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How high is your sex drive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you could have sex whenever you wanted it how many times a month/week/day would you have it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Somewhere between dormant and ten times a day. Ha

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Once a day would be great for me but not had that in decades I think...

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By *ugsly95Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Every day of the week I have a very hight sex drive, more I get the more I want it sounds bad, but I just find it so satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a day, everyday with the odd break here or there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can go from not bothered to every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who's offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too high for my own good.

I hate numbers. Also how nice is whole day edging. Or days long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice before work !

Twice when get home !

Or gasoline fills up ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every day of the week I have a very hight sex drive, more I get the more I want it sounds bad, but I just find it so satisfying "

I find I'm like that, I've been ages without and while it would be lovely, it's not the be all and end all but... If I'm active then I want more and more.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Every day a few times

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

7 or 8 times a day was probably where I peaked, and that was only because there was no work or anything else getting in the way!

In more recent times it'll probably only be a few times a day a couple of times a week. I shall exclude current events of being single and not having much so as not to skew those results.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

From the 1st gear to the 6th gear always hot , i love hight speeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could have sex whenever you wanted it how many times a month/week/day would you have it? "

What’s your answer?

I used to get it everyday. Now 4 times. I think quality over quantity is best like anything. But then again my kind of sex is different than most of yours

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Of the scale x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every day a few times "

Really?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

It’s pretty erratic. I can go for days without wanting to be touched, and then there’s days where I can’t keep my hands out my pants because I’m a walking wide on looking for victims. There’s really no in between

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sooo many variants for me (fem)!

Depends on;

What time of the month it is

What day of the week it is

Whether I've had a busy week/day

How well I've been sleeping

How long it's been since I last orgasm'd

What the weather's like

Whether I've been for a recent pamper sesh/tidy up/haircut

Whether the kids have been driving me insane

This list is not exhaustible...!

I do find though that the more I have great sex/play time with my man, the more I want it...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Always been ridiculously high.

Love it when I find someone up to the challenge

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Too high for my own good.

I hate numbers. Also how nice is whole day edging. Or days long. "

I wish I was disciplined enough to edge for even a day, never mind days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had my way it would be at every given opportunity several times every day of the week without fail..

My sex drive is far too high

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"If you could have sex whenever you wanted it how many times a month/week/day would you have it? "

When you can have sex whenever we want, it becomes less important, words like quality rather than quantity and where and when the mood takes us or who we may happen to meet.

People get too preoccupied with, how much, how often, how long? If you have a very active and satisfying, amazing sex life, you'd probably go much longer between times. Every one is different

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Now?

Erm, quarterly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

urmmm.. whenever i fancy it?

somewhere between once a month, and every 2.5hrs Px

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe 2-3 times a week on working days plus multiple times a day on days off . In a way I kind of like not having as much as I want though as I like having the chance to build up a real appetite for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you could have sex whenever you wanted it how many times a month/week/day would you have it?

What’s your answer?

I used to get it everyday. Now 4 times. I think quality over quantity is best like anything. But then again my kind of sex is different than most of yours "

I would say once or twice a day.

It does depend on other factors like some other posters have mentioned. Like how much sleep you've had, which point in a woman's cycle etc and the sex itself.

Between cycles my drive is higher.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

At least twice a day if possible

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Every day a few times

Really? "

Yes really

My sex drive is through the roof,can't find anyone to keep up though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every day a few times

Really?

Yes really

My sex drive is through the roof,can't find anyone to keep up though "

Mines the same think as getting older wanting to experiment more try new things shall we say ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Averaging it out, I would say everyday. But that would vary from once a week to 5 times a day. Just all depends on life.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Very high and alsways has been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies from needing it multiple times a day to a few days without

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure. Some days every other hour, sometimes once a week. It depends on a lot of external factors. Most days a couple of some sort of sexual activity time and I'd be very content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 times a day

But there's not even free time for that

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I’m all over the place but do try the make the most of child free nights. Once a week or fortnight but could easily go weeks or months. T is a patient man!!

J x

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By *oungukbull97Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Assuming I have the day free, twice at a minimum, if i'm busy then just once at night.

Every day though

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

It’s pretty damn high. Fortunately it’s matched by the woman who’s currently in bed with my cum dripping out of her

Mr x

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

But if you want an actual amount it’s tricky. Whenever the mood strikes us and we have time haha

Mr x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

My libido wants it constantly, my energy levels say once a day would be swell.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

All I can say is... Gimmie Gimmie gimme.. All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggle to find someone that can keep up if I'm to be entirely honest

All talk and no walk

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Depends on what the sessions are like as some have lasted a very long time and you couldn't fit that many into a day.

Twice a day would be good

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut."

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you. "

I was starting to think there was something wrong with me there with the responses so far.

I'd already gone into "who'd want me when I'm clearly "less than" the other women" mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it everyday if I could get any lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every day of the week I have a very hight sex drive, more I get the more I want it sounds bad, but I just find it so satisfying

I find I'm like that, I've been ages without and while it would be lovely, it's not the be all and end all but... If I'm active then I want more and more. "

This is me all over 3 yrs with nothing, now I fuck alot, specially with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far in my life mine's tended to be higher than my partners for sure ...

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you.

I was starting to think there was something wrong with me there with the responses so far.

I'd already gone into "who'd want me when I'm clearly "less than" the other women" mode."

I get that feeling all the time on here

I clamp up and go dry after too much sex. I think most people do to be honest. It’s definitely not just you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you.

I was starting to think there was something wrong with me there with the responses so far.

I'd already gone into "who'd want me when I'm clearly "less than" the other women" mode."

Tried to message you but I'm outside your age range

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you.

I was starting to think there was something wrong with me there with the responses so far.

I'd already gone into "who'd want me when I'm clearly "less than" the other women" mode.

I get that feeling all the time on here

I clamp up and go dry after too much sex. I think most people do to be honest. It’s definitely not just you "

Yet it doesn't get spoken about. No wonder people have unrealistic expectations of themselves and of others.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Over the last year I've basically got none so the moment clubs open I'm going to be fucking till I'm red raw!

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

About 5’9”

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you.

I was starting to think there was something wrong with me there with the responses so far.

I'd already gone into "who'd want me when I'm clearly "less than" the other women" mode.

Tried to message you but I'm outside your age range "

Tried to message but you've got women blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you. "

I would love to kiss kitty better for you if that help. Love your trimmed bush, look soft and silky.. sorry to divert the discussion

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I haven’t got a high sex drive at all. Once a week is enough for me. It’s what you do with that once a week that counts.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut.

I definitely need a day off to recover after a day of multiple rounds of sex. Might manage a few times over two days tops. So it isn't just you.

I was starting to think there was something wrong with me there with the responses so far.

I'd already gone into "who'd want me when I'm clearly "less than" the other women" mode.

Tried to message you but I'm outside your age range

Tried to message but you've got women blocked "

Temporarily removed filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends who it's with as to how much I want it. I can be insatiable with some men and 'meh' with others. Go figure.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

3 times a day is a good number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question: for the ladies who have daily or multiple times a day. Don't you get sore?

I swell up after a good session, and if it's multiple times a day over a few days my minge will practically swell shut."

This sometimes happens to me aswell, the more I cum the more my minge pushes things out,then won't let anything back in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really depends who it's with as to how much I want it. I can be insatiable with some men and 'meh' with others. Go figure."

Maybe the meh ones just ain't got the know how ?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Sub zero at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my relationship situation at the time. Fortunately my libido virtually switches off when the opportunity for sexy time is nil. When I'm in the honeymoon period with someone I'm insatiable. Once the infatuation and uber-lust settles down after a couple of years I'm very content with 3 times a week.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Once or twice a day with lots of tactile fun in between to build the anticipation XX would also help me stop eating bloody biscuits all the time so win win!! X

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Depends on my relationship situation at the time. Fortunately my libido virtually switches off when the opportunity for sexy time is nil. When I'm in the honeymoon period with someone I'm insatiable. Once the infatuation and uber-lust settles down after a couple of years I'm very content with 3 times a week."

Put me down for a Monday & Thursday?? XX

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Mine is pretty high, but I have to ignore it most of the time as there is so much more I want to do in life, that I really can't afford a few hours every day on sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once every 30minutes, from Monday to Friday, the weekend is reserved for pie and sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. The people on Fab are like super strong Bromide.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

10 to 12 times a day could work....

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

It’s off the chain, always, always want more! Starting to think I have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine comes and goes. But it's normally a 1 or a 9 for days and weeks at a time and then alternates xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero. It's completely dead down there. Usually takes a car battery and a set of jump leads to get things going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days I’d rather have it every other or few days in between (but a few rounds) than have it everyday being realistic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine comes and goes. But it's normally a 1 or a 9 for days and weeks at a time and then alternates xx"

Mines like this

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Mine goes up and down a lot - my sex drive that is.

I often find if I’m sat in my little office and lacking motivation for whatever reason, my mind turns to naughty things over my desk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is just returning after a dip where I only really wanted it every other day ish... Ideally a few/couple of times a day and the odd full on day of whenever, wherever, when I am at my best/worst... I may be making up for lost time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though the roof on both sides I would say

3-4 times a day both sides lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never. The people on Fab are like super strong Bromide. "

Hahahahahahahaha awesome! Seconded ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To high for the amount of sex I’m not getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice a day would be good

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Mines MIA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Higher than than the burj khalifa!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

2-3x a day. More if the partner is willing and time permits

Can't get enough of a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times a week would be lovely x

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Given the chance all day every day, stopping for food and then carry on lol

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Fridays only

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By *reeneyedminxWoman
over a year ago

near you


"Every day a few times

Really?

Yes really

My sex drive is through the roof,can't find anyone to keep up though "

Tell me about it!

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By *reeneyedminxWoman
over a year ago

near you

Sometimes I’m Happy with 3-5 times a week.

Other times it’s three times a day....

But if I haven’t for a while and attend a club...the greedy girl in me comes out

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

As often as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very highly sexed !

But like us all getting f**k all !

Just need a playmate ! Who’s as dirty as I am lol x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have the option pretty much whenever we want. We find a good session once a week with occasional mid-week interludes meets our needs.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Most days……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine seems to be particularly high at the moment... I can't think why!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh mines been none existent for a while now. It was off the scale, id thave it every hour, but i think ive been that busy over the past year its dwindled alot.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Once a day would be good lol

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By *el_123Woman
over a year ago

portsmouth

Mine is so high it’s through the damn roof... it’s an issue! Hahaha

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