FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies (mostly)

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you had an overnight meet planned.

How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times?

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

As many times as we could manage

At least a few times not just once

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Several for preference and if it’s overnight then definitely morning sex too

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I wouldn't do an over night but I'd be expecting all night if I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not expect a number put on it. From either of us. Hopes yes. Just enjoy whatever happens is my "philosophy".

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Any amount to be honest, if it's an overnight for me then it's not completely all about the sex, it's the company as well, the whole night, the sex is the icing on the cake so to speak.

But that's just what my overnight view is x

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By *incskinksCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Mrs here, I would want Several if its overnight. Preferably just an ongoing evening of fun with some drink breaks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d expect a few times and morning sex would be mandatory lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as time/energy would allow... Once on an overnight would make me very sad, unless it was all night

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

As many times as possible, no point doing all night for one x

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Wouldn’t do an overnight but would expect more than once if I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

several

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My thoughts is obviously I'd like more than once with great company...thought I was just being greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’d like a lot of sex in numerous positions..... especially overnight you need to make use of the time you have, so during the night and in the morning too........ so yes I’d expect sex more than once xxx

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

it’s depends on the person/mood of that overnight plan for me ... I personally prefer to be more playful night instead of full on sex all night long but regardless of the night , morning sex and cuddles will be expected , no doubt

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I prefer overnights assuming we really hit it off on all levels and yes I like to play ... a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than once in the evening and then morning sex ideally.

Depends though, if a session includes impact play, restraints etc, it could last for hours and I'd be more than happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many as possible, and in the morning as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A full evening of play, pausing for drinks and chats as we both recover, then sex again in the morning but after a cup of tea and teeth brushing!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If I could inject a male standpoint, I would want sex more than once or twice, the whole package, then fall asleep in each others arms or spoons, then when you wake up in the morning, start all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex is just one aspect of a meet. If we end up falling asleep afterwards then so be it. Or spend a few hours talking then I'm fine with that.

I spend time getting to know people before a meet so I'm always comfortable to go whichever way the night unfolds. Morning sex would be nice before we shower and head back to real life though

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My thoughts is obviously I'd like more than once with great company...thought I was just being greedy

It’s not greedy. It’s what I would hope for too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual sex once but with the rest of the evening in slow build up.

P.s. I'm not a lady.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It depends on how long the sex went on for?

20 minutes then I’d like a repeat. A few hours then fine with a few hours gap and maybe nothing till morning.

I like my sleep so all night sex is really not for me these days.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

"For me sex is just one aspect of a meet. If we end up falling asleep afterwards then so be it. Or spend a few hours talking then I'm fine with that.

I spend time getting to know people before a meet so I'm always comfortable to go whichever way the night unfolds. Morning sex would be nice before we shower and head back to real life though

Morning sex and a shower now your talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I could inject a male standpoint, I would want sex more than once or twice, the whole package, then fall asleep in each others arms or spoons, then when you wake up in the morning, start all over again "

I was going to interject a little piece as well mate, but as it was a question for the ladies, I thought not to.

But for my pennies worth I would like plenty of cuddles and kisses, with a build up to sex and if it was just the once in the evening, then no big deal as there is the rest of the next day especially in the morning

And hopefully it will not be a one off , as for me I prefer company over just sex.. sex.. sex..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It doesn't have to be actual penetration (there's a lot that can be done sexually without that) but I would like constant intimacy - whether that's naked cuddles and laughs, stroking, showering together etc. As far as penetrative sex goes, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person. As long as they were clearly into me I don't mind if it's a two pumps and done thing - we can still talk, kiss etc.

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Just go with flow

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done overnight meets, and it varies. We’ve had a okay, then gone for dinner, then come back, had a longer session, gone to sleep and then woken up in the middle of the night to carry on, and then gone again in the morning

. Tired but worth it.

With my bubble person, it depends if we’re using restraints/having impact play, in which case the first part will be longer, but we’ll usually cuddle and chat, and then go again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?"

In what way?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?

In what way? "

I guess it would be men feeling like they need to get hard/have penetrative sex several times in one night.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?"

Not at all, like others have said, if it's a long session then once would be more than adequate but if it were say 20-30 mins then I personally would like a repeat.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I never have any expectations, I just go with the mood and the dynamic between us...even with the same person, two overnight meets can be completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd assume we knew each other well to have an overnight and that we'd know each others needs. I'd never go in with a set plan, I find that idea a bit too calculated and cold. If I'm staying overnight, we clearly enjoy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?

In what way?

I guess it would be men feeling like they need to get hard/have penetrative sex several times in one night."

Well yes, but I was curious about his take on it..

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

As many as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?

Not at all, like others have said, if it's a long session then once would be more than adequate but if it were say 20-30 mins then I personally would like a repeat."

Bloody heck.. think of some of us older men we may need longer that 20-30 mins

OAP and proud here

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It doesn't have to be actual penetration (there's a lot that can be done sexually without that) but I would like constant intimacy - whether that's naked cuddles and laughs, stroking, showering together etc. As far as penetrative sex goes, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person. As long as they were clearly into me I don't mind if it's a two pumps and done thing - we can still talk, kiss etc."

That's how I feel too.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'd assume we knew each other well to have an overnight and that we'd know each others needs. I'd never go in with a set plan, I find that idea a bit too calculated and cold. If I'm staying overnight, we clearly enjoy each other. "

This is how I'd feel if I stayed overnight with someone.

Go with the flow

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?

In what way?

I guess it would be men feeling like they need to get hard/have penetrative sex several times in one night."

In my reply I used “lots of play”, by that I meant being attentive to each other , not necessarily penetrative sex . Rather than 1/2 hour humping, turn over and go to sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tip for the ladies:

If he prepares a four or five course heavy meal for you, it's once and done for him.

However a smaller, lighter meal n he's going for it all night

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Any amount to be honest, if it's an overnight for me then it's not completely all about the sex, it's the company as well, the whole night, the sex is the icing on the cake so to speak.

But that's just what my overnight view is x"

This. None, once or 10, whatever feels right at the time.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I would like dinner followed by 10 minutes of rutting. Tops on, no eye contact, lights off. This will be followed by showers and a solid 8 hours of sleep. In the morning we’ll make small talk on the weather.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"If you had an overnight meet planned.

How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times? "

I would be happy with once long as its kind of long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few hotel meets and it's only ever been for a an evening and we have several so if it was an overnight I would definitely expect the same with more buildup

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By *evious TMan
over a year ago

London

Definitely

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By *evious TMan
over a year ago

London

As many as possible and of course we got to get it in the morning love a burst in the morning….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any amount to be honest, if it's an overnight for me then it's not completely all about the sex, it's the company as well, the whole night, the sex is the icing on the cake so to speak.

But that's just what my overnight view is x"

Totally agree. If I like someone enough to spend that much time with them the sex is not what it's about.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I would like dinner followed by 10 minutes of rutting. Tops on, no eye contact, lights off. This will be followed by showers and a solid 8 hours of sleep. In the morning we’ll make small talk on the weather.

Sounds amazing. Make it a macdonalds and you have a deal.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Sounds amazing. Make it a macdonalds and you have a deal. "

Sounds absolutely perfect.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

An over night is more about the person I'm with and enjoying their company that just the sex and the amount of sex. It would be more about being able to take our time and enjoy each others bodies rather than having the normal more rushed meets.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd be happy with once if it was really good. Though it's nice to have morning sex too. Leave each other with a smile.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

depends on how good it was to be honest

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

For me it would have to be as a bare minimum once at night and once again in the morning.

But I wouldn't say no to waking in the night with a hard cock spoon against my ass.....

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am faced with this dilemma soon ...

2-3 times in the night possibly? A good morning couple of orgasms as well? But not all night... I am too old for that, I need my sleep lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me sex is just one aspect of a meet. If we end up falling asleep afterwards then so be it. Or spend a few hours talking then I'm fine with that.

I spend time getting to know people before a meet so I'm always comfortable to go whichever way the night unfolds. Morning sex would be nice before we shower and head back to real life though

Morning sex and a shower now your talking

Got to be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had an overnight meet planned.

How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times?

I would be happy with once long as its kind of long

xx"

And women keep telling it's not the size that matters, nice that your honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’d just turn up and see what happened without expectations to be honest. Obviously we discuss ideas before hand to make sure we’re all on the same page but beyond that , what happens happens

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

More than once and i wouldnt be happy if there wasnt morning sex öol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Very very rarely do an overnight. They'd need to be pretty special

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think im to old for all night sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs to be an all night sex marathon ha ha

Who needs sleep?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’d have no expectations

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Several hopefully.. with loads of other sexy stuff

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If it’s an over night I like sex when I get there, then a drink/chat with a bit more sex before a shower then food, then more sex before sleep and then more sex in the morning

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

More than once. I wouldn't necessarily expect morning sex if we had been going through the night.

Mrs

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"If you had an overnight meet planned.

How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times? "

When you say "How many times" do you specifically mean penetration? You could have one ongoing session with lots of foreplay or do you mean multiple sessions?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Go with the flow!

Teasing, sex, laughing, chat, snack stops

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you had an overnight meet planned.

How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times?

When you say "How many times" do you specifically mean penetration? You could have one ongoing session with lots of foreplay or do you mean multiple sessions? "

Multiple sessions....its different if its one long session with other things thrown into the mix, like toys, restraints and what not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If overnight then, IMO, a nice long session with lots of teasing and fucking making sure all are pleased or just worn out haha then crash to wake up to some of the same before breakfast mmmmmm

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Go with the flow!

Teasing, sex, laughing, chat, snack stops

This is the way. No agenda or itinerary. Good communication will make everyone happy.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I would want to go with what we find there is between us. Hopefully plenty good conversation flowing into loads of luscious massage, sex, snogs, play, snack, repeat until we pass out in spoons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For an overnight meeting I would like the bedroom smelling sex from the corridor in the hotel and make all the staff looking at us with envy as we walk out... and the bed wrecked of course...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We'd probably go with filling up the evening with sex for a two or three hours (or longer). The rest of the evening could be more relaxing by being cuddly and sensual. Night time is for sleeping. Then we could wake up and do much the same again.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As many times as we both had the energy for with long snuggle cuddles inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 2 or 3 times in the evening, maybe in the middle of the night, at least once in the morning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 times with sensual/foreplay type stuff in between. Not keen on morning sex but in the right mood i’ll do it

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"For an overnight meeting I would like the bedroom smelling sex from the corridor in the hotel and make all the staff looking at us with envy as we walk out... and the bed wrecked of course... "

This

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"I’d have no expectations

This

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All of the best meets I have had haven't been about the quantity, or any set agendas or tick lists , but simply about relaxing, going with the flow, enjoying each others company, and seeing where it leads.

Not all my meets have included penetrative sex either, and yet we've walked away with smiles on our faces - as Meli said there are plenty of other intimate activities, so I don't tend to think of penetrative sex as being a goal, rather just another option on a vast pleasurable smorgasbord to choose from.

The key is everyone being comfortable and walking away with a smile and wanting to repeat the experience.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Quick, rampant shag first as walking through the room door.

Then a prolonged session till the early hours.

A morning lazy spooning before breakfast.

Then a quicky before the checkout time.

Doesn't have to be with the same guy, if I've managed to get overnight childcare then I'm making the most of the time.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

This for me too. I don’t like plans and pressure. I’m a go with the flow person.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Quick, rampant shag first as walking through the room door.

Then a prolonged session till the early hours.

A morning lazy spooning before breakfast.

Then a quicky before the checkout time.

Doesn't have to be with the same guy, if I've managed to get overnight childcare then I'm making the most of the time.

Go lady! I like you're way of thinking.

Mrs

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Quality never quantity

expectations only lead to disappointment....

It’s all about enjoying each other’s company in the time you have to enjoy it

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I would be happy even if there was no penetrative sex involved. I enjoy the intimacy of just kissing and cuddling while chatting before holding each other while we sleep x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I would be happy even if there was no penetrative sex involved. I enjoy the intimacy of just kissing and cuddling while chatting before holding each other while we sleep x"

I would be happy for that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want a women that wont steel the quilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a overnight I expect full sex, more then once.

I wouldn’t arrange a overnight if it only consisted of foreplay and cuddles.

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By *aria_aldershotTV/TS
over a year ago

Aldershot

Definatley more than the once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definatley more than the once

Most men say they can then they can't so beggars can't be choosers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definatley more than the once

Most men say they can then they can't so beggars can't be choosers

Bonus if they can though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a overnight I expect full sex, more then once.

I wouldn’t arrange a overnight if it only consisted of foreplay and cuddles. "

You've not been cuddled properly then!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a overnight I expect full sex, more then once.

I wouldn’t arrange a overnight if it only consisted of foreplay and cuddles.

You've not been cuddled properly then!

Ha ha that could be true ...

But unless they provide me with the full service I’m not putting out on the cuddle front.

Getting a cuddle out of me is harder then getting sex from me

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

"Personally I would be happy even if there was no penetrative sex involved. I enjoy the intimacy of just kissing and cuddling while chatting before holding each other while we sleep x"

I'd be disappointed. I want it all.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Personally I would be happy even if there was no penetrative sex involved. I enjoy the intimacy of just kissing and cuddling while chatting before holding each other while we sleep x"

Naked?

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