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Multiple meets or one offs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which is your preference in wining and what do you think the advantages of each are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make friends and some bi ladys known now over 12 years ... and one off are ok too .. just like knowing people as dont meet loads so when i do its fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which is your preference in wining and what do you think the advantages of each are?

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I try not to wine about either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefere to make friends with benifits rather than one offs

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"we prefere to make friends with benifits rather than one offs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets are one offs

I dont mind regular meet but i have met very few men who have made me want to meet them again

Call me shallow but if a meet a guy and he cant make me cum i wont meet him again

If the sex is good i'll re meet if not i wont, i see no point in re meeting a guy who has left me wanting more and having to finish myself off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit 'o both I'd say...

NSA one offs.... the unknown, the thrill of it, and just love finding someones intimate depths for the first time.

Regulars.... Dependable, Reliable, No-need-to-reinvent-the-wheelable. Oh yeah, and you can pick the one you want based on their known talents in certain departments.

So yeah.. a bit 'o both is just fine

Wolf

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Friends with benefits are the best but must admit that a liaison with a stranger can be exciting too.... especially if you are looking to experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs have their place and to be honest they do do suit me because I like the variety and to a degree the anonymity.

Regular returns also have their place but the stumbling block I find is that, generally, 1 or the other will start having feelings outside of the 'no strings' box. (obviously, I think with couples meets, the dynamics may be different).

My favourite kind of meet tho is the anonymous repeater - they are however difficult to find.

I have been meeting a guy for 3 years on and off. We don't see each other for weeks or months but will then get a message and arrange something.

When we meet, we do chit chat, have a laugh and sex that never leaves me disappointed, but when he goes back out thru the door, that's it til the next message.

We know each others names and some basic details about each other and tbh that is all we need.

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I prefer regular meets I think. Of course I love the excitement of meeting someone new, but find the sex gets better as you get to know each other and find out which buttons to press

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I prefer regular meets I think. Of course I love the excitement of meeting someone new, but find the sex gets better as you get to know each other and find out which buttons to press "

I agree the sex would get better over time m while it's great meeting new people n exploring each others bodies it's great to just have a regular thing that suits the both of you you both know what you like the more you meet you both know what turns you on so it's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind my regular hookups..but I dont like the term fuckbuddy really...especially as I like meeting new people-can always catch up with the friends at some point, NSA/friendship is a balance..I respect it from others too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than 3 meets with the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usualy only meet people more than once because i couldnt get anyone else at the time.

would prefer to meet lots of different men though.

its more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No more than 3 meets with the same person. "

Strike one!

Strike two!

Strike three!

Youuuuuuuuuuuree out!!!!

Great idea!! Although I'd probably only apply that to singles rather than couples!!

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

I prefer to make friends but the only friends I've made live miles away so hard to see them often, however I'd never say no to a one off although I'd be gutted if we got on really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No more than 3 meets with the same person.

Strike one!

Strike two!

Strike three!

Youuuuuuuuuuuree out!!!!

Great idea!! Although I'd probably only apply that to singles rather than couples!! "

Well i am a single female and don't meet couples.. lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

depends really on both parties involved what they want

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have a few guys that ive know for years and some that i may have only been with once but are good friends with. In fact i can only think of one meet in recent times where i had no contact with the person after i had said i didnt think it would work after a social meet

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I prefer regular meets I think. Of course I love the excitement of meeting someone new, but find the sex gets better as you get to know each other and find out which buttons to press "
i agree

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

The few Iv met have wanted me all to themselves as one said on here.... Thats the situation Im in now.... Why arrange to meet people that over 50% of the time let you down when you find someone thats reliable n you blow each others minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No more than 3 meets with the same person. "

I agree..3 maybe 4 tops x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I prefer to get to know people and see people regularly but they all start as one offs. Sometimes that means a lot of one offs and not enough regulars. Sometimes I'd rather do without than meet a new person and not know what I am getting because the tried and tested are not available.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I like a bit of both to be honest, some real good friends who I have met several times and hope to continue to meet them for years to come.

On the other hand you still can't beat the excitement and thrill of those one off meets, or the one's that come up out of the blue or were not expected...

Like most things in life, it's good to have a little variety....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still waiting for my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we prefere to make friends with benifits rather than one offs "

It has been known as the heat sets in or the horn on a late night for a one off, random meet. Depending on the chemistry usually dictates if further contact happens. Unfortunately for me the guys I have met in my past start to houned me as Mr sunshine pops out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a bit of both to be honest, some real good friends who I have met several times and hope to continue to meet them for years to come.

On the other hand you still can't beat the excitement and thrill of those one off meets, or the one's that come up out of the blue or were not expected...

Like most things in life, it's good to have a little variety...."

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I would say that each has its merits....multiple means you can build up a rapour woth people, although this can be risky, one offs are great, NSA sex.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I like a bit of both to be honest, some real good friends who I have met several times and hope to continue to meet them for years to come.

On the other hand you still can't beat the excitement and thrill of those one off meets, or the one's that come up out of the blue or were not expected...

Like most things in life, it's good to have a little variety.... "

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I would say that each has its merits....multiple means you can build up a rapour woth people, although this can be risky, one offs are great, NSA sex. "

Totally agree

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"No more than 3 meets with the same person. "

Hmmmm that's what I used to say. Seems to have been blown out of the water tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer regular guys we are friends with. I find that the sex gets better with each meet as we all more relaxed. I don't meet regularly so don't see them often enough to get bored. Lol.

One offs don't do a thing for me as I'm not into stranger sex but to each their own

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"bit 'o both I'd say...

NSA one offs.... the unknown, the thrill of it, and just love finding someones intimate depths for the first time.

Regulars.... Dependable, Reliable, No-need-to-reinvent-the-wheelable. Oh yeah, and you can pick the one you want based on their known talents in certain departments.

So yeah.. a bit 'o both is just fine

Wolf

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My thoughts entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like repeat meets as you know each others likes and dislikes. If someone gets clingy then its goodbye.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"We prefer regular guys we are friends with. I find that the sex gets better with each meet as we all more relaxed. I don't meet regularly so don't see them often enough to get bored. Lol.

One offs don't do a thing for me as I'm not into stranger sex but to each their own"

But surely all meets start off as a one off?....then only progress if all parties want to meet further?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

prefer to find a guy we get along with and stick with him where eva possible.. do have a few regular fellas but circumstances do undoubtedly change and at times new guys come along .. both can be fun but prefer regular fellas if given a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really enjoying a new regular friend, we do friend stuff as well as the shagging and it's great fun.

I also like one offs too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sporadic meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats within reason is always good intermixed with fresh meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've always preferred one offs to regular meets, unless there something pretty special, then i might meet up again

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