FabSwingers.com forum: The dream turned out to be a nightmare

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

So the dream job down south ...

Turned out to be a bloody nightmare

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Oh no! Why was that OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The job or the people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh honey! Gutted for you. What happened? Message me on WhatsApp if you like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh that's shit to hear.. what's wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the dream job down south ...

Turned out to be a bloody nightmare

Why what happened ! I know you were looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks when that happens. Something better will turn up I’m sure

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

So sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.

NBVN x

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Sorry bro it da work out

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry it seems like it didn't work out. Is it because you are maybe still adjusting that it feels that way? x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Come on tell us, just share it with the group. Come on. Come on we're all nosey bitches."

On a serious note, that sucks man. Hopefully it's not so bad that it can't be adjusted or adapted around over time. . Teething pains and such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your feeling better today x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so great! Feeling for you ...

Does it have the possibility of getting better?

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The job or the people? "

Both

Long story short

They changed the agreed pay

They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide

And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Sorry to hear that"

thank you x

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The job or the people? "

Both

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Oh honey! Gutted for you. What happened? Message me on WhatsApp if you like xx"

I’ll speak to you this week sometime my love x

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Ahh that's shit to hear.. what's wrong?"

. A few things

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"So the dream job down south ...

Turned out to be a bloody nightmare

Why what happened ! I know you were looking forward to it

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Sorry to hear this x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"The job or the people?

Both

Long story short

They changed the agreed pay

They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide

And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked

Ugh! Hope you didn't invest too much time and money into it - hoping something else comes around the corner for you!

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.

NBVN x "

Bruised ego

But worked out my self worth and grew a backbone

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"The job or the people?

Both

Long story short

They changed the agreed pay

They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide

And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked

Good on you

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Hope your feeling better today x"

I was

Now I feel like shite

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Hope your feeling better today x

I was

Now I feel like shite

Must have taken some courage to walk away from something you knew was toxic and not good for you - many don't. Well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.

NBVN x

Bruised ego

But worked out my self worth and grew a backbone

Then it was a success... Good on you.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the dream job down south ...

Turned out to be a bloody nightmare

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Hope your feeling better today x

I was

Now I feel like shite

Must have taken some courage to walk away from something you knew was toxic and not good for you - many don't. Well done.

I agree - it could have been so easy to stay & make yourself unhappy in the process. Fingers crossed you find something else ASAP xxx

J x

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.

NBVN x

Bruised ego

But worked out my self worth and grew a backbone

Then it was a success... Good on you.

NBVN x "

I feel proud

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Hope your feeling better today x

I was

Now I feel like shite

Must have taken some courage to walk away from something you knew was toxic and not good for you - many don't. Well done.

I agree - it could have been so easy to stay & make yourself unhappy in the process. Fingers crossed you find something else ASAP xxx

J x"

I was t getting paid enough to be unhappy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, sending hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the dream job down south ...

Turned out to be a bloody nightmare

Gutted for you, hope things get better for ya

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.

NBVN x

Bruised ego

But worked out my self worth and grew a backbone

Then it was a success... Good on you.

NBVN x

I feel proud

So you should! Many would suffer in silence - takes balls to do it.

They sound rather an unprofessional employer.

Something else will come up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that the dream went tits up youngling but kudos on binning them off!!!

Always remember that Barnsley is cool.

Tony

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Sorry to hear that the dream went tits up youngling but kudos on binning them off!!!

Always remember that Barnsley is cool.

Tony"

Thanks T

Not as cool as the south of France though

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Oh no, gutted for you. Something will turn up again I'm sure and at least you have the experience from this to be able to stand up for yourself and request a contract before moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that the dream went tits up youngling but kudos on binning them off!!!

Always remember that Barnsley is cool.

Tony

Thanks T

Not as cool as the south of France though

I concur as we live in the middle!!!!!

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like going down south and getting shafted.....

Seriously though OP like others have said alot of people stay in work they are not happy in out of fear of the unknown... it will 100% prove to be the right decision in the long run

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I’ve already bagged myself some PT/gym work starting soon

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Sorry to hear that the dream went tits up youngling but kudos on binning them off!!!

Always remember that Barnsley is cool.

Tony

Thanks T

Not as cool as the south of France though

I concur as we live in the middle!!!!!

Tony"

I’ve never lived in the middle but lived in Antibes last year

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Oh that really sucks, I know from your posts your were really excited about it!

Hopefully whatever you fall into you find enjoyment from it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve already bagged myself some PT/gym work starting soon

Well done you x

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Oh that really sucks, I know from your posts your were really excited about it!

Hopefully whatever you fall into you find enjoyment from it x"

Thanks

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I’ve already bagged myself some PT/gym work starting soon

Well done you x"

Thank you

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I’ve already bagged myself some PT/gym work starting soon

Bang on!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"The job or the people?

Both

Long story short

They changed the agreed pay

They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide

And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked

Brilliant response. Wish more people had the ability to walk away from a job that's turned sour. Very well done.

Hope good things come your way OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The job or the people?

Both

Long story short

They changed the agreed pay

They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide

And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked

You did the right thing as its awful staying in a job your not happy with especially when they change the goal posts.

Sorry it didn't work out but your maybe destined to find something better that makes you happy.

Mrs KC

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The job or the people?

Both

Long story short

They changed the agreed pay

They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide

And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked

You did the right thing as its awful staying in a job your not happy with especially when they change the goal posts.

Sorry it didn't work out but your maybe destined to find something better that makes you happy.

Mrs KC"

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