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Why do I get too nervous to meet

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I have had many offers of meets, but recently besides covid I have backed out and found excuses not to.

Reason?

I think I’m not confident anymore, since being ill my face aged a lot, now I feel uncomfortable meeting people

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I think COVID has made a lot of people nervous as well.

Maybe try a few socials with people you know already to build your confidence back up.

And don't be too hard on yourself, I'm sure once you get used to going out again it'll get easier

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont think you are alone in feeling that way. Hopefully as things get relatively back to some sort of normality, your mindset will change and you will get your sparkle back x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

You're definitely not alone in feeling that way - we joined at the wrong time, and although we keep saying we want something eventually, "eventually" keeps getting further away. Darn pandemic, and of course why not buy a house in the middle of it? Great move (no pun intended).

You'll be right, you'll get back to it.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

It’s natural to be nervous when meeting up, and with the added impact of Covid stopping so much contact understandable. Take your time, build up slowly.

xxx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I think many of us are nervous about meets again due to covid, add to that you've been ill so its not surprising you feel anxious.

Take it nice and slow and wait till you're comfortable and find someone who understands.

Stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so nervous and have backed out before.

Maybe try meeting someone who you know well for a social as a practice

Remember excitement can be mistaken for nerves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just meet when you feel ready ....

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I dont think you are alone in feeling that way. Hopefully as things get relatively back to some sort of normality, your mindset will change and you will get your sparkle back x"

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I get so nervous and have backed out before.

Maybe try meeting someone who you know well for a social as a practice

Remember excitement can be mistaken for nerves x"

Love your name btw

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