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"Nice sentiment but I’m not finding it hard. Well, you know what I mean "Well I’m glad to hear xx | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x " Fab is as hard as you make it  | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it "Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x " What are you finding hard at the moment mate | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard at the moment mate " Getting attention form more ladies makes me feel like I’m going something wrong | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging "Could be worse, you could attract no one. Take it as a compliment, try not to worry about things and keep your hopes up. Things will pick up.  | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
Could be worse, you could attract no one.
Take it as a compliment, try not to worry about things and keep your hopes up. Things will pick up. "Thank you I’m hoping so | |||
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"Why does noone want us OP? "Your always wanted by someone x | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x " Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging "If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them? | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x" this and COVID x | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x" Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing | |||
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"Filter them pesky single men to keep them off your cock Tell the women how you will smash their doors in if that fails get angry and insult them that should work No need to thank me " Not sure that’s the best way to approach things | |||
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"Why does noone want us OP?
Your always wanted by someone x"And sometimes by law enforcement lol | |||
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As for finding it hard to attract a comparable female, woman, lady or other on here I’d say don’t give up, I have an amazing FWB who approached me last year and we regularly see each other (we are bubbled up before anyone goes off on one) so although this was an absolutely surprising outcome it happened none the less so keep the faith and who knows | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing " It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people. | |||
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"Hiw many clubs have you been to? How many organised socials have you been to? If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to? " Clubs are all things I want to try but have been to nervous | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people." Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people. Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do " I wouldn’t talk about it with randoms anyway  | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people. Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do I wouldn’t talk about it with randoms anyway "?? | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing, "Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at? | |||
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"Hiw many clubs have you been to? How many organised socials have you been to? If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to? Clubs are all things I want to try but have been to nervous " It ain't just about being nervous, it's been about them being closed too. So that alone will stop hundreds upon hundreds of profiles communicating or wanting to communicate because they only meet at clubs. I've said it before a zillion times. This site isn't the holy grail to the road to minge. It's a tool. It's a platform. Many folks don't interact with new people on here, they use the site to keep up to date with events etc and communicate with people they connect with at said events. | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing,
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at?"I see what you mean x | |||
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"Hiw many clubs have you been to? How many organised socials have you been to? If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to? Clubs are all things I want to try but have been to nervous It ain't just about being nervous, it's been about them being closed too. So that alone will stop hundreds upon hundreds of profiles communicating or wanting to communicate because they only meet at clubs. I've said it before a zillion times. This site isn't the holy grail to the road to minge. It's a tool. It's a platform. Many folks don't interact with new people on here, they use the site to keep up to date with events etc and communicate with people they connect with at said events."  | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing,
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at?
I see what you mean x "It's very cock orientated. Most women will look at it and think "he has no clue what women are looking for" based purely on how you present yourself in the pictures. | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Sorry, single girl here. Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice. Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people. Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do I wouldn’t talk about it with randoms anyway
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it "To a certain degree, my profile is crystal clear on what I like and don't like. It doesn't stop the messages that I clearly wouldn't appreciate. Doesn't stop the messages with no picture attached and I have had bad meets that I had no influence in it going so wrong and not seeing them again xx | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing,
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at?
I see what you mean x
It's very cock orientated.
Most women will look at it and think "he has no clue what women are looking for" based purely on how you present yourself in the pictures."This is some really good advice in essence you get out what you put in. I can’t comment unless you ask for advice but all I can say is certain pictures mainly attract men... When clubs reopen definitely try and get to them and socials, use this site as a platform to keep in touch and build connections from there... that’s what I did when I first started | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x Fab is as hard as you make it
To a certain degree, my profile is crystal clear on what I like and don't like. It doesn't stop the messages that I clearly wouldn't appreciate.
Doesn't stop the messages with no picture attached and I have had bad meets that I had no influence in it going so wrong and not seeing them again xx"Sorry you had bad meets x | |||
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"I appreciate there's covid and the ratio of guys to girls on here, but would be nice to atleast get my messages read once in a while... Obviously my profile is crap!? " This is exactly my point with some things | |||
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"It's a struggle trying to keep up with replays to the messages from theys women and the constant clit pics driving me nuts " You keep telling your self that | |||
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"In general the most successful people on here are the ones who have a great, engaging profile, good pictures and make it clear what they have to offer. They can message and chat well and are just as good in person. Most people are on here looking for a fantastic connection and amazing sex with someone who’s clothes they want to tear off. Forgive me, but this post seems a bit of a pity party. What do you think is attractive about that? What were your expectations when you joined? As has been explained above, you don’t create a profile here and get inundated with people who want to fuck you (especially as sex with strangers has been illegal since you joined). If it’s hard for you here, then maybe it’s not the right place for you. It’s all meant to be fun. You need to get out of your head that being on here will lead to a meet, it might not. It doesn’t always. " I get that | |||
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"I appreciate there's covid and the ratio of guys to girls on here, but would be nice to atleast get my messages read once in a while... Obviously my profile is crap!? This is exactly my point with some things " Glad I'm not on my own! | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x " What are you finding hard? | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? " Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? " Don’t answer Op, it’s a trick question, | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong " They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. " Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point " I agree.
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops. "Well there are ruining it for the rest of us | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point " It ain't pointless to the person having the wank. People use the site differently. It'll do you good to remember that. Not everyone is here for the same thing so that does narrow down potential convos massively. You see thousands of profiles and wonder what is wrong with you or what you're doing wrong. The answer could actually be you're not doing anything wrong in the slightest, you simply haven't crossed paths with the 1 profile out of each 2000 that you'll be compatible with | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
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" But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us "The *only* person that ruins anything for anyone on here in terms of meeting/message responses is the individual profile owner that isn't getting meets/responses - no-one else. Saying other guys have ruined it for anyone is a cheap, and frankly lazy, cop out. Everything anyone needs to have a positive experience of the site is within their own control - there are no guarantees of meets or even responses of course, but understanding the site, how it works and using the tools at your disposal will improve perceptions and the overall experience. | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us "Yes they do. Those types piss women off so that they don't bother replying at all because they assume the man will want wank chat. Or that the man will be abusive if they say no thanks. Or they miss messages from decent men because their inbox is full of wank chat shit. Or they give up on meeting or talking to men at all because the creepy men put them off sex. | |||
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"Well there are ruining it for the rest of us " If that’s the case then you stand out be one of the ones that don’t  | |||
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x What are you finding hard? Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong They will look at your profile before replying. Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point It ain't pointless to the person having the wank. People use the site differently. It'll do you good to remember that. Not everyone is here for the same thing so that does narrow down potential convos massively. You see thousands of profiles and wonder what is wrong with you or what you're doing wrong. The answer could actually be you're not doing anything wrong in the slightest, you simply haven't crossed paths with the 1 profile out of each 2000 that you'll be compatible with " This! | |||
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"For me OP it's your age. I don't particularly want to fuck someone who could potentially be young enough to be my kid." That's a totally different webiste | |||
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"Hello Playful, where have you been? I felt the cold and followed it here. Good to see you" Hahaha! Yeah good man, hows you? | |||
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"I find reading a womans profile helps a great deal find out what theyre about what theyre looking for and not looking for if you dont fit the bill then you might not be for them. If you think you do then add something interesting for the subject and then be creative with your message. Just dont expect a message back, if you do get one back its a bonus. If at first you dont succeed try and try again (just not with the same person) " what he said...its not easy but dont give up trying..there are some good eggs on this site | |||
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" But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us
Yes they do. Those types piss women off so that they don't bother replying at all because they assume the man will want wank chat. Or that the man will be abusive if they say no thanks.
Or they miss messages from decent men because their inbox is full of wank chat shit.
Or they give up on meeting or talking to men at all because the creepy men put them off sex. "Know you're being ironic
....but if that really were the case then no-one, men nor women, would ever meet (when it's allowed) and that's patently not the case | |||
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