ..... end of. "

I thought it was more the penis was a large clitoris.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

It's just wanking. I don't see the need to attribute gender to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gosh I don't touch my lady bits. I'm no heathen. Sexual relations are within marriage and under cover of darkness. Birthdays and Christmas.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Jilling is a term for female masturbation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gosh I don't touch my lady bits. I'm no heathen. Sexual relations are within marriage and under cover of darkness. Birthdays and Christmas. "

Birthdays AND Christmas?! You hussy!

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