FabSwingers.com forum: Fate...

By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Do you believe in fate?

If so do you think fate is fixed or do you think you can change or influence it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, 100% i do.

i think fate is fixed, and regardless of what we say or do, what's meant to be will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. I believe we are destined to experience certain things but how we get through them is up to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have certain lessons to learn, but I think that we can determine our future by the actions we take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more about circumstances and opportunities being aligned

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Absoulutley! And no dont think we change it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in any mystical or supernatural sense. But I do think all human behaviour is heavily influenced by our genes (nature) and early life (nurture) so patterns of behaviour can seem predetermined, and true free will is a questionable concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fatey watey wibbly wobbly kinda thing

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

There is no order to the chaos

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

To answer the OP question

Abso fuxxxx lutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes, 100% i do.

i think fate is fixed, and regardless of what we say or do, what's meant to be will happen.

Px "

This

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fate is a deluded word, the idea that it's fixed us an unanswerable question

Think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. I have a tendency to see connections and meaning when there probably aren't any to be made. And I like personality quizzes and horoscopes (not daily ones).

At the same time realising that stuff just happens - and looking for reasons why can take you down a rabbit hole - and who I am is a mix of nature and nuture and lived experiences.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope, there's far too many variables for anything to control via fate

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No. I’ve heard it mentioned again recently. “What’s meant to be is meant to be”. I’m not buying into it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think fate is definitely a thing but it’s then up to us to how we work with it.

C had a stable of 3 guys she could call on, she wasn’t looking for anyone.

I was in a relationship and wasn’t looking for anyone.

Within a month, my relationship was over, I lost my job and I had to move home, one of C’s guys suddenly decided he wanted more and so a space became available.

I joined FAB to forget about my life unraveling and had to wait 2 weeks to get on the forum...within days I spotted C and sent a message. I then got another house and job.

She didn’t do guys with stubble, or hair for that matter but something about my pic intrigued her.

Neither of us were looking or thinking of a relationship at all...

Fate decided differently...lockdown happened and we formed a bubble...we messaged all the time and became really close. The

None of the above should have happened...it was like someone was giving us a massive helping hand. That was a series of events that neither of us forced, but it was as if it was being worked towards.

So I’ve got to say yes, I believe in fate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fate is definitely a thing but it’s then up to us to how we work with it.

C had a stable of 3 guys she could call on, she wasn’t looking for anyone.

I was in a relationship and wasn’t looking for anyone.

Within a month, my relationship was over, I lost my job and I had to move home, one of C’s guys suddenly decided he wanted more and so a space became available.

I joined FAB to forget about my life unraveling and had to wait 2 weeks to get on the forum...within days I spotted C and sent a message. I then got another house and job.

She didn’t do guys with stubble, or hair for that matter but something about my pic intrigued her.

Neither of us were looking or thinking of a relationship at all...

Fate decided differently...lockdown happened and we formed a bubble...we messaged all the time and became really close. The

None of the above should have happened...it was like someone was giving us a massive helping hand. That was a series of events that neither of us forced, but it was as if it was being worked towards.

So I’ve got to say yes, I believe in fate

Happy ending to a shit start

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I would have said no, not so long ago. Now, I'm not sure.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Do you believe in fate?

If so do you think fate is fixed or do you think you can change or influence it?

There is no fate but what we make for ourselves

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Any guess where that came from

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